Who do you think is more delusional about who’s “in their league”? Men or women?
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Anonymous
| Men, it's why they fall for honeypots all the time and women very rarely do. |
Anonymous
+100 I have a feeling many people quietly believe my DH is out of my league. But has worked for us so I dgaf |
Anonymous
ok, but this thread isn't about being "picky" but about which side is more delulu. Seems like I hit a nerve with the study. yawn yourself. |
Anonymous
| Men - 1,000%. |
Anonymous
DP. Yes, good, as to be expected. The consequences of ending up with their child having a dud for the other parent is far higher. |
Anonymous
Actually, seeing the low lifes women reproduce with makes me think men are more picky. |
Anonymous
She got out |
Anonymous
| Men. And it isn't even close. |
Anonymous
Yes, but men are conditioned to just go after anyone to see if they have a shot. Women are more picky, like the pp said. |
Anonymous
Yes, women. Very delusional about what they "deserve". |
Anonymous
I don't know... The only delusional men are the incels who have given up interacting with women because they believe they are entitled to some sort of perfect woman. Most men ask as many viable women (a huge range in quality) as possible then settle into the best circumstances. You can't really be delusional when you are playing a numbers game where a woman on the high or low end of the scale might say yes. |
Anonymous
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Men, and it’s why they blame feminism for everything. They think they are entitled to a 25-year-old beautiful woman when they themselves are 55, bald and obese just because they have money. They hate that women don’t have to be financially dependent on men and they can choose a partner they are compatible with and attracted to, not just someone who can provide financially.
- someone who out-earns her husband and married for love, attraction, and commitment. |
Anonymous
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Hmmm, I think it’s less about what’s in your league and more about the amount of effort required. In which case, men are more delulu.
I’m 40 and put in the effort to maintain my appearance, make a solid income, can hold a conversation, have a solid OLD profile, show up looking nice for a date, and am willing to do my share to make a relationship work. But I see far too many men who put in bare minimum effort yet still feel entitled to sex/a relationship. They look bad, dress badly, put a couple of terrible selfies on their profile with “just ask!” as their bio, don’t want to plan a date, don’t want to travel for a date, hell most of them don’t even want to go on an actual date. They want to look and act gross yet expect women to come to them to give them BJs. Most of them would do just fine with women if they shaved, bought some nice clothes, and put some effort into dating. |
Anonymous
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Women expect a man to make a good income, but also not work too much. This is a common delusion they have.
Most high incomes require long hours and high level of commitment. One of my friends who earns 7 figures is getting divorced because his wife doesn’t like his workaholism, yet the wife doesn’t work and enjoys spending his money |
Anonymous
| I'm a man and I'll pursue woman I know are out of my league, even way out all the time. I'm not concerned about what they think of me. It's about my desire for them. |