Is this cheating? I’d assume it’s not common

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Ehhh. Kinda’ weird.

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Do most women rush home to masturbate before husband and kids get home?

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Anonymous wrote:Do most women rush home to masturbate before husband and kids get home?

Yes. And or what do you think they’re doing in the bathtub?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry but this is so odd to me (but definitely not cheating). I have a very close group of girlfriends, we talk about sex often, have little boundaries with what we discuss. And this has never and would never happen.

Has your group never considered getting together for an evening “slumber party?” (think: your mom’s Tupperware party, but adult-themed items for order).

My group has done one of these parties and no one said they were racing home to use their products and would report back when they finished. There’s a difference between talking about which vibrator you like best and getting horny over a mutual discussion where you’re texting about your progress to finishing. I think these ladies are testing the waters for their next sleepover vacation together…

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Anonymous wrote:I assume this is the two women going to home to masturbate. And I do not think it's cheating, but maybe a little weird. Sort of like a circle jerk.

Exactly, and gotta love DCUM. It’s 2 women, I’m the husband. I think it’s "slightly" cheating. I asked if she’d care if I did it with a female friend, and "that’s different"

DH here: with respect, my friend, debating the metaphysics of whether or not this is “cheating” seems to me suboptimal here. There are all sorts of better ways to leverage this…..

[Anonymous]

It's just really, really weird.

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Anonymous wrote:It's just really, really weird.

+1. Bizarre. Not cheating.

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Anonymous wrote:DW (50) had lunch with a friend she sees a few time a month. Apparently there was some hot topic brought up, and the friend said she can’t wait to get home and "take care of business". Somehow this became a game of they both went home to do so as a race to see who could finish first. She showed me texts where they both started, who "won" etc.

I thought it was kind of hot, but did say it’s slightly cheating, she disagrees and says it’s more common than I’d think, and just harmless fun. It’s cheating right?

You’re a lucky man. And an idiot.

Succinct and accurate

[Anonymous]

OP you could have turned this into something fun (for yourself) but instead you're posting on DCUM. Smh.

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Anonymous wrote:Do most women rush home to masturbate before husband and kids get home?

Yes. And or what do you think they’re doing in the bathtub?

Most women are soaking and relaxing. Not masturbating.

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Anonymous wrote:I assume this is the two women going to home to masturbate. And I do not think it's cheating, but maybe a little weird. Sort of like a circle jerk.

Exactly, and gotta love DCUM. It’s 2 women, I’m the husband. I think it’s "slightly" cheating. I asked if she’d care if I did it with a female friend, and "that’s different"

Guarantee she would also have an issue with it if you had done the same with a male friend. She had different rules for herself.

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Anonymous wrote:If some one posted that their husband talks about masturbating with his friend then they both go home and masturbate at the same time and text each other while they are doing and talk about who cums first, this thread would look very different.

Now that’s an interesting question.

For the unaware, go google “circle jerk.” Assume we are talking about a minimum of 3 men; same-space/ visible to each other/ NO touching (other than themselves, of course).

Would that be cheating? Would it matter whether the men were straight, bi, or gay? Just wondering here.

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Anonymous wrote:Is it cheating when sex with has been very infrequent (obligation), and your wife masturbates (solo) to take of her needs? In my view it’s a form of cheating, even though she isn’t having sex,hooking up, or having intimate conversations with another.

I’m debating whether have a conversation with about this this, and to frame it as cheating.

Cheating? No. But it's a massive neon sign saying you suck in bed, and having a conversation where you frame it as cheating, which it isn't, certainly won't help that situation at. all.

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Anonymous wrote:How in the hell is that cheating?

Would you see it as not cheating if both women were lesbians?

How about bi ?

What if instead of texting, they face-timed / used a web cam while they “took care of business” together ?

Can you honestly not see the difference between talking about something and live-camming the something? Really?

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