St. Barta and my inhibitions.
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Anonymous
| DW has perfectly scupluted boobs, incredible butt, very feminine. However she will absolutely not wear anything that put her boobs and butt on display. Even the commonly used leggings she makes sure she has a shirt that covers her butt. Some women just aren't comfortable being half naked in public. |
Anonymous
| I have absolutely no problem being nude around other women. I would feel pretty weird around male strangers. But there is NO WAY I would do it around male friends! My husband would NOT like that either. |
Anonymous
Discreet. |
Anonymous
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Do what you want. I'm in the camp where I have no problem being topless on a beach in Europe with DH and a bunch of people I don't know, but it would be a mental hurdle to be topless around a bunch of American dads I see at school pick, so that's where my line is drawn. I'm comfortable enough in myself and with my body to not be fazed by a Korean sauna or Japanese onsen or anything naked with any female friends, but I'd eat a live salamander before going naked or topless in front of my dad, a colleague, or a friend's husband.
It's a little off your (American?) Husband feels differently. My husband totally gets it. |
Anonymous
| As an American dad, I would be quite surprised and possibly a bit uncomfortable if one of my wife's friends went topless around me on a vacation. But if everyone in our group was doing it, maybe I'd feel differently. Then again, I highly doubt that my wife would, so that would probably be the end of it. |
Anonymous
| ^American *husband* (and dad) |
Anonymous
+1 We've been several times and no one was topless. Even if someone was, that doesn't mean everyone is or that you have to! |
Anonymous
| OP, I have a pretty good sense of humor. What I would do is get myself one of those one-piece swimsuits that has a graphic that makes it look like you are nude. Better yet, they have some that are the Borat-style of thong with a hairy chest! |
Anonymous
| I’ve been to many topless beaches (France, Spain, etc…) and there are always women who are fully covered. Not everyone is topless. |
Anonymous
Love it! |
Anonymous
| They’re just b00bs. How do they look… |
Anonymous
My thoughts exactly. Have gone topless on a beach before. And there is no way I want to be topless around male friends. |
Anonymous
| Lots of women wear tops on the beach in St Barths, especially American women. Not a big deal either way. Do what you are comfortable doing. |
Anonymous
| Weird been there many times not a real topless scene and just don’t do it if you don’t want to I think it’s weird he wants you to |
Anonymous
| I view your husband as more disturbing trying to get you to do something that isn't good, nor that you are comfortable with. He told you to down some drinks? People who feel the need to exhibit themselves have other issues. Don't follow that herd OP. |