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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?
Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.
OMG.
Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.
The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.
DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?
That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.
The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.
She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.
Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?
Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.
You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!
I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?
Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.
If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.
If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.
If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.
Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.
You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.
Your inference is incorrect. You are making things up to bolster your argument. If I thought sex at 14 was ok, I would have said it. Unless you can point out exactly what I said that led you to infer that. I’d be open to discussing that.
NP. I read up the thread and agree that your comments imply that you have no issue with 14 years old having sex and you condoned promiscuous behavior.
There are many comments that say they do not think kids should have early sex but if they do, they should have access to condoms. Only you think that's contradictory or condoning.
There are many comments saying it’s okay and one lady said her husband has sex at 13 and he is a productive citizen.
Do you really think teens who lose their virginity won’t be productive citizens. Jesus you moms are so freaking weird. I remember in the late 80’s hearing about circle jerks, spin the bottle and 7 minutes in heaven. This was happening in 7/8th grade. Most kids were losing or aiming to lose their virginity by early high school. And I definitely don’t remember any parents overly involved in forcing their kids to not socialize and stay virgins.
And look at every single teen movie. Sex and more sex.
You holier than thou parents thinking you can force your teen with their own mind and lots of peer pressure to be virgins until 20 is laughable.
And where are the stats and articles that teen sex is ruining them? Cute the sources.
Because honestly, we didn’t have a ton of depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues like this current generation has. Helicoptering, tracking, forcing a ton of school/activities, college resume building, giving them 24/7 internet access, encouraging them to stay home on weekends, not foster autonomy and shaming our kids for mistakes is so much worse. Drop out college rates are sky high. Suicide rates sky high.
The snowplowing and over involvement is disgusting and demeaning.
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