Question about skimpy bikinis

Anonymous
If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?
Anonymous
I assume she's confident, which can sometimes lead to being sex positive and uninhibited in bed.
Anonymous
Strong correlation with having a hit body. Weak correlation with hot sex.
Anonymous
I assume she wants as much tan as possible.

I dont assume anything about her sex life. I don't think a bikini makes you more open in bed. You could like to show off your body and still be very vanilla.
Anonymous
No, I assume she either wants as much of a tan as possible, or she is trying to show off the goods as much as possible. Neither one equals sex positive.
Anonymous
How you dress does not reflect how you are in bed. OP, are you in high school? Wearing skimpy clothing simply is a scream for attention.
Anonymous
I don't think I've ever looked at someone in a bikini and thought about how inhibited or uninhibited they might be in bed.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?


You sound scary.

It tells you nothing about her in bed.

Or whether she likes men or is celibate.

Stop assuming thing about female strangers.

Use your brain and your words if you have questions for someone .
Anonymous
OP here. Thanks for your responses. I’m an immigrant from a more conservative country. I noticed that so many women are wearing swimsuits that show a lot of skin and leave little to the imagination. But based on these responses, it sounds like a person dressing “sexy” does not necessarily mean they are trying to attract others or are more “sexual”. It could be they just like looking good and feel comfortable showing a lot of skin.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for your responses. I’m an immigrant from a more conservative country. I noticed that so many women are wearing swimsuits that show a lot of skin and leave little to the imagination. But based on these responses, it sounds like a person dressing “sexy” does not necessarily mean they are trying to attract others or are more “sexual”. It could be they just like looking good and feel comfortable showing a lot of skin.


This commment is different than your OP. Yes someone wearing a skimpy bikini may be trying to attract attention. (Or not depending on the person)
Anonymous
I think it just means they feel confident in their body and want to flaunt it. You even see bigger women (size 10+) wearing thongs and micro bikinis in public these days. It’s a big change in what’s acceptable to wear in public at the pool or beach from only a few years ago.
Anonymous
I dress modest af and am a freak in the sheets. So, I guess, not always?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I dress modest af and am a freak in the sheets. So, I guess, not always?


Want to see my sheets?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for your responses. I’m an immigrant from a more conservative country. I noticed that so many women are wearing swimsuits that show a lot of skin and leave little to the imagination. But based on these responses, it sounds like a person dressing “sexy” does not necessarily mean they are trying to attract others or are more “sexual”. It could be they just like looking good and feel comfortable showing a lot of skin.


Curious where you are that you see this. Definitely not at the neighborhood pools I've been to or the beaches I've been to with the exception of college kids.
Anonymous
OP, why do you care? Sounds like you’re jealous of women who are confident in their own skin.

They aren’t judging you in whatever you’re wearing. Leave them alone. Weirdo.
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