Why are women so heightist, and then complain when it turns out that a man lied about his height?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women are incredibly materialistic & heightist in dating. All they care about is the man’s bank account size.


Yes, all 4 billion of them are exactly the same.
Anonymous
Don't date people whose preferences you think are shallow.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Because I'm trying to screen for liars and people who feel entitled to waste my time.


Then date people who you have met. It worked since the beginning of time.
Anonymous
Why does a woman complain when a man lies about something she's told him is important to her? Maybe because BEING LIED TO AT ALL is a perfectly acceptable reason to not want a second date.

One of the best relationships of my life was with a man who was/is 5'4". I am 5'7" and if you had asked me if I cared about height prior to this man, I would have definitely told you that I would strongly prefer a partner who was at least my height but beyond that, it was no longer a thing I cared about. But this guy was just amazing. He had so much charisma and was so crazy about me (in a genuine way, not a weird love bomby way) that I kind of forgot that he was a lot shorter than me. I think he occasionally wore lifts, like for special occasions, but otherwise he was just a slight guy with a big personality. We broke up after a year because he moved to Sweden. My husband is 5'8".
Anonymous
Because if he asked nicely for a date anyway, I might give it to him if I felt we were otherwise compatible. But lying is a hard no from me.
Anonymous
Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?
Anonymous
Because everyone hates a liar!
Anonymous
Because the attitude of "I'm allowed to lie if it gets me what I want" is rapey and disgusting. Listen to yourself. For shame.
Anonymous
I wouldn't be attracted to someone who wasn't tall. Am I supposed to lie about that?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The fear of short sons, or daughters for that matter.


Oh the horror. A happy, well-adjusted, healthy kid who is … short. Oh how can you face the world?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The fear of short sons, or daughters for that matter.


Oh the horror. A happy, well-adjusted, healthy kid who is … short. Oh how can you face the world?


Nope, unless you’re rich like Bezos, forget it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.


It doesn’t need to be fixed nor does height, though parents will give their boys drugs to grow taller.
Anonymous
Why do men care about waist to hip ratio? It's intrinsic in us
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why are men so weightist? Why do they think a 24 BMI is fat?

Because that can be fixed.


It doesn’t need to be fixed nor does height, though parents will give their boys drugs to grow taller.


Weight can be changed, you fool.
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