Why are women so heightist, and then complain when it turns out that a man lied about his height?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

That would pull in a bunch of gold diggers who care about height, and if you don't like women who are into tall guys, why would you want to attract them?

Fwiw I thought my boyfriend was 5'11" and he's actually 5'9"ish. I don't care. 5'9" is average for men so you should try being a little less insecure.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

That would pull in a bunch of gold diggers who care about height, and if you don't like women who are into tall guys, why would you want to attract them?

Fwiw I thought my boyfriend was 5'11" and he's actually 5'9"ish. I don't care. 5'9" is average for men so you should try being a little less insecure.

There is no way on god’s green earth that you thought your 5’9 boyfriend was 5’11.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

That would pull in a bunch of gold diggers who care about height, and if you don't like women who are into tall guys, why would you want to attract them?

Fwiw I thought my boyfriend was 5'11" and he's actually 5'9"ish. I don't care. 5'9" is average for men so you should try being a little less insecure.

There is no way on god’s green earth that you thought your 5’9 boyfriend was 5’11.

I'm not a good judge of height. If you'd asked me I would've said 5'11" but then the other day I was with him when he had to list his height for something and he put 5'9".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist and then complain when it turns out that a woman's profile pics are 30lbs ago?

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

That would pull in a bunch of gold diggers who care about height, and if you don't like women who are into tall guys, why would you want to attract them?

Fwiw I thought my boyfriend was 5'11" and he's actually 5'9"ish. I don't care. 5'9" is average for men so you should try being a little less insecure.

There is no way on god’s green earth that you thought your 5’9 boyfriend was 5’11.

I'm not a good judge of height. If you'd asked me I would've said 5'11" but then the other day I was with him when he had to list his height for something and he put 5'9".

Are you that dense? Come on!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

It’s stupid not to put something alluding to your high income in your dating profile. The expectation is that you put your best foot forward to attract someone you would like. Your high income is a big part of what you bring to the table.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

It’s stupid not to put something alluding to your high income in your dating profile. The expectation is that you put your best foot forward to attract someone you would like. Your high income is a big part of what you bring to the table.

Uh, no.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

That would pull in a bunch of gold diggers who care about height, and if you don't like women who are into tall guys, why would you want to attract them?

Fwiw I thought my boyfriend was 5'11" and he's actually 5'9"ish. I don't care. 5'9" is average for men so you should try being a little less insecure.

There is no way on god’s green earth that you thought your 5’9 boyfriend was 5’11.

I'm not a good judge of height. If you'd asked me I would've said 5'11" but then the other day I was with him when he had to list his height for something and he put 5'9".

Are you that dense? Come on!

I'm not good at guessing height either. I always wonder how in cop shows witnesses are always like "The suspect was 5'10" and 180 pounds!"

If she doesn't care about height and she's not good at guessing it, not sure how she would know.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

It’s stupid not to put something alluding to your high income in your dating profile. The expectation is that you put your best foot forward to attract someone you would like. Your high income is a big part of what you bring to the table.

But who really needs to make $450k a year when they look like Keanu shaved?

[Anonymous]

Um it’s not the height they’re screening for.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist and then complain when it turns out that a woman's profile pics are 30lbs ago?

+1

Also often breast size measurement is a criteria

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated men of all heights. 5'3"-6'1"

When I matched with the 5'3" guy on Bumble he *said* he was 5'7" and then when we went on our first date we were the same height. Actually I was slightly taller because I was in heels. He had a great personality so I asked him about it a few dates later and he was like, yeah most women won't date under 5'7" so I lie. I found that kind of sleazy.

And fwiw, we dated for several months and I thought he was really sexy, but I don't care about height and if I did, the lying would've totally turned me off.

I think if you are 5'9 and you say you are 5'10, that is ok. But if you are 5'3, and say you are 5'7, that's too much of a difference. It's a flat out lie rather than an exaggeration.

Oh totally. He insisted it was only because 5'7" seems to be the minimum 90% of women will accept (and I agree, because none of my friends could figure out why I was dating a guy literally the same height as me - I was like you guys, I promise, he is so sexy and smart and funny and great in bed and they were like...yeah but you are the same size lmfao. The height thing instantly eliminated him as boyfriend and ultimately husband material). I was like okay...sure, but if that's the minimum height they will accept and then you show up FOUR INCHES SHORTER...you're probably not getting a second date, right? So it doesn't really work for you, does it?

You wont even get a first date with me. I'd make an excuse about going to the bathroom and drive away leaving you at the table.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um it’s not the height they’re screening for.

Heck yeah, it's the height I am screening for.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

It’s stupid not to put something alluding to your high income in your dating profile. The expectation is that you put your best foot forward to attract someone you would like. Your high income is a big part of what you bring to the table.

But who really needs to make $450k a year when they look like Keanu shaved?

Keanu is tall: PP is not looking like Keanu shaved at 5'8 and three quarters.

[Anonymous]

Why are men boobist, weightist & careerist?