YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of posters on the SN forum whose kids have violent out bursts. Not one has ever said that a professional told them to voluntarily give up parental rights and rehome a child.
That said, the child is clearly better off in a different home. Unclear if he also would have been better off just staying in foster care in China.
The whole duct tape on thumb thing in itself is so bizarre. I can’t believe any sane person would do that to any child of that age, much less one with a sensory seeking disability and one who had been recently moved to a new family in a new country. There’s just so much wrong here.

It's totally abusive and so wrong to do that! She singled Huxley out and duct taped his hands when her other 2 kids also suck their thumbs and didn't receive the same punishment. She obviously adopted him strictly for content, and when she realized it would actually require parental effort, she bailed.

Actually there was a whole post about how his doctor recommended it. Don’t be so quick to judge when you don’t know all the details.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:lmao you know the more you idiots keep clicking on her IG and YouTube videos, the more money they are making right? His adoption story video has sky rocketed to over 5.5 million views. Will advertisers drop her since a bunch of crazies are pressuring them to? Yeah. But the crazies are also sky rocketing their income right now as well with all the clicks.

I really hope YouTube demonetizes their channel(s) given the situation. There was a popular vlogger (DaddyOFive) that YT did this to a few years ago — he filmed himself playing horribly cruel “pranks” on his children (forcing them to smash their electronics, screaming curse words at them, telling them they were being put up for adoption); hopefully they’ll do the same in this case.

Why? Because a family “re homed” a child under medical advice? You realize that NO ONE knows this family and what actually happened. Everything being said is pure speculation and rumors and lies etc. It’s actually quite sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of posters on the SN forum whose kids have violent out bursts. Not one has ever said that a professional told them to voluntarily give up parental rights and rehome a child.
That said, the child is clearly better off in a different home. Unclear if he also would have been better off just staying in foster care in China.
The whole duct tape on thumb thing in itself is so bizarre. I can’t believe any sane person would do that to any child of that age, much less one with a sensory seeking disability and one who had been recently moved to a new family in a new country. There’s just so much wrong here.

It's totally abusive and so wrong to do that! She singled Huxley out and duct taped his hands when her other 2 kids also suck their thumbs and didn't receive the same punishment. She obviously adopted him strictly for content, and when she realized it would actually require parental effort, she bailed.

Actually there was a whole post about how his doctor recommended it. Don’t be so quick to judge when you don’t know all the details.

No way did a doctor say to put the child up for another adoption. It would be one of 2 things:

a) The doctors recommended more intervention and they refused. They whined about it previously and the cost despite spending on extravagant jewelry, vacations and a new fancy huge home. She also kept pulling him out of things.

b.) He was removed due to suspected abuse by parent or a very severe abuse instance between children or from child to parent, which to be clear nobody has stated and I am not at all saying happened here. I am simply saying abuse is the only case where I have heard of a medical professional deciding a child needs to be out of the home and the goal is usually to help the child eventually re-enter the home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of posters on the SN forum whose kids have violent out bursts. Not one has ever said that a professional told them to voluntarily give up parental rights and rehome a child.
That said, the child is clearly better off in a different home. Unclear if he also would have been better off just staying in foster care in China.
The whole duct tape on thumb thing in itself is so bizarre. I can’t believe any sane person would do that to any child of that age, much less one with a sensory seeking disability and one who had been recently moved to a new family in a new country. There’s just so much wrong here.

It's totally abusive and so wrong to do that! She singled Huxley out and duct taped his hands when her other 2 kids also suck their thumbs and didn't receive the same punishment. She obviously adopted him strictly for content, and when she realized it would actually require parental effort, she bailed.

Actually there was a whole post about how his doctor recommended it. Don’t be so quick to judge when you don’t know all the details.

No way did a doctor say to put the child up for another adoption. It would be one of 2 things:

a) The doctors recommended more intervention and they refused. They whined about it previously and the cost despite spending on extravagant jewelry, vacations and a new fancy huge home. She also kept pulling him out of things.

b.) He was removed due to suspected abuse by parent or a very severe abuse instance between children or from child to parent, which to be clear nobody has stated and I am not at all saying happened here. I am simply saying abuse is the only case where I have heard of a medical professional deciding a child needs to be out of the home and the goal is usually to help the child eventually re-enter the home.

It’s all over social media that he was being violent with the other kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of posters on the SN forum whose kids have violent out bursts. Not one has ever said that a professional told them to voluntarily give up parental rights and rehome a child.
That said, the child is clearly better off in a different home. Unclear if he also would have been better off just staying in foster care in China.
The whole duct tape on thumb thing in itself is so bizarre. I can’t believe any sane person would do that to any child of that age, much less one with a sensory seeking disability and one who had been recently moved to a new family in a new country. There’s just so much wrong here.

It's totally abusive and so wrong to do that! She singled Huxley out and duct taped his hands when her other 2 kids also suck their thumbs and didn't receive the same punishment. She obviously adopted him strictly for content, and when she realized it would actually require parental effort, she bailed.

Actually there was a whole post about how his doctor recommended it. Don’t be so quick to judge when you don’t know all the details.

No doctor would recommend duct taping the hands of a child with special needs to stop sucking their thumb. For one thing, it's self soothing. No caring, educated person would want to take that away from a child like Huxley. Of course there is a whole post about it. There has to be to justify her abusive behaviors towards him. I don't believe anything she says because her entire life is fabricated.

[Anonymous]

I like how she wore glasses in the video so the viewer would know it was serious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of posters on the SN forum whose kids have violent out bursts. Not one has ever said that a professional told them to voluntarily give up parental rights and rehome a child.
That said, the child is clearly better off in a different home. Unclear if he also would have been better off just staying in foster care in China.
The whole duct tape on thumb thing in itself is so bizarre. I can’t believe any sane person would do that to any child of that age, much less one with a sensory seeking disability and one who had been recently moved to a new family in a new country. There’s just so much wrong here.

It's totally abusive and so wrong to do that! She singled Huxley out and duct taped his hands when her other 2 kids also suck their thumbs and didn't receive the same punishment. She obviously adopted him strictly for content, and when she realized it would actually require parental effort, she bailed.

Actually there was a whole post about how his doctor recommended it. Don’t be so quick to judge when you don’t know all the details.

No way did a doctor say to put the child up for another adoption. It would be one of 2 things:

a) The doctors recommended more intervention and they refused. They whined about it previously and the cost despite spending on extravagant jewelry, vacations and a new fancy huge home. She also kept pulling him out of things.

b.) He was removed due to suspected abuse by parent or a very severe abuse instance between children or from child to parent, which to be clear nobody has stated and I am not at all saying happened here. I am simply saying abuse is the only case where I have heard of a medical professional deciding a child needs to be out of the home and the goal is usually to help the child eventually re-enter the home.

It’s all over social media that he was being violent with the other kids.

Yet the only people who COULD say that and WOULD say that are the former parents. What do you expect them to say? "He is an angel but we have to give him away because he's too good for us?" NO, they realize that they have to run a smear campaign against him to make themselves look good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like how she wore glasses in the video so the viewer would know it was serious.

Seriousness videos always do well. There is a bit of a checklist for break-up, apology, miscarriage....and now rejoining videos. They all kind of look and sound the same. People are drawn into other people's personal drama...the serious, we need to talk / tell you something videos often trend and her millions of views and are the biggest money makers for lots of influencers.

[Anonymous]

Violent and aggressive? Wasn't he just 3?

Lots of toddlers are 'violent and aggressive'. Especially when they struggle with communication and sensory issues.

We aren't talking an angry 13 year old beating people up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of posters on the SN forum whose kids have violent out bursts. Not one has ever said that a professional told them to voluntarily give up parental rights and rehome a child.
That said, the child is clearly better off in a different home. Unclear if he also would have been better off just staying in foster care in China.
The whole duct tape on thumb thing in itself is so bizarre. I can’t believe any sane person would do that to any child of that age, much less one with a sensory seeking disability and one who had been recently moved to a new family in a new country. There’s just so much wrong here.

It's totally abusive and so wrong to do that! She singled Huxley out and duct taped his hands when her other 2 kids also suck their thumbs and didn't receive the same punishment. She obviously adopted him strictly for content, and when she realized it would actually require parental effort, she bailed.

Actually there was a whole post about how his doctor recommended it. Don’t be so quick to judge when you don’t know all the details.

No way did a doctor say to put the child up for another adoption. It would be one of 2 things:

a) The doctors recommended more intervention and they refused. They whined about it previously and the cost despite spending on extravagant jewelry, vacations and a new fancy huge home. She also kept pulling him out of things.

b.) He was removed due to suspected abuse by parent or a very severe abuse instance between children or from child to parent, which to be clear nobody has stated and I am not at all saying happened here. I am simply saying abuse is the only case where I have heard of a medical professional deciding a child needs to be out of the home and the goal is usually to help the child eventually re-enter the home.

It’s all over social media that he was being violent with the other kids.

The only proof of this is what the mother said, and she is obviously a liar.

[Anonymous]

Every cent they made off of him should go into a special needs trust to help him. Every cent!

[Anonymous]

They seem to think their viewers are stupid. They start out kissing up to their viewers and thanking them praying they will still give views.

They are lying about medical professionals saying they needed to give him up...possibly lying through omission...if there are allegations against them or lying about how and what was said. HIPPA prevents the medical professionals from setting the record straight. Yet, they can imply Huxley did something wrong, maybe violent, and nobody can defend him.

There is no way he found a permanent home so quickly.

Rumor has it he left the home in January, yet she put possibly old footage of him into one of her ads/videos in March.

WTF is with the father saying Myka did her best. What about him? Is there an allegation against HER or does he just think she is the only one responsible for a child in their home?

She reports in one video the newborn is so much harder than any of her kids. She claims elsewhere Huxley's needs were not severe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They seem to think their viewers are stupid. They start out kissing up to their viewers and thanking them praying they will still give views.

They are lying about medical professionals saying they needed to give him up...possibly lying through omission...if there are allegations against them or lying about how and what was said. HIPPA prevents the medical professionals from setting the record straight. Yet, they can imply Huxley did something wrong, maybe violent, and nobody can defend him.

There is no way he found a permanent home so quickly.

Rumor has it he left the home in January, yet she put possibly old footage of him into one of her ads/videos in March.

WTF is with the father saying Myka did her best. What about him? Is there an allegation against HER or does he just think she is the only one responsible for a child in their home?

She reports in one video the newborn is so much harder than any of her kids. She claims elsewhere Huxley's needs were not severe.

Her husband is apparently responsible for all of the child rearing, and her b*tch. Huxley was only 1 of 3 children Myka wanted to adopt. It seems it was mostly her idea, and they specifically sought out a child with special needs. The whole thing is disturbing. I agree that they're lying about being advised to give him up. She'll say whatever to lessen the backlash.

[Anonymous]

They would never have “re-homed” a biological child. They view him as disposable. Disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Let’s push this to 50 pages people!!