If you had to be either Orthodox Jewish or Mormon which would you pick?

[Anonymous]

I grew up in Brooklyn and we now have a ski condo in Utah. I have been around both groups much of my life. So I like this game.

I would have to pick Mormon. They are nice, fun, people. I really cannot say the same about the orthodox/ ultra orthodox. Like all religions, pro's and cons, pro's and cons.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Mormon. Studies have shown they are healthier too. I already don’t drink so I would feel more at home with them than the general public.

And women are more depressed than anywhere in the U.S. Seriously, Utah has the highest antidepressant use for women in the USA

Where did you see this? I find it hard to believe

Np I’ve heard this stat so many times.

highest antidepressant use =/= women are more depressed than anywhere in the us...

[Anonymous]

Mormon for sure. I grew up in Southern California in a community where there was a surprisingly high Mormon population (Thousand Oaks). The Mormons I knew were genuinely nice people. They went to public school. They played sports, did activities, wore normal (if slightly more modest) clothing, the adults worked normal jobs (lawyer, doctor, teacher, engineer, etc.)...yes they lived by stricter rules than the rest of us, but they were very immersed/assimilated into the community so most of them, you wouldn't really noticed they were Mormons unless you asked or were specifically looking for specific "tells". I don't know a ton of Orthodox Jews but I feel like they are much more secluded and less assimilated. I think giving up coffee/tea/alcohol would be way easier than trying to keep kosher.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Definitely Mormon. I’m Protestant (grew up Catholic and wish I was still Catholic). I love how happy and close Mormon families are. They genuinely seem to like each other and I’ve known many over the years.

I’m not entirely sure I’m clear on what is orthodox jewish. Do they wear wigs when they marry or is that just Hasidic? I feel like Hasidic Jewish women have less rights and less education.

That being said- I could give up shellfish and pork easier than I could coffee. It’s been at least two decades since I’ve gone a single day without coffee. It’s the main reason I wake in the morning. I have trouble imaging a life without it. I also like alcohol

Why convert to Protestant if you want to be Catholic?

[Anonymous]

If you’re Mormon you’re basically giving up your entire Sundays and have to spend them only with family.

You’ll have to give your basement over to the storage of three years’ worth of food and water.

And, if your kid is gay or trans you’ll be shunned. But if that doesn’t bother you then go ahead…

[Anonymous]

Mormon beliefs are not what is being debated. Both they and orthodox judaism have some far out ideas. We are just choosing what we could live with on a daily basis.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you’re Mormon you’re basically giving up your entire Sundays and have to spend them only with family.

You’ll have to give your basement over to the storage of three years’ worth of food and water.

And, if your kid is gay or trans you’ll be shunned. But if that doesn’t bother you then go ahead…

wait until you hear about Shabbat...

[Anonymous]

As a woman, I would find both restrictive. As a Jew already, I would choose Orthodox Judaism. I am familiar with the culture and liturgy and believe in the religion. I tried Modern/Open Orthodoxy once and ultimately remained Conservative for the egalitarianism, but there is definitely a benefit to the strong sense of community and ease of being together that comes with Orthodoxy.

[Anonymous]

Are people are interpreting Orthodox Jewish as Hasidic? Because a lot of Orthodox Jewish are not like that! I'd pick (modern) Orthodox Jewish, with its rich history and traditions. I'd basically live my regular life, keep kosher (not hard as a vegetarian), and observe Shabbat (so no work on Saturdays).

[Anonymous]

Orthodox mainly because I do not like the Mormon emphasis on trying to convert/recruit people especially via their missionary process. I would not want my kids to be missionaries. I And I do not like that they convert the diseased. I would be very uncomfortable living with these practices.

[Anonymous]

Mormon. Although I am aware of issues with the church, I know several really happy Mormon families and I envy the sense of support and community they have in their ward.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are people are interpreting Orthodox Jewish as Hasidic? Because a lot of Orthodox Jewish are not like that! I'd pick (modern) Orthodox Jewish, with its rich history and traditions. I'd basically live my regular life, keep kosher (not hard as a vegetarian), and observe Shabbat (so no work on Saturdays).

Agree. The comparison for ultra orthodox would be FLDS (polygamists).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Are people are interpreting Orthodox Jewish as Hasidic? Because a lot of Orthodox Jewish are not like that! I'd pick (modern) Orthodox Jewish, with its rich history and traditions. I'd basically live my regular life, keep kosher (not hard as a vegetarian), and observe Shabbat (so no work on Saturdays).

Agree. The comparison for ultra orthodox would be FLDS (polygamists).

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Another advantage of orthodox Jewish is that you can include "outsiders" in your life events, like weddings and bar mitzvahs. I don't think that non-Mormons can attend events in Mormon temples, even if they are family members.

[Anonymous]

Probably Orthodox since I'm already Jewish and Mormons seem super weird to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably Orthodox since I'm already Jewish and Mormons seem super weird to me.

not respectful. Read the rules of the forum.