How frequent is sex in your relationship?

[Anonymous]

55 and 62, married for 33 years, about twice a year. It works for us. Neither of us has a high drive.

[Anonymous]

40 married at 24. 3 kids. every other day or dh gives me the silent treatment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What’s your age and marital status too?

It’s come to a standstill in my relationship, and it’s very demoralizing.

Sorry

40 years married
At min five times a week

We are extremely lucky I know that

Righto

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We’re 54/52 and sex is an important part of our relationship. That said, our college kid has been home for the summer (which we love, of course) and his schedule is unpredictable. Its been pretty difficult to find time to have sex more than once a week.

After almost a week of no sex she starts having frustrating dreams and we both get short with each other. Good sex helps us stay connected.

We have a place that we go to on the weekends and there’s always a list of things we have to get done while there. This weekend after a margarita it just turned into sex and we had to double time it yesterday to get everything done before going home.

Every couple is different but for me, sex is an important part of our relationship. It may not be forever (we’re getting older) but its worth figuring out if its not working for you.

Have you considered couples counseling? After watching the series Couples Therapy I’d definitely try it.

Gross

Functional marriages are so gross.

[Anonymous]

Late 40s, married 20+ years. One a week, maybe every other week. Sometimes 2x in a week but that's rare. We probably average 3x a month. DH definitely gets cranky if it goes more than 2 weeks.

[Anonymous]

60 F 55 M and none for a year. I’m interested but he isn’t. We’ve been dating 3 yrs and I want to break up..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:3x per week. 40s. Literally, this was "negotiated" in counseling and is almost like a checklist item that has to happen weekly.

That sounds a little r*apey. Has to happen??? Are you the weird guy who dragged his wife to therapy to demand hand jobs? Surely there can’t be two guys this gross and entitled…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:60 F 55 M and none for a year. I’m interested but he isn’t. We’ve been dating 3 yrs and I want to break up..

You should break up. I am 50 male and I noticed a massive drop in my libido. I am currently single and a high libido woman would be a bad match for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:60 F 55 M and none for a year. I’m interested but he isn’t. We’ve been dating 3 yrs and I want to break up..

You shouldn’t be having sex if you are not married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:60 F 55 M and none for a year. I’m interested but he isn’t. We’ve been dating 3 yrs and I want to break up..

You shouldn’t be having sex if you are not married.

Oh goody, Church Lady found this thread!

[Anonymous]

New relationship. Dating six months. In early 60’s. So far it’s almost every day. Sometimes twice a day. I never would’ve thought I would have the drive but I do! At least for now. I’m worried I’m going to lose it and don’t want to let him down.

[Anonymous]

40s/50s. I am still a slave to my hormonal cycle, so some weeks it’s every night, and some weeks it’s an obligatory beej. It’s probably half and half, spread over the month.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:60 F 55 M and none for a year. I’m interested but he isn’t. We’ve been dating 3 yrs and I want to break up..

You should break up. I am 50 male and I noticed a massive drop in my libido. I am currently single and a high libido woman would be a bad match for me.

Break up with him. That's the beauty of not being married. You don't have to get divorced, you can just break up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:60 F 55 M and none for a year. I’m interested but he isn’t. We’ve been dating 3 yrs and I want to break up..

You shouldn’t be having sex if you are not married.

Thanks for the PSA Grandma/Grandpa

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:60 F 55 M and none for a year. I’m interested but he isn’t. We’ve been dating 3 yrs and I want to break up..

You should break up. I am 50 male and I noticed a massive drop in my libido. I am currently single and a high libido woman would be a bad match for me.

Break up with him. That's the beauty of not being married. You don't have to get divorced, you can just break up.

+3 End that sexless relationship. You two aren't married. Zero obligation to stick around.