I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:I agree but two best friends don't have FB. I doubt she has their phone numbers.

Which would make sense if they're all redneck/country boys. But her reluctance to call any family member or the local police is telling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: I cannot sit on this site all damn day and respond to every damn post.

A couple of things- I never said he had a LinkedIn account, he doesn't so idk where some of you are getting that from. I never said i found out his employers info this morning....because I didn't. Yes we have met in person. No, I am not scared to call the police because of his illegal hunting.

I am trying to do the best I can on what limited info I have to go off of. I am not home right now so I can't sit here calling 383737 numbers.

To the PP who gave me an email address, I will email you in a little when I am able to get home and set up another email account.

If anyone wants to legitimately help me, I will gladly accept the help. I am not a troll or making this all up.

Call the courthouses in all the counties in Northern Maine and see if your bf is in jail. They will tell you this information. I doubt there are more than 5 counties for you to call.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your reluctance to get officials (police or park service) involved makes me wonder why. You may be the only person who knows that he is missing.

I hope your cowardice in calling them doesn't hurt him.

She doesn't want to tell them he was poaching. Try to follow along.

[Anonymous]

I would call his employer...did he show up for work today?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would call his employer...did he show up for work today?

He works on a couple farms so there's no corporate number which is plausible.

[Anonymous]

Dude is probably lying on a trail with a twisted ankle thinking, "I know my girlfriend will be smart enough to call the cops to look for me."

He's been out there now since Sunday night. Hopefully the bears aren't out of hibernation yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would call his employer...did he show up for work today?

He doesn't have a traditional boss whom she can call. What did the Hampton police say?

[Anonymous]

OP, would you be willing to say what the uncle's last name is?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Your reluctance to get officials (police or park service) involved makes me wonder why. You may be the only person who knows that he is missing.

I hope your cowardice in calling them doesn't hurt him.

She doesn't want to tell them he was poaching. Try to follow along.

I'm the PP who SAID she didn't want to tell them he was poaching. I'm reiterating that she is a coward for not doing so.

Try to follow allong.

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I grew up in Western Pennsylvania, and we had a large horse farm with pastures bordered by forest. Every hunting season, we had to keep the horses in to prevent them from being (accidentally) shot. We didn't own the bordering forest, so couldn't prevent the hunters, and hunting was a really common hobby out there. Most hunters were nice people who shot deer in season and then took them to the butcher to be processed, and their families ate the venison.

But there were a few known poachers, and poaching was universally despised by the local "normal" hunters. I don't think it was a coincidence that the poachers were also rumored to be involved with other sketchy activities, OR that the only two people I have known for a fact to have been heavily into meth were also poachers (hello, rural high school).

She's scared because she doesn't want the police to find out that her boyfriend is doing some of the other illegal activities that go along with poaching.

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Anonymous wrote:Some side chicks know the deal. They know what's going on they know where they stand they anticipate and expect such "disappearances". Other side chicks like the OP are completely disillusioned. They think just because they're madly in love that the guy using them or running a game on them feels the same way and even though all the signs point to the obvious they just don't want to see it. They can't admit to themselves that they're nothing more than a chick on the side.

According to OP, their Facebook pages sayi'in a relationship with x' and link to the other. She has met two friends and an uncle. Of course some cheaters create multiple FB pages, but she has no reason to think she's an other.

She's a side chick.
She's 4 hours away she doesn't know where he lives she doesn't know where he works and she hasn't MET anyone she just KNOWS OF the two friends and the uncle.

OP here: for the fucking love of God please STFU with your constant side chick comments.

I DO KNOW WHERE HE LIVES.
I KNOW WHAT HE DOES FOR WORK BUT HE DOESN'T WORK FOR A COMPANY LIKE MOST PEOPLE.
I HAVE MET PEOPLE IN HIS LIFE.

stop posting false information

SO GOOGLE HIS ADDRESS AND CALL NEIGHBORS OR FRIENDS IF YOU ARE SO WORRIED.

She has his address- seriously, what's wrong with you? This doesn't make your comments any less incorrect or more helpful. We all have an opinion on what OP should do but at least stop getting facts wrong.

I meant google the neighbors' names and numbers around his, genius.

[Anonymous]

What did the Hampton cops say?

TOWN PHONE NUMBER: 518-282-9830

They are open until 6:00 tonight. Better call - hopefully he's not on a trail in the snow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I grew up in Western Pennsylvania, and we had a large horse farm with pastures bordered by forest. Every hunting season, we had to keep the horses in to prevent them from being (accidentally) shot. We didn't own the bordering forest, so couldn't prevent the hunters, and hunting was a really common hobby out there. Most hunters were nice people who shot deer in season and then took them to the butcher to be processed, and their families ate the venison.

But there were a few known poachers, and poaching was universally despised by the local "normal" hunters. I don't think it was a coincidence that the poachers were also rumored to be involved with other sketchy activities, OR that the only two people I have known for a fact to have been heavily into meth were also poachers (hello, rural high school).

She's scared because she doesn't want the police to find out that her boyfriend is doing some of the other illegal activities that go along with poaching.

You're probably right, and would make sense since she's only interested in fb messaging the uncle he was with, so far. But at what point does your actual concern for someone's well-being overtake and you just do the right thing? Or even CALL the uncle rather than just fb message him?

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Anonymous wrote:Some side chicks know the deal. They know what's going on they know where they stand they anticipate and expect such "disappearances". Other side chicks like the OP are completely disillusioned. They think just because they're madly in love that the guy using them or running a game on them feels the same way and even though all the signs point to the obvious they just don't want to see it. They can't admit to themselves that they're nothing more than a chick on the side.

According to OP, their Facebook pages sayi'in a relationship with x' and link to the other. She has met two friends and an uncle. Of course some cheaters create multiple FB pages, but she has no reason to think she's an other.

She's a side chick.
She's 4 hours away she doesn't know where he lives she doesn't know where he works and she hasn't MET anyone she just KNOWS OF the two friends and the uncle.

OP here: for the fucking love of God please STFU with your constant side chick comments.

I DO KNOW WHERE HE LIVES.
I KNOW WHAT HE DOES FOR WORK BUT HE DOESN'T WORK FOR A COMPANY LIKE MOST PEOPLE.
I HAVE MET PEOPLE IN HIS LIFE.

stop posting false information

SO GOOGLE HIS ADDRESS AND CALL NEIGHBORS OR FRIENDS IF YOU ARE SO WORRIED.

She has his address- seriously, what's wrong with you? This doesn't make your comments any less incorrect or more helpful. We all have an opinion on what OP should do but at least stop getting facts wrong.

I meant google the neighbors' names and numbers around his, genius.

Hey, genius: she could either mess around with that, or she could call the Hampton cops to see if he's at his house and if he's not she can file a missing person's report.

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Anonymous wrote:Some side chicks know the deal. They know what's going on they know where they stand they anticipate and expect such "disappearances". Other side chicks like the OP are completely disillusioned. They think just because they're madly in love that the guy using them or running a game on them feels the same way and even though all the signs point to the obvious they just don't want to see it. They can't admit to themselves that they're nothing more than a chick on the side.

According to OP, their Facebook pages sayi'in a relationship with x' and link to the other. She has met two friends and an uncle. Of course some cheaters create multiple FB pages, but she has no reason to think she's an other.

She's a side chick.
She's 4 hours away she doesn't know where he lives she doesn't know where he works and she hasn't MET anyone she just KNOWS OF the two friends and the uncle.

OP here: for the fucking love of God please STFU with your constant side chick comments.

I DO KNOW WHERE HE LIVES.
I KNOW WHAT HE DOES FOR WORK BUT HE DOESN'T WORK FOR A COMPANY LIKE MOST PEOPLE.
I HAVE MET PEOPLE IN HIS LIFE.

stop posting false information

SO GOOGLE HIS ADDRESS AND CALL NEIGHBORS OR FRIENDS IF YOU ARE SO WORRIED.

She has his address- seriously, what's wrong with you? This doesn't make your comments any less incorrect or more helpful. We all have an opinion on what OP should do but at least stop getting facts wrong.

I meant google the neighbors' names and numbers around his, genius.

Do you always have so much trouble keeping facts straight and expressing yourself?