Married Female Feminists

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I consider myself a feminist but not a burn your bra type. I don’t consider my husband to be a feminist but he’s always lets me be me and is very supportive and helpful. He’s also been very supportive of our daughters’ career goals.

"lets you"?
Nope

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got told by my 23 year old coworker that I wasn't a feminist because I... 1. Took DH's last name and 2. Decided to stay at home for 2 years after DS was born.

I told her that I made those decisions because that's what I wanted to do she told me I made them because of deep rooted misogyny. At this point, I realized there was no point in discussing this with her. If feminism has warped into something like her views, we have problems.

smh. My and my DH's choices were the opposite of yours (I didn't change my name, the kids have hyphenated names and DH was a SAHF for 4 years). Yet, if I heard your coworker say that, I would have laughed and taken her to school. She, like so many others, doesn't understand what feminism is.

[Anonymous]

I just finalized my divorce with a feminist. I am in therapy now for the traumatic experience. I think some feminists like my ex wife have some serious anger issues that have nothing to do with women's issues. They are just crazy people that's all.

[Anonymous]

I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never never never never never let you forget you’re a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never never never never never let you forget you’re a man.

Oh go burn your fuKKing bra

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I consider myself a feminist but not a burn your bra type. I don’t consider my husband to be a feminist but he’s always lets me be me and is very supportive and helpful. He’s also been very supportive of our daughters’ career goals.

"lets you"?
Nope

DP you’re the angry type with daddy issues aren’t you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got told by my 23 year old coworker that I wasn't a feminist because I... 1. Took DH's last name and 2. Decided to stay at home for 2 years after DS was born.

I told her that I made those decisions because that's what I wanted to do she told me I made them because of deep rooted misogyny. At this point, I realized there was no point in discussing this with her. If feminism has warped into something like her views, we have problems.

Good grief. Now “feminism” means to totally deny the toll hatching another human being out of a small orifice takes . . . It’s nothing. We’re all the same. Not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never never never never never let you forget you’re a man.

Sounds like something my exW used to say. However, she was a vegetarian, hated to cook, and disliked sex more than she disliked cooking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never never never never never let you forget you’re a man.

Sounds like something my exW used to say. However, she was a vegetarian, hated to cook, and disliked sex more than she disliked cooking.

It is the lyrics to a song from the 60s made popular by singer Peggy Lee.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never never never never never let you forget you’re a man.

Sounds like something my exW used to say. However, she was a vegetarian, hated to cook, and disliked sex more than she disliked cooking.

You mean, she disliked sex with you. My DH is a feminist and sex with him is THE best I've ever had. And I've had a LOT! 💥 🔥🌶🍆🤗

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never never never never never let you forget you’re a man.

Oh go burn your fuKKing bra

As noted by a PP, bra burning is a misogynistic myth used to suppress the achievement of women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never never never never never let you forget you’re a man.

Sounds like something my exW used to say. However, she was a vegetarian, hated to cook, and disliked sex more than she disliked cooking.

Here is some unsolicited advice: keep your discussion of your ex-wife’s numerous faults and flaws to anonymous forums. People in the real world consider such whingeing beta male and effete.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just finalized my divorce with a feminist. I am in therapy now for the traumatic experience. I think some feminists like my ex wife have some serious anger issues that have nothing to do with women's issues. They are just crazy people that's all.

Just because someone calls themselves something doesn't mean that they are. Look how many "Christians" behave in un-Christian ways. Actions speak louder than words. Just because you say you expose something doesn't mean you do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just finalized my divorce with a feminist. I am in therapy now for the traumatic experience. I think some feminists like my ex wife have some serious anger issues that have nothing to do with women's issues. They are just crazy people that's all.

Unfortunately, yes, some people weaponize all sorts of issues under the name of "feminism," when what they are not really about feminism at all.

People should look for mutual respect in a relationship and good communication about expectations and values.

[Anonymous]

Feels responsibility for house and kids (not just because I told him to, but proactively thinks about things). Supportive of my career, feels I am intelligent and accomplished and should have the time and space to progress upwards.