Dating a twice divorced man

[Anonymous]

Twice divorced by 46 is kinda alarming. Regardless of his reasons. There is zero chance he is blameless in the end of these unions. Data helps support where the heart is winning over the head: 73% of third marriages end in divorce. Proceed with extreme caution.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Twice divorced by 46 is kinda alarming. Regardless of his reasons. There is zero chance he is blameless in the end of these unions. Data helps support where the heart is winning over the head: 73% of third marriages end in divorce. Proceed with extreme caution.

DP, not the OP, and I believe this statistic but would love to get the specific source you're citing. I know someone who needs to hear this (besides the OP!). Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Even if it was rhe man, the issue is the same. He backs out of his commitments.

[Anonymous]

My ex wife has divorced 3 times and men are still pursuing her. 1 divorce is already too much let alone 3...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He only says good things about his ex wives. First wife cheated on him, married <1 year. Second marriage 8 years, 10 together, says he tried his best but she broke his heart.

That’s a hard no. He’s not taking responsibility for anything.

Please he owes OP nothing in this department. There is no set of words, no form of responsibility taking that would satisfy the miserable hags of DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What are the reasons for the divorce? Is he able to speak about what happened in a way that indicates deep reflection and a sense of accountability? Does he still believe that marriage is for life? These are really good questions to get into as you get to know him better. Twice divorced, however, is a big red flag at the end of the day. It’s not ideal and he owes you an explanation of both how it happened and how he has grown and changed as a result.

He’s been divorced twice get over your Bible thumping garbage marriage is for life. Clearly not to him,

[Anonymous]

OP no

Two pervious marriages come with baggage nope

[Anonymous]

The guy I know with one kid like this in this area was a closeted homosexual. Eventually the wives found out.

[Anonymous]

Fine to date, but not fine for marriage. You don't need to be married to be committed.

[Anonymous]

My friend is dating a guy who has been divorced 4 times. He has a "reason" for each one. I would not take him seriously and definitely not pursue something serious.

[Anonymous]

My XH’s third wife did

[Anonymous]

I would, but my kids are grown, and I'm not looking to re-marry. He sounds perfect to me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you do it? He’s 46 with one kid. Very successful, responsible, hard working, good looking, well educated, great taste/cultured, wants to pay for everything, makes good decisions (except the marriages I guess).

Thx for the resume laundry list.

Now start spending time with him or when he’s stressed out or needs to plan something and see how he BEHAVES.

[Anonymous]

This thread is from two years ago. I hope the OP sees this and gives us an update. I'm wondering how it worked out.

[Anonymous]

^^ Correction, it's from 5 months ago.