Weight/fitness level and attraction

[Anonymous]

I like my women with curves. Always have and always will be attracted to large b00b$.

[Anonymous]

DW here. We are both around the same weight as when we were dating, though more gray hair and lines on face. He's still very attractive, but has taken up this bad habit of growing his patchy facial hair. I hate it. It ages him at least 10 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like my women with curves. Always have and always will be attracted to large b00b$.

latge boobs xome on women of all sizes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife was 120lb when we met. After she had one baby she went up to 180lb, Then she never worked our or even tried to get the weight off FOR SEVEN YEARS. Last year she was down to 135lb for a few weeks because she was sick. Now, she's back up to 150lb.

I don't find her attractive at all. I run four times a week and run 5k and 10k races to keep myself in shape. She has zero interest or motivation. She's not even remotely attractive anymore.

You need to have a talk with your wife. Ignoring it for the sake of not hurting her feelings will fester over and ruin your marriage, or just make for a sexless marriage. Tell her that you want her to take care of herself and that health is sexy. Find some ways to get her involved in some of your fitness activities and make healthier suggestions for family meals.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife was 120lb when we met. After she had one baby she went up to 180lb, Then she never worked our or even tried to get the weight off FOR SEVEN YEARS. Last year she was down to 135lb for a few weeks because she was sick. Now, she's back up to 150lb.

I don't find her attractive at all. I run four times a week and run 5k and 10k races to keep myself in shape. She has zero interest or motivation. She's not even remotely attractive anymore.

You need to have a talk with your wife. Ignoring it for the sake of not hurting her feelings will fester over and ruin your marriage, or just make for a sexless marriage. Tell her that you want her to take care of herself and that health is sexy. Find some ways to get her involved in some of your fitness activities and make healthier suggestions for family meals.

Definitely talk to your wife. Tell her you are cutting back on your runs and training to give her a break from the kids. Start taking over the meal planning and cooking and make healthy tasty meals for her and the family. What did she do for excercise before kids? Get her a gift card for a yoga place and take over putting kids to bed one day a week so she can go to class.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife was 120lb when we met. After she had one baby she went up to 180lb, Then she never worked our or even tried to get the weight off FOR SEVEN YEARS. Last year she was down to 135lb for a few weeks because she was sick. Now, she's back up to 150lb.

I don't find her attractive at all. I run four times a week and run 5k and 10k races to keep myself in shape. She has zero interest or motivation. She's not even remotely attractive anymore.

You need to have a talk with your wife. Ignoring it for the sake of not hurting her feelings will fester over and ruin your marriage, or just make for a sexless marriage. Tell her that you want her to take care of herself and that health is sexy. Find some ways to get her involved in some of your fitness activities and make healthier suggestions for family meals.

Definitely talk to your wife. Tell her you are cutting back on your runs and training to give her a break from the kids. Start taking over the meal planning and cooking and make healthy tasty meals for her and the family. What did she do for excercise before kids? Get her a gift card for a yoga place and take over putting kids to bed one day a week so she can go to class.

Yup, this.

I take on more of the household load so H can get his exercise in. I cook almost all the meals so that he can have that extra hour to exercise in the evening, watch the kids on the weekend so he can go get a 8 mile hike in, not uncommon for him to work late because he took off for an hour to workout during the day. Lots of promises to get up early to work out or to take over some meals so I can also get a break, but very rarely happens.

I’d be pissed as hell if I found out H resented I didn’t look as good as I did in my 20s because I was picking up all this extra work so he could look sexy. I’d probably start hitting the gym every day after work and he can figure out what to do with the kids. And once I lost all the weight I’d probably start looking for a nice husband upgrade.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like my women with curves. Always have and always will be attracted to large b00b$.

latge boobs xome on women of all sizes.

I agree… Seem to attract petite women with natural D cup and larger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like my women with curves. Always have and always will be attracted to large b00b$.

Same. My wife is overweight, by a lot. In the past she has lost a ton of weight (and now gained it back), and I find her sexier at her current weight. Don't like being poked by bony knees and elbows and other bony parts when we are getting it on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d guess we’d all like our spouses to be fit. For most people thought, attraction is linked to more than just weight. We love and are attracted to the whole person. And most people are not going to leave their spouse because they are not as fit as when they were younger. We accept people change over time.

The theme on this thread is women gaining weight. It takes such dedicated and time consuming measures to stay fit as we age, it’s just not worth it for most women. While staying healthy should be a priority, diet and exercise to please your spouse isn't as important as other life endeavors.

100% dead wrong: calorie control is all it takes to prevent unattractive weight gain. Calorie control is not a "time consuming measure".
I agree that most women do not feel their husbands are "worth it" to control their calorie intake. Quite sad, really.

LOL. You’re a loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife was 120lb when we met. After she had one baby she went up to 180lb, Then she never worked our or even tried to get the weight off FOR SEVEN YEARS. Last year she was down to 135lb for a few weeks because she was sick. Now, she's back up to 150lb.

I don't find her attractive at all. I run four times a week and run 5k and 10k races to keep myself in shape. She has zero interest or motivation. She's not even remotely attractive anymore.

You need to have a talk with your wife. Ignoring it for the sake of not hurting her feelings will fester over and ruin your marriage, or just make for a sexless marriage. Tell her that you want her to take care of herself and that health is sexy. Find some ways to get her involved in some of your fitness activities and make healthier suggestions for family meals.

I’m sure you already know this, PP, but completely ignore this “advice” and do nothing of the sort.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are both 50 and fit as f@@@ck.

Same. We both work from home and have a whole exercise schedule/routine together, take classes together, etc.

Both of us have always been athletes/work out. We always had a lot of muscle mass. Eat relatively healthy during the week and then anything goes on weekend (with in reason).

We really haven't changed much at all, even after kids. I can still pull out clothes from 20 years ago and they fit and look good.

No one should be wearing clothes from 2001, even if they fit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are both 50 and fit as f@@@ck.

Same. We both work from home and have a whole exercise schedule/routine together, take classes together, etc.

Both of us have always been athletes/work out. We always had a lot of muscle mass. Eat relatively healthy during the week and then anything goes on weekend (with in reason).

We really haven't changed much at all, even after kids. I can still pull out clothes from 20 years ago and they fit and look good.

No one should be wearing clothes from 2001, even if they fit.

lol that was such a bad fashion year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are both 50 and fit as f@@@ck.

Same. We both work from home and have a whole exercise schedule/routine together, take classes together, etc.

Both of us have always been athletes/work out. We always had a lot of muscle mass. Eat relatively healthy during the week and then anything goes on weekend (with in reason).

We really haven't changed much at all, even after kids. I can still pull out clothes from 20 years ago and they fit and look good.

No one should be wearing clothes from 2001, even if they fit.

lol that was such a bad fashion year.

Wasn't it low rider jeans and clothes that had no vanity sizing? My size medium clothes back then are an xsmall in today's sizing. Thanks fat people!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like my women with curves. Always have and always will be attracted to large b00b$.

You like fat women its clear. Most are hos though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like my women with curves. Always have and always will be attracted to large b00b$.

latge boobs xome on women of all sizes.

I agree… Seem to attract petite women with natural D cup and larger.

What's petite to you