Question about skimpy bikinis

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?

Not necessarily. I would assume she liked the style, not the fact that its skimpy or modest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?

I would assume she doesn't follow medical advice of avoiding sun and covering skin with light layers or rash guard. Her dermatologist must be disappointed.

[Anonymous]

Maybe I am horny guy and need to call myself down, but when I seen a woman in skimpy bikini with beautiful as checks I can’t help myself but look.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?

Our experience has been women sporting micro-bikini's and the like are more often lifestyles looking to attract other likeminded people. We have found some of these people are attention seekers, and enjoy to parade around in skimpy or sheer swimwear. I don't think wearing such swimwear has anything to do with being sex positive. My husband and I are nudists, and live a fulfilling sex life. We have found that women wearing skimpy swimwear often have confidence issues, and they feel empowered when wearing these outfits. We've seen women such as these at lifestyle events wearing skimpy lingerie outfits for much the same reason. Again, my husband and I would often be naked at these lifestyle events whereas many of these women are seeking wearing some sort of skimpy attire as they don't have the confidence to be seen naked.

OP here. This is an interesting perspective! The idea that wearing revealing clothing is a way to hide insecurities. Never thought of it that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m from Miami, where pretty much everyone wears small bikinis (young, old, skinny, or fat) so it doesn’t mean anything and nobody cares. But here there seem to be a lot more rules about when and where you’re “allowed” to wear a bikini - like only if you’re on a couples vacation with your spouse and never at the community pool or else you’re attention-needy, and only if you are not fat.

Just came back from there. Almost every woman is in a thong or close to a thong. Size and age doesn't matter

Grew up in California. It means nothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dress modest af and am a freak in the sheets. So, I guess, not always?

+1. It’s the quiet ones.

[Anonymous]

no definitely not I just think its someone who is really comfortable in their skin which I greatly admire.

When I see someone who lets say we wold typically think does not belong in said skimpy bikini but obviously feels good about it, I am way more jealous of that person than the person who has the obvious body to carry it off.


I long to be that person!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:no definitely not I just think its someone who is really comfortable in their skin which I greatly admire.

When I see someone who lets say we wold typically think does not belong in said skimpy bikini but obviously feels good about it, I am way more jealous of that person than the person who has the obvious body to carry it off.


I long to be that person!!

Same here!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She’s confident.
Doesn’t care what people think or say.
Wants attention.

Give me three contradictions in ten words, please.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?

Our experience has been women sporting micro-bikini's and the like are more often lifestyles looking to attract other likeminded people. We have found some of these people are attention seekers, and enjoy to parade around in skimpy or sheer swimwear. I don't think wearing such swimwear has anything to do with being sex positive. My husband and I are nudists, and live a fulfilling sex life. We have found that women wearing skimpy swimwear often have confidence issues, and they feel empowered when wearing these outfits. We've seen women such as these at lifestyle events wearing skimpy lingerie outfits for much the same reason. Again, my husband and I would often be naked at these lifestyle events whereas many of these women are seeking wearing some sort of skimpy attire as they don't have the confidence to be seen naked.

OP here. This is an interesting perspective! The idea that wearing revealing clothing is a way to hide insecurities. Never thought of it that way.

I assume they can't swim very well or don't care about sun exposure. As a former competitive swimmer, I'm still wearing a one piece that stays put when I dive in swim. I don't own a bikini.

On an associated issue, I'm trying to work out why celebrities wear sheer dresses on the red carpet that show their underwear and breasts. Can't say I like the look.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dress modest af and am a freak in the sheets. So, I guess, not always?

Logic fail. I'm not agreeing with the OP's question but it could be true that all skimpy bikini wearers = freak while also being true that some modest dressers = freak.

[Anonymous]

If you look like January jones, please rock Tiny bikinis!

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12228197/amp/January-Jones-45-reveals-toned-figure-black-string-bikini.html

[Anonymous]

I dress modest af and am a freak in the sheets. So, I guess, not always?

How do you know you are a freak?

Many women think they are wild things when they are actually very tame.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here. I just assume she needs a lot of attention. The type of attention that becomes a full time job for the man. I just enjoy the view but avoid any/all interaction

The women I know who are married and wear tiny bikinis do like attention. They like female attention and they like to flex on other women. But in my experience their husbands are just as attention seeking. They are flexing on other men by showing off their hot wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here. I just assume she needs a lot of attention. The type of attention that becomes a full time job for the man. I just enjoy the view but avoid any/all interaction

The women I know who are married and wear tiny bikinis do like attention. They like female attention and they like to flex on other women. But in my experience their husbands are just as attention seeking. They are flexing on other men by showing off their hot wife.

I love my fat wife the way she is. The man with the so called trophy wife won’t get my attention. Attention seeking women and/or those who for whatever reason think they are “hot” can be challenging wives to deal with. And they are also the ones quick to spread their legs for other men. No thanks.