Dh took 7 yo to get an insane haircut

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's just hair. It'll grow back.

Op - what happened was he basically did not cut the top (long and wavy and thick) but buzzed the sides. But however you are imagining that might look cool - it looks completely insane. It could be easily fixed but now 7 yo likes it. It’s not a style it’s like a sort of reverse mullet

That's dumb, I assume you don't have a girl but who knows.

Does your spouse usually defer to the young child to make decisions on what to eat, what to do, what to wear, what type of haircut. My spouse is indecisive in the ADHD overwhelmed way so constantly blames his own kids for goofy stuff or things gone awry under his parental watch. Hope your situation is not that.

[Anonymous]

1) take lots of pictures
2) don’t hold this against dh for even one more second
3) don’t tell kid you think the hair looks weird anymore than you already have.

[Anonymous]

Wow, I can't imagine fighting with DH over a haircut. Please, you guys need to figure out better communications skills to teach your children. The fact that you're not ashamed by your behavior is insane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1) take lots of pictures
2) don’t hold this against dh for even one more second
3) don’t tell kid you think the hair looks weird anymore than you already have.

I feel so bad for OP's kid.

[Anonymous]

Your kid is now ready for middle school.

It's not a big deal really as long as kid likes it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your kid is now ready for middle school.

It's not a big deal really as long as kid likes it.

Even if kid doesn't like it, it isn't a big deal. Just run to someplace over the weekend and get it fixed. I don't see how this is a big deal at all.

[Anonymous]

You sound a lot like my mom. OP, let go of some of the control. I guarantee that not only will you be happier, but your entire family will be too.

[Anonymous]

I would be mad. At 7, I would feel that DC haircut can be a reflexion of me as a parent. But, agree it will grow back and I wouldn’t let DC know how much I hate it.

My bigger concern would be more important decisions as DC gets older. You need to figure out with DH and get in the same page.

[Anonymous]

Meet me at McDonald's

[Anonymous]

I get where OP is coming from if they've already discussed this and her DH went against what they'd planned. But, I also agree it's just hair and will grow back (or take him to get it shaped better).

My (now former) SIL used to do something similar with my nephew but she shaved his head. Not in a cute summer buzzcut way, but in a "he looks ill, is he ok" way. He was basically bald. It was awful. I don't know if it was some sort of power play or what, but his school photos all through elementary school make him look sickly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I get where OP is coming from if they've already discussed this and her DH went against what they'd planned. But, I also agree it's just hair and will grow back (or take him to get it shaped better).

My (now former) SIL used to do something similar with my nephew but she shaved his head. Not in a cute summer buzzcut way, but in a "he looks ill, is he ok" way. He was basically bald. It was awful. I don't know if it was some sort of power play or what, but his school photos all through elementary school make him look sickly.

I mean, it isn't DH's fault the barber didn't cut it well. And at 7, DS should be able to choose his own haircut without it causing a fight between his parents. Like, I get OP doesn't like the haircut but it is completely absurd to turn it into this big deal. Let your kid get what he wants. If they truly butchered it, go get it cleaned up. Arguing with your husband about this is way worse than a bad haircut.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meet me at McDonald's

What is this cut names when the top mop is shorter? Like an inch instead of the long curls? Asking for a friend.

[Anonymous]

Whatever the teenage version of having tattoos all of your face and neck is in 10 years is, will be OP's kid if she keeps reacting like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's just hair. It'll grow back.

Op - what happened was he basically did not cut the top (long and wavy and thick) but buzzed the sides. But however you are imagining that might look cool - it looks completely insane. It could be easily fixed but now 7 yo likes it. It’s not a style it’s like a sort of reverse mullet

Lol oh no is it this
https://www.esquire.com/style/news/a51116/high-and-tight-fascism-neo-nazis-white-supremacists/

Op - I wish it was that!
It looks a bit like a worse version of number 20 from this https://hairstylecamp.com/men-curly-taper-fades/

Kids love that style. Visit a school. Half the kids have that cut.

[Anonymous]

Just saw a teen neighbor boy rocking a mullet! My thoughts are with all of you.