Question about skimpy bikinis

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for your responses. I’m an immigrant from a more conservative country. I noticed that so many women are wearing swimsuits that show a lot of skin and leave little to the imagination. But based on these responses, it sounds like a person dressing “sexy” does not necessarily mean they are trying to attract others or are more “sexual”. It could be they just like looking good and feel comfortable showing a lot of skin.

What does being an immigrant have to do with being a total f**king creeper and ogling women and then debating their sexual habits?
Anonymous
She’s confident.
Doesn’t care what people think or say.
Wants attention.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for your responses. I’m an immigrant from a more conservative country. I noticed that so many women are wearing swimsuits that show a lot of skin and leave little to the imagination. But based on these responses, it sounds like a person dressing “sexy” does not necessarily mean they are trying to attract others or are more “sexual”. It could be they just like looking good and feel comfortable showing a lot of skin.


In this country, a woman can wear whatever she wants and it does NOT mean she wants sex nor does it mean she is inviting you to touch or ogle at her.

A woman does not need to be covered from head to toe to signal to men that she’s a confident, respectable person.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for your responses. I’m an immigrant from a more conservative country. I noticed that so many women are wearing swimsuits that show a lot of skin and leave little to the imagination. But based on these responses, it sounds like a person dressing “sexy” does not necessarily mean they are trying to attract others or are more “sexual”. It could be they just like looking good and feel comfortable showing a lot of skin.


In this country, a woman can wear whatever she wants and it does NOT mean she wants sex nor does it mean she is inviting you to touch or ogle at her.

A woman does not need to be covered from head to toe to signal to men that she’s a confident, respectable person.



This. But for some reason I thought OP was a woman. Either way, OP is a creep.
Anonymous
No. There is no correlation. She may just want the attention, is proud of her body, or could be a full blown exhibitionist but it doesn't translate to, good in bed.
Anonymous
Anonymous[b wrote:]If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that [/b]she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?


what an idiotic post. why are you wasting our time with this?
Anonymous
European
Anonymous
I don't think it is an idiotic post. I'm one of the people who said bikinis suggest confidence about bodily and nothing more. I also thought OP was a woman (probably wondering whether she or a family member would send an unintended message by wearing a bikini).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous[b wrote:]If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that [/b]she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?


what an idiotic post. why are you wasting our time with this?

Came here to say this.
Anonymous
Man here. I just assume she needs a lot of attention. The type of attention that becomes a full time job for the man. I just enjoy the view but avoid any/all interaction
Anonymous
You should go to Brazil, OP!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I assume she's confident, which can sometimes lead to being sex positive and uninhibited in bed.


The real test is to watch to see if she smokes.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Man here. I just assume she needs a lot of attention. The type of attention that becomes a full time job for the man. I just enjoy the view but avoid any/all interaction


+ 1. Especially if it’s at a family centric location. It’s all attention seeking.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for your responses. I’m an immigrant from a more conservative country. I noticed that so many women are wearing swimsuits that show a lot of skin and leave little to the imagination. But based on these responses, it sounds like a person dressing “sexy” does not necessarily mean they are trying to attract others or are more “sexual”. It could be they just like looking good and feel comfortable showing a lot of skin.


Door 3: They’re showing off to other women.
Anonymous
I was always told women dress for other women. And also women are wearing so many revealing clothes these days that I think many men simply shrug their shoulders or don’t even bother looking.
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