Question about skimpy bikinis

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I dress modest af and am a freak in the sheets. So, I guess, not always?

How do you know you are a freak?

Many women think they are wild things when they are actually very tame.

Card-carrying member of multiple fetish clubs, wrote erotica for pay, friends with pr0n stars (who concur).

[Anonymous]

Or, they just like bikinis. And they aren’t wearing what they wear *at* you. Get over yourself, OP. What’s skimpy to you might just be normal to someone else.

[Anonymous]

I wear whatever I want and do. not. care. I was wearing the cheeky bottom bikini before it became mainstream around here. They are the norm in europe and brazil.

[Anonymous]

How do you know you are a freak?

Many women think they are wild things when they are actually very tame.

Card-carrying member of multiple fetish clubs, wrote erotica for pay, friends with pr0n stars (who concur)

Card-carrying member, huh? Do you mean like a card-carrying member of Costco, Sam's Club, etc?

Why do you need a club if you are good at the lifestyle? I bet your local PTA has more on-the-edge potential than these fetish clubs. The women I know who are truly freaky keep it very much on a "need-to-know" basis since they want to keep their interests very private. Specifically, I am talking about BDSM so maybe you need clubs to find fun in other areas.

Why would writing erotica for pay or being friends with pr0n stars make you a freak?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or, they just like bikinis. And they aren’t wearing what they wear *at* you. Get over yourself, OP. What’s skimpy to you might just be normal to someone else.

I have a hard time believing anyone actually likes wearing skimpy bikinis. They are not comfortable. I don't wear them any longer, but when I did, it was in large part to show off my nice body.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

How do you know you are a freak?

Many women think they are wild things when they are actually very tame.

Card-carrying member of multiple fetish clubs, wrote erotica for pay, friends with pr0n stars (who concur)

Card-carrying member, huh? Do you mean like a card-carrying member of Costco, Sam's Club, etc?

Why do you need a club if you are good at the lifestyle? I bet your local PTA has more on-the-edge potential than these fetish clubs. The women I know who are truly freaky keep it very much on a "need-to-know" basis since they want to keep their interests very private. Specifically, I am talking about BDSM so maybe you need clubs to find fun in other areas.

Why would writing erotica for pay or being friends with pr0n stars make you a freak?

Just fap to it and move on, bro. The anon isn't gonna hook up with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous[b wrote:]If you see a woman wearing a very revealing bikini (at the pool, beach, etc.), do you assume she is uninhibited (in bed). Like the fact that [/b]she is comfortable showing her body makes her open (in that way) or sex-positive?

what an idiotic post. why are you wasting our time with this?

She isn't forcing anyone to reply.

[Anonymous]

My wife can still rock a bikini at age 38 with four children. She definitely gets noticed when she is walking along a beach with four little kids in tow. She’s great in bed but I don’t think it has any correlation with wearing a bikini.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Or, they just like bikinis. And they aren’t wearing what they wear *at* you. Get over yourself, OP. What’s skimpy to you might just be normal to someone else.

I have a hard time believing anyone actually likes wearing skimpy bikinis. They are not comfortable. I don't wear them any longer, but when I did, it was in large part to show off my nice body.

When I am not allowed to be naked this is what I wear,. Perfectly comfortable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife can still rock a bikini at age 38 with four children. She definitely gets noticed when she is walking along a beach with four little kids in tow. She’s great in bed but I don’t think it has any correlation with wearing a bikini.

+1 though my wife is a little older.

[Anonymous]

So no one here thinks there is a correlation between loving your body (and being willing to show a lot of it in public) and sexual inhibition?

[Anonymous]

I wear bikinis — not sure where the skimpy line is but I love a bikini. I’m so long libido I might count as asexual. I just don’t have a lot of modesty. Maybe it’s because I find so little sexually arousing it’s not really something I think about when choosing clothes, maybe it’s because I did dance and figure skating as a kid so skimpy clothing is mostly associated with serious training in my head. If I’m wearing a skimpy bikini it’s because I thought it was comfortable and cute, not because I’m trying to attract anyone’s attention.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know about sex but when I wear a skimpy bikini it’s because I’m feeling confident about my body and I want to show it off and look hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So no one here thinks there is a correlation between loving your body (and being willing to show a lot of it in public) and sexual inhibition?

I think maybe so at the vanilla end of the spectrum, but nothing more. I wear bikinis because I have body confidence. I am happy to have sex with the lights on. I dont think at all about what angles I might be seen from (which, if you do, could limit positions). I dont wrap myself in a sheet or towel when done, will walk to the bathroom naked, etc. I DO think there is a correlation there, and I know some men find my style refreshing because lots of women insist on the dark, sheets/covers, throw on a robe after, etc. But that’s pretty baseline stuff. beyond not minding if/how/from what angle a partner looks at me, I wouldn’t say there’s any correlation to being ‘wild’ in bed.

[Anonymous]

Just fap to it and move on, bro. The anon isn't gonna hook up with you.

Dear Bro,

I do not care what the PP does. You need to fab less and work on your writing skills more.