A year from now, you will barely remember these families. |
+1. And they are probably secretly doing the lottery every year too. |
Yep. I taught there way back when SWW required a test and remember results day distinctly. It was a great day for some kiddos and a not so great day for others. I do believe that most kids got into a school on their list, even if it wasn't #1. |
It really isn’t as much of a lottery as people seem to think. Applicants are ranked (points), and the top ones get in. The only time a lottery number matters is for candidates right on the edge of getting in who all have the same score. I agree that the criteria for ranking kids is hugely subjective and doesn’t lead to the smartest kids always getting in, but a subjective application process is not the same as a random lottery, and it feels different to kids getting results. |
Right and there are also the essays and interviews. There are a lot of data points that are considered. I, too, am unclear on how the ranking works in relation to the lottery — like even if my kid is ranked in top 100 of applicants, do they still get in if they have a really horrible lottery number? This is the anxiety i have today (choosing to believe my is qualified otherwise, I know could be wrong!). |
Yes, if your kid is in the top 100 kids as ranked by Walls, they will get in regardless of their lottery number. The reason people say the admissions system is like a lottery is that the factors are so subjective that many results don't seem rational. |
To me, this is a heartbreaking part about the lottery -- the "winners" and "losers." Especially as the kids get older and middle and high school pathways feels actually life altering. As for the elementary school parents who are judgemental -- this is all because they are not completely sure they are making the right decision for their own kid. Whe you leave, it creates evidence that there is a better school than their current school and their kid may be missing out, and it feeds that feeling, which im sure feels awful. This all supports the plan of saying less to families to stay. Also, elementary school really isn't that high stakes, so staying is fine, and taking a better opportunity is also fine. |
+1. By lottery, I mean that it's opaque and arbitrary, not that your literal lottery number matters. |
It would be much easier as a lottery among GPA-qualified kids. Faster and less hassle for everyone and no less arbitrary! |
PP here and thanks for the info. Do you know if this is true for Banneker as well? |
https://www.myschooldc.org/how-apply/applying-high-school You can see all the criteria there. |
Yes, your actual lottery number is not relevant to Banneker admissions. This is because Banneker always manages to admit every kid they deem qualified who doesn’t match with a higher ranked school. When they occasionally wind up with a waitlist, as for the current junior class, they then clear the waitlist and simply have a larger cohort. (That said, the Banneker admissions system is also somewhat arbitrary, opaque, and subjective!) |
I wouldn't go this far but yes, everyone moves on. An observation from someone who moved a kid from a school like this (with a small cohort of families who were very judgmental of anyone who lotteried out) is that the mere existence of a cohort like this is evidence of the problems at the school. We moved to a school with a lot more IB buy-in and better retention year to year. And guess what, that school doesn't have a cohort of judgmental parents giving side eye to anyone who might leave this school. In fact, at our new elementary, kids leave for various reasons all the time (got into a charter that starts at 5th, moved to private, parents are moving, etc.) and there's really no judgment or anger. Sometimes sadness at saying goodbye to friends, but people are wished well and everyone moves on. The reason why is that people feel good about this school. If a family leaves for whatever reason, that doesn't change what people like about the school. Whereas at our old school, there was intense pressure to stay because of this perception that even one or two IB families leaving could make or break a cohort. That sucks! I hated it. I'm so glad to now be at a school where people are not examining our choices that much and, while we feel welcome at the school, no one is counting on us to make the exact same choices they will make. It is so nice to get rid of that pressure. We also feel less pressure and resentment over things like attending school wide events (lots of people go to all of them, if you miss some for a conflict or just too tired, no one cares), participating in PTO (lots of involvement, makes it easier to give/volunteer where you can and not feel like the whole thing depends on your participation all the time), etc. It's just a more functional environment. |
+1 on the dynamics of telling your elementary school family friends about leaving for a lottery spot, we had to navigate this several years ago and didn't share the news for a while. Had a close-knit group that included the school's most active supporters. We didn't share details about why were leaving just said things like "a better fit." We found out after we left that more than a few had been secretly playing the lottery. Now that the kids are nearer to MS it is clear most of these families will leave the school before 5th, we just did it early. Our kids were pretty small (early elementary) and we told them about the new school during the second half of the summer...absolutely would not have told them before they completed that final year at the old school, they would have been devastated. But they're thriving where we are now, and we still see families still going to our old school quite a bit. Even though it has been years we are still pretty mum about details on the differences between the schools (unless pointedly asked) because of the reasons PP says above -- it doesn't feel good to think your kid might be missing out on some of these things and the school we left has a lot of good features too. |
I believe this is generally true except for the kids right on the edge in terms of score. So if they are taking the top 100 kids, and kids 99, 100, and 101 all have exactly the same score then their lottery number would determine which two would get in and which one would be waitlisted. |