Why are women so heightist, and then complain when it turns out that a man lied about his height?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

It’s stupid not to put something alluding to your high income in your dating profile. The expectation is that you put your best foot forward to attract someone you would like. Your high income is a big part of what you bring to the table.

But who really needs to make $450k a year when they look like Keanu shaved?

I guess. I just don’t get it. If you make that much money, that’s impressive. Why wouldn’t you want to be with someone who thinks that’s impressive and thinks they are super lucky to be with you?

Why purposefully look for someone who doesn’t care? It doesn’t seem like a path to happiness.

[Anonymous]

I think it's a valid preference like everything else. I personally have found that tall men tend to be more confident and laid back, maybe because they don't have to worry about height?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.

Height can be fixed with personality, intelligence, great looks, great form, money or great ability in bed.

Short men are at a disadvantage with online dating. But in real life they can still kill it.

The short men in my circle married beautiful, intelligent women( and most of the women made 100k when they married). But these men are top notch in terms of style, intelligence and personality.

I am currently trying to match up a recently single male friend of mine with a single female friend of mine

He is 5'7", handsome, personable, kind, hardworking and in great shape. He has plenty of options because several other women know his character and are sending single women his way.

Short guys just have to play the game differently.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.

Height can be fixed with personality, intelligence, great looks, great form, money or great ability in bed.

Short men are at a disadvantage with online dating. But in real life they can still kill it.

The short men in my circle married beautiful, intelligent women( and most of the women made 100k when they married). But these men are top notch in terms of style, intelligence and personality.

I am currently trying to match up a recently single male friend of mine with a single female friend of mine

He is 5'7", handsome, personable, kind, hardworking and in great shape. He has plenty of options because several other women know his character and are sending single women his way.

Short guys just have to play the game differently.

Guess so, one of y’all is horny for a 5’3” guy who was apparently that good in bed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

It’s stupid not to put something alluding to your high income in your dating profile. The expectation is that you put your best foot forward to attract someone you would like. Your high income is a big part of what you bring to the table.

But who really needs to make $450k a year when they look like Keanu shaved?

I guess. I just don’t get it. If you make that much money, that’s impressive. Why wouldn’t you want to be with someone who thinks that’s impressive and thinks they are super lucky to be with you?

Why purposefully look for someone who doesn’t care? It doesn’t seem like a path to happiness.

DP

You want to be with someone who is attracted to you. This is how men end up in sexless marriages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

It’s stupid not to put something alluding to your high income in your dating profile. The expectation is that you put your best foot forward to attract someone you would like. Your high income is a big part of what you bring to the table.

But who really needs to make $450k a year when they look like Keanu shaved?

I guess. I just don’t get it. If you make that much money, that’s impressive. Why wouldn’t you want to be with someone who thinks that’s impressive and thinks they are super lucky to be with you?

Why purposefully look for someone who doesn’t care? It doesn’t seem like a path to happiness.

Oh I was joking. I don’t give a shit about looking like Keanu. Give me the cash.

But also I would be turned off if I was scrolling and some guy just said “I make $450k.” Find a way to be subtle about it on the first date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.

Height can be fixed with personality, intelligence, great looks, great form, money or great ability in bed.

Short men are at a disadvantage with online dating. But in real life they can still kill it.

The short men in my circle married beautiful, intelligent women( and most of the women made 100k when they married). But these men are top notch in terms of style, intelligence and personality.

I am currently trying to match up a recently single male friend of mine with a single female friend of mine

He is 5'7", handsome, personable, kind, hardworking and in great shape. He has plenty of options because several other women know his character and are sending single women his way.

Short guys just have to play the game differently.

Guess so, one of y’all is horny for a 5’3” guy who was apparently that good in bed

He probably was! He had to be!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 42, 5' 8 3/4 but put 5' 9". I am attractive look like keanu shaved, and I don't mention I make 450k/year. Maybe my height should be more exaggerated and the fact I don't broadcast my income? Would that pull in more sought after women?

It’s stupid not to put something alluding to your high income in your dating profile. The expectation is that you put your best foot forward to attract someone you would like. Your high income is a big part of what you bring to the table.

But who really needs to make $450k a year when they look like Keanu shaved?

I guess. I just don’t get it. If you make that much money, that’s impressive. Why wouldn’t you want to be with someone who thinks that’s impressive and thinks they are super lucky to be with you?

Why purposefully look for someone who doesn’t care? It doesn’t seem like a path to happiness.

DP

You want to be with someone who is attracted to you. This is how men end up in sexless marriages.

I don’t think so. Men end up in sexless marriages because they marry women who don’t like sex very much and think they will change.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.

Height can be fixed with personality, intelligence, great looks, great form, money or great ability in bed.

Short men are at a disadvantage with online dating. But in real life they can still kill it.

The short men in my circle married beautiful, intelligent women( and most of the women made 100k when they married). But these men are top notch in terms of style, intelligence and personality.

I am currently trying to match up a recently single male friend of mine with a single female friend of mine

He is 5'7", handsome, personable, kind, hardworking and in great shape. He has plenty of options because several other women know his character and are sending single women his way.

Short guys just have to play the game differently.

Guess so, one of y’all is horny for a 5’3” guy who was apparently that good in bed

Not a 5'3" guy who lied about his height. Hell no!

But if I were single and heard that the a 5 '3" guy gave amazing tongue sessions, I might be tempted 🤔.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.

Unfortunately, that is rarely the case. And people will spend thousands of hours & dollars trying to lose weight before they realize that. It’s genetic in the same way height is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.

Unfortunately, that is rarely the case. And people will spend thousands of hours & dollars trying to lose weight before they realize that. It’s genetic in the same way height is.

Fatty here.

Nope. We do eat more than skinny people.

[Anonymous]

It’s because women look pretty in high heels and they don’t like looking down on their love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.

Unfortunately, that is rarely the case. And people will spend thousands of hours & dollars trying to lose weight before they realize that. It’s genetic in the same way height is.

Fatty here.

Nope. We do eat more than skinny people.

You may. Most do not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s because women look pretty in high heels and they don’t like looking down on their love.

GAG this sounds like something my nana would say

[Anonymous]

Best sex of my life with a guy who was 5’4” (I’m 5’2”). But he had zero weird attitude about it. He was relaxed and confident and hot. B, wherever you are, I wish you well.

OP, short guys can make it work (and how). If you are not doing so, that’s down to you. It’s not that every woman in the world has illegitimate tastes.