College freshmen and HS relationships

[Anonymous]

Work to be the best version of yourself, and learn new skills along the way. You will attract new girlfriends in no time.

[Anonymous]

He needs to dump her before rush starts. Top-tier fraternities want pledges who pull, not guys whose long-distance girlfriends back home track them with an app and ream them out for being at a party. Or guys who have to be in their dorm room at a certain time every night for their scheduled FaceTime call.

College is about meeting new people and exploring new connections. A bid to a top-tier house means access to the best parties and the best girls on campus, but he won't get one if he keeps trying to cling to high school. Staying with a girlfriend from back home in college is like having 20,000 new bombshells enter the villa all at once and refusing to explore connections with any of them. Lame!

If he stays with her, even for a few more months, he’ll regret it later. He’s not going to marry this girl - most freshman long-distance relationships end by Thanksgiving Not to mention he sounds miserable with her to begin with. Tell him to dump her and dump her fast.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He needs to dump her before rush starts. Top-tier fraternities want pledges who pull, not guys whose long-distance girlfriends back home track them with an app and ream them out for being at a party. Or guys who have to be in their dorm room at a certain time every night for their scheduled FaceTime call.

College is about meeting new people and exploring new connections. A bid to a top-tier house means access to the best parties and the best girls on campus, but he won't get one if he keeps trying to cling to high school. Staying with a girlfriend from back home in college is like having 20,000 new bombshells enter the villa all at once and refusing to explore connections with any of them. Lame!

If he stays with her, even for a few more months, he’ll regret it later. He’s not going to marry this girl - most freshman long-distance relationships end by Thanksgiving Not to mention he sounds miserable with her to begin with. Tell him to dump her and dump her fast.

OMG> Respectfully, you're lame.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He needs to dump her before rush starts. Top-tier fraternities want pledges who pull, not guys whose long-distance girlfriends back home track them with an app and ream them out for being at a party. Or guys who have to be in their dorm room at a certain time every night for their scheduled FaceTime call.

College is about meeting new people and exploring new connections. A bid to a top-tier house means access to the best parties and the best girls on campus, but he won't get one if he keeps trying to cling to high school. Staying with a girlfriend from back home in college is like having 20,000 new bombshells enter the villa all at once and refusing to explore connections with any of them. Lame!

If he stays with her, even for a few more months, he’ll regret it later. He’s not going to marry this girl - most freshman long-distance relationships end by Thanksgiving Not to mention he sounds miserable with her to begin with. Tell him to dump her and dump her fast.

+1

Guys who cling on to girls back home do not have the skill to acquire new ones. Girls should dump those losers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He needs to dump her before rush starts. Top-tier fraternities want pledges who pull, not guys whose long-distance girlfriends back home track them with an app and ream them out for being at a party. Or guys who have to be in their dorm room at a certain time every night for their scheduled FaceTime call.

College is about meeting new people and exploring new connections. A bid to a top-tier house means access to the best parties and the best girls on campus, but he won't get one if he keeps trying to cling to high school. Staying with a girlfriend from back home in college is like having 20,000 new bombshells enter the villa all at once and refusing to explore connections with any of them. Lame!

If he stays with her, even for a few more months, he’ll regret it later. He’s not going to marry this girl - most freshman long-distance relationships end by Thanksgiving Not to mention he sounds miserable with her to begin with. Tell him to dump her and dump her fast.

I hope this poster is just trying to be provocative. I certainly hope my DC's long-distance partner doesn't get advice like this. It's kind of gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He needs to dump her before rush starts. Top-tier fraternities want pledges who pull, not guys whose long-distance girlfriends back home track them with an app and ream them out for being at a party. Or guys who have to be in their dorm room at a certain time every night for their scheduled FaceTime call.

College is about meeting new people and exploring new connections. A bid to a top-tier house means access to the best parties and the best girls on campus, but he won't get one if he keeps trying to cling to high school. Staying with a girlfriend from back home in college is like having 20,000 new bombshells enter the villa all at once and refusing to explore connections with any of them. Lame!

If he stays with her, even for a few more months, he’ll regret it later. He’s not going to marry this girl - most freshman long-distance relationships end by Thanksgiving Not to mention he sounds miserable with her to begin with. Tell him to dump her and dump her fast.

The frat god is out here throwing out Love Island and Bronx Tale references. I didn't know he was so cultured.

[Anonymous]

DS is in his junior year of college and still with his hs gf. They get along well and seem to be on the same page. They met fall of hs senior year and stayed together while at different schools (GF attends comm college). DS genuinely loves her and isn’t the type to date tons of girls at once. He likes being in a relationship.

From a missed opportunity stand point, I don’t think DS is missing out on much. GF is gorgeous and DS attends a high academic school. GF is prettier than 99% of the women at his school. DS is very studious and has a very demanding major (engineering). They see each other about once a month. GF lived with him during his summer internships. They are not discussing marriage and practice safe sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He needs to dump her before rush starts. Top-tier fraternities want pledges who pull, not guys whose long-distance girlfriends back home track them with an app and ream them out for being at a party. Or guys who have to be in their dorm room at a certain time every night for their scheduled FaceTime call.

College is about meeting new people and exploring new connections. A bid to a top-tier house means access to the best parties and the best girls on campus, but he won't get one if he keeps trying to cling to high school. Staying with a girlfriend from back home in college is like having 20,000 new bombshells enter the villa all at once and refusing to explore connections with any of them. Lame!

If he stays with her, even for a few more months, he’ll regret it later. He’s not going to marry this girl - most freshman long-distance relationships end by Thanksgiving Not to mention he sounds miserable with her to begin with. Tell him to dump her and dump her fast.

+1

Guys who cling on to girls back home do not have the skill to acquire new ones. Girls should dump those losers.

Sounds like someone is jealous they can't pull or keep a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

“ They are not discussing marriage and practice safe sex.”

It is cringe and creepy AF that you know this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:“ They are not discussing marriage and practice safe sex.”

It is cringe and creepy AF that you know this.

Eh. I’d like my kid to assure me she practices safe sex if and when she has a college boyfriend.

Weirder to me is that OP confidently says the GF is prettier that 99% of the girls at her son’s school. How on earth would you make that determination?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“ They are not discussing marriage and practice safe sex.”

It is cringe and creepy AF that you know this.

Eh. I’d like my kid to assure me she practices safe sex if and when she has a college boyfriend.

Weirder to me is that OP confidently says the GF is prettier that 99% of the girls at her son’s school. How on earth would you make that determination?

Not the PP but engineering school is not known for good looking girls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“ They are not discussing marriage and practice safe sex.”

It is cringe and creepy AF that you know this.

Eh. I’d like my kid to assure me she practices safe sex if and when she has a college boyfriend.

Weirder to me is that OP confidently says the GF is prettier that 99% of the girls at her son’s school. How on earth would you make that determination?

Not the PP but engineering school is not known for good looking girls.

Whole post is cringy. GF attends CC and son at high academic. No wonder they aren’t discussing marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“ They are not discussing marriage and practice safe sex.”

It is cringe and creepy AF that you know this.

Eh. I’d like my kid to assure me she practices safe sex if and when she has a college boyfriend.

Weirder to me is that OP confidently says the GF is prettier that 99% of the girls at her son’s school. How on earth would you make that determination?

+1

[Anonymous]

Gross. Commenting on girls’ looks. Hope the gf gets out of community college soon and broadens her own horizons!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DS is in his junior year of college and still with his hs gf. They get along well and seem to be on the same page. They met fall of hs senior year and stayed together while at different schools (GF attends comm college). DS genuinely loves her and isn’t the type to date tons of girls at once. He likes being in a relationship.

From a missed opportunity stand point, I don’t think DS is missing out on much. GF is gorgeous and DS attends a high academic school. GF is prettier than 99% of the women at his school. DS is very studious and has a very demanding major (engineering). They see each other about once a month. GF lived with him during his summer internships. They are not discussing marriage and practice safe sex.

It's concerning that this poster seems to think that women's value is in their looks, and while there may be financial, personal or sound academic reasons why the GF is at comm. college, the vibe of the above message implies that she is not on the same intellectual wavelength as DS (and to be clear, I mean not that DS and his girlfriend have different strengths--e.g. one is mathematical while the other is musical--but that the DS is clearly smarter than his GF). It's 2025: everyone (and their parents) should want an equal partner for themselves/for their kids.