How hard is dating for late thirties childless women?

[Anonymous]

If I have a choice between a younger woman in early 30s and an older woman in late 40s I know who I'm choosing. To each his own. Early 30s women are a gift from God.

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Anonymous wrote:If you want both a spouse and a child it sounds like the Midwest is the place to be.

I really don't think so. DH is from there and is the only one from his HS and college friend group who wasn't married by 25, which I think is fairly typical.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 35 and recently reentered the dating scene after a 15 year relationship (7 dating, 8 married) and I have two little kids and a big dog. I had zero expectations and anticipated basically no one would be interested in a 35yo mom of 2 when they could have someone a few years younger without kids or a few years older with no kids or older kids.

I cannot even tell you how blown away I have been in the best way by the people I have met so far. I actually almost made a detailed post about it to give people in similar boats hope.

I'm 47 years old divorced man with 2 kids and I have been surprised by my successes on the dating market as well. However I am still single and I need to figure out why I keep attracting women who want to be married and have children. I have no desire to remarry and have more kids so I'm choosing to remain single.

Go pick a really beautiful /best looking mid 40s women on the app. See if they want to match and date you just for LTR. If nobody is interested - well, now you now know why those 30s women want you.

There are no good looking mid 40s women on OLD.

Maybe they just don’t match you or have different settings in what they are looking for thus you can’t even see the profiles

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Anonymous wrote:If I have a choice between a younger woman in early 30s and an older woman in late 40s I know who I'm choosing. To each his own. Early 30s women are a gift from God.

You would pick the more attractive one...unless you had to have a kid.

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Anonymous wrote:If I have a choice between a younger woman in early 30s and an older woman in late 40s I know who I'm choosing. To each his own. Early 30s women are a gift from God.

Amen brother. I loved banging out early 30's MILFs in my 20's and now that I'm close to 40 they still remain a solid and consistent lay group. Here's to the early 30's women!

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Just don’t be fat. It’s not hard.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 35 and recently reentered the dating scene after a 15 year relationship (7 dating, 8 married) and I have two little kids and a big dog. I had zero expectations and anticipated basically no one would be interested in a 35yo mom of 2 when they could have someone a few years younger without kids or a few years older with no kids or older kids.

I cannot even tell you how blown away I have been in the best way by the people I have met so far. I actually almost made a detailed post about it to give people in similar boats hope.

I'm 47 years old divorced man with 2 kids and I have been surprised by my successes on the dating market as well. However I am still single and I need to figure out why I keep attracting women who want to be married and have children. I have no desire to remarry and have more kids so I'm choosing to remain single.

I am a 47-year-old divorced woman with two kids and I’m not dating you because when I date, I date men who are in their early 30s who don’t have children. I’m not blending any families so I have no interest in a man who is my age who has kids when I can date much younger without those complications. I won’t ever remarry so there’s really no reason to date anybody my age. I constantly have about four men who are constantly wanting attention who are early 30s. no reason to go higher. (I don’t sleep with multiple people at once— or even at all right now—but what I’m saying is that I have no lack of interest of younger men without kids, which is just easier to deal with.

I guess congrats. For the life of me, why would early 30s men want to date (where you aren't sleeping with them) someone that is 47 with children? Are you paying for everything?

I am attractive and look a lot younger. I have not paid for anything. Why? They want to sleep with me. My kids are not a factor. no man ever has met my kids. When I do date, it’s on free time without kids. I have slept with men this age in the past (one at a time and usually for about a usually for about a year to 18 months) and even slightly younger—and I’m the one who cuts it off—not them.

You are 47 and still haven't figured out men haha. I don't think you ever will. Of course they want to sleep with you. They also want to.sleep.woth the 300 lbs women out there. They will do anything, take you on dates whatever it takes to have your p**y. You are not special so stop it.

There are beautiful women into their 50s. I honestly don’t think any of my friends could pull this off. Someone asked why someone would be interested in somebody my age and I responded— The reason is that I still look good enough to attract that much attention. Most people my age don’t look like me.

You said you weren’t sleeping with them…hence the question. Now you say you are…that’s different.

There is no point “dating” a 47 year old woman if the man is early 30s…there is a point to sleeping with them, in fact that’s the only point.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 35 and recently reentered the dating scene after a 15 year relationship (7 dating, 8 married) and I have two little kids and a big dog. I had zero expectations and anticipated basically no one would be interested in a 35yo mom of 2 when they could have someone a few years younger without kids or a few years older with no kids or older kids.

I cannot even tell you how blown away I have been in the best way by the people I have met so far. I actually almost made a detailed post about it to give people in similar boats hope.

I'm 47 years old divorced man with 2 kids and I have been surprised by my successes on the dating market as well. However I am still single and I need to figure out why I keep attracting women who want to be married and have children. I have no desire to remarry and have more kids so I'm choosing to remain single.

I am a 47-year-old divorced woman with two kids and I’m not dating you because when I date, I date men who are in their early 30s who don’t have children. I’m not blending any families so I have no interest in a man who is my age who has kids when I can date much younger without those complications. I won’t ever remarry so there’s really no reason to date anybody my age. I constantly have about four men who are constantly wanting attention who are early 30s. no reason to go higher. (I don’t sleep with multiple people at once— or even at all right now—but what I’m saying is that I have no lack of interest of younger men without kids, which is just easier to deal with.

I guess congrats. For the life of me, why would early 30s men want to date (where you aren't sleeping with them) someone that is 47 with children? Are you paying for everything?

I am attractive and look a lot younger. I have not paid for anything. Why? They want to sleep with me. My kids are not a factor. no man ever has met my kids. When I do date, it’s on free time without kids. I have slept with men this age in the past (one at a time and usually for about a usually for about a year to 18 months) and even slightly younger—and I’m the one who cuts it off—not them.

You are 47 and still haven't figured out men haha. I don't think you ever will. Of course they want to sleep with you. They also want to.sleep.woth the 300 lbs women out there. They will do anything, take you on dates whatever it takes to have your p**y. You are not special so stop it.

There are beautiful women into their 50s. I honestly don’t think any of my friends could pull this off. Someone asked why someone would be interested in somebody my age and I responded— The reason is that I still look good enough to attract that much attention. Most people my age don’t look like me.

You said you weren’t sleeping with them…hence the question. Now you say you are…that’s different.

There is no point “dating” a 47 year old woman if the man is early 30s…there is a point to sleeping with them, in fact that’s the only point.

I said I have in the past slept with men this age. I am not at the current moment. Get it? Both are true. For more than one, they wanted a serious relationship (ones I slept with) and I did not so I cut it off. Someone I met recently also wants to be serious (31). I do not. I ended it. I am not currently interested, yet still have a ton of interest and not just for sex. I don't want just sex and I also don't want to live with or marry anyone ever again. An actual long term boyfriend is actually hard to find. Some younger men want just sex (I don't) and some want an actual relationship and sex (I don't). So, I am not currently dating (yet, my phone is constantly blowing up).

[Anonymous]

If you are late 30s and don't have your embryos banked, I'd give up on the kid idea.

[Anonymous]

Easy and amazing. Lots of hot young men to choose from, IME

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Anonymous wrote:If I have a choice between a younger woman in early 30s and an older woman in late 40s I know who I'm choosing. To each his own. Early 30s women are a gift from God.

Amen brother. I loved banging out early 30's MILFs in my 20's and now that I'm close to 40 they still remain a solid and consistent lay group. Here's to the early 30's women!

OP is not interested in your type though.
How damaged do you have to be to write like this at “close to 40.” Good luck to you, you’ll need it in life.

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Anonymous wrote:Easy and amazing. Lots of hot young men to choose from, IME

Predator

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Anonymous wrote:There seem to be a lot of them in the DC area. They are beautiful, fit, well educated and have great careers. The only thing missing, if they would like, are husbands.

I imagine these women are catches and can date whomever they'd like? But there is definitely a lack of eligible bachelors at that age as most of them are snagged by women by mid twenties.

As a similar thirtysomething considering divorce in a terrible marriage...I am curious. I am still beautiful and am mistaken for late twenties/early thirties a lot.

I don't have any wrinkles or have gained significant weight. I also don't have kids...just wondering how dire my situation is if I still want a great marriage and at least a kid

You can get laid a lot if you want to

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Anonymous wrote:Just don’t be fat. It’s not hard.

Funny because someone just upthread said that men would stick their D’s in 300 lb women because they don’t care and just want to F and OP isn’t special and blah blah blah. So which is it???

[Anonymous]

Why do women who opt for plastic surgery past a certain age opt for enhancement that make them appear younger? I think there are more women insecure about their appearance as they age compared to men.