Man asked woman to leash her dog in a public park -- she called the police on him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Didn't miss any part of the story. She threatened him by calling the cops and acting like he was going to rape her. Also note that she was using his skin color as a way to emphasize the importance of the police coming to help her. She also nearly strangled her dog. But what you are missing is that he also bears some blame, was threatening her, illegally videotaped her, then tried to destroy her by posting it on Facebook.

Oh sweetie, you can videotape anyone in a public place - nothing illegal about it.

He has to post it in Facebook otherwise he will be targeted by the cops. This was good insurance by this man. Even with the video, racist trolls are trying to put blame on him.

[Anonymous]

Lot of projection here. It’s a middle aged woman with a small dog being accosted by a tall AA man in a park.

Which part of the above makes him a threat to her? If the issue is him being a man, why did you mention his race? If the issue is his race, how are your assumptions about the inherent threat posed by a Black man not racist, and steeped in historical characterizations of Black men as superpredators?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Didn't miss any part of the story. She threatened him by calling the cops and acting like he was going to rape her. Also note that she was using his skin color as a way to emphasize the importance of the police coming to help her. She also nearly strangled her dog. But what you are missing is that he also bears some blame, was threatening her, illegally videotaped her, then tried to destroy her by posting it on Facebook.

A. She didn’t act like she was about to be raped
B. It is not illegal for him to videotape their interaction
C. He did not post it, his sister did

[Anonymous]

Sorry honey:

New York's wiretapping law is a "one-party consent" law. New York makes it a crime to record to record or eavesdrop on an in-person or telephone conversation unless one party to the conversation consents. N.Y. Penal Law §§ 250.00, 250.05.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What people are also ignoring:

1) He thought he was the police and could enforce the law. What he should have done is called the police if it was so important.
2) He was luring dogs with treats (like he always does) and vaguely implied he would "do something she didn't like". He used the word "do", not "give", which implied he was using the treat to lure the dog so he could "do" something else to it. Giving treats to dogs is not a threat.
3) He wasn't wearing a mask, she was.
4) He called her a Karen, so in his heart he is likely as racist as she is.
5) He video-taped only her reaction, not his initial words. There's no telling what he said initially, aside from what he says in his Facebook post. It's against the law to record someone in NY without the second person's permission. She could rightfully sue him, not only for illegal wiretapping/recording, but for libel. He has ruined her life.
6) Luring dogs with treats does not solve the leash problem, so it is highly unlikely that he was threatening to give her dog treats. It is more probably that he wanted her to think that he was going to poison her dog, or take her dog.
7) If this was a white male, the media and court of public opinion would be on her side. A white male would have been seen as "mansplaining" the law to her, and threatening to hurt her dog.

THIS x1000 now she loses her job because of him. We don’t know what really happened.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Lot of projection here. It’s a middle aged woman with a small dog being accosted by a tall AA man in a park.

Which part of the above makes him a threat to her? If the issue is him being a man, why did you mention his race? If the issue is his race, how are your assumptions about the inherent threat posed by a Black man not racist, and steeped in historical characterizations of Black men as superpredators?

Actually I am not comfortable with ANY man approaching me in a secluded part with treats for my dog. It doesn’t matter the race. Women are preyed upon all the time.

[Anonymous]

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Lot of projection here. It’s a middle aged woman with a small dog being accosted by a tall AA man in a park.

Which part of the above makes him a threat to her? If the issue is him being a man, why did you mention his race? If the issue is his race, how are your assumptions about the inherent threat posed by a Black man not racist, and steeped in historical characterizations of Black men as superpredators?

DP. It’s prejudice, not racism.....learn the difference. And yeah, people do pre-judge black men as having a higher threat profile because black men make up 6% of the population and commit over 50% of violent crimes. So while it’s certainly not fair it is understandable.

[Anonymous]

Find a woman who hasn’t been accosted in the park by some unknown man.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder what he said to her before he started filming. Pretty sure black women in a secluded area of a park don't like being filmed by white men they've never met before.

Pretty sure they wouldn't respond by calling the police and pretending to be physically threatened.

I'm not so sure they wouldn't call the police, but it might depend on what was said before the video started. He may have said things that weren't recorded.

Or, maybe she is a racist. And, maybe you should stop trying to justify her behavior.

Like it or not, some of us will withhold judgment in a situation where we're being served up a woman to condemn based on an incomplete version of an event.

And of course she was the one to apologize because she had already quickly been doxxed and publicly threatened.

But it is good to know that the next time I see a minority committing any similar infraction, as I have many times in the past, I can instruct them how to behave - as Birdwatcher Kevin did here - secure in the knowledge that no one will ever give a white person grief for instructing minorities on expected laws and social norms in parks and other public venues.

[Anonymous]

I wonder how many times she has done this? White women privilege.

[Anonymous]

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Lot of projection here. It’s a middle aged woman with a small dog being accosted by a tall AA man in a park.

Which part of the above makes him a threat to her? If the issue is him being a man, why did you mention his race? If the issue is his race, how are your assumptions about the inherent threat posed by a Black man not racist, and steeped in historical characterizations of Black men as superpredators?

DP. It’s prejudice, not racism.....learn the difference. And yeah, people do pre-judge black men as having a higher threat profile because black men make up 6% of the population and commit over 50% of violent crimes. So while it’s certainly not fair it is understandable.

Sure.

But in this particular case, she was the one breaking the law by unleashing her dog in the birdwatching area, she came close to this man, she threatened him by saying she will file a false report, she choked her dog, she changed her voice and pretended to be in danger and filed the police report. At no point she seems to feel that she is in danger from this man.

Yes, I am afraid of any group of men who accost me, but this guy was not close to her. She knew she was safe and she used the inherent racism in USA to set him up to be arrested or shot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Didn't miss any part of the story. She threatened him by calling the cops and acting like he was going to rape her. Also note that she was using his skin color as a way to emphasize the importance of the police coming to help her. She also nearly strangled her dog. But what you are missing is that he also bears some blame, was threatening her, illegally videotaped her, then tried to destroy her by posting it on Facebook.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS ILLEGALLY VIDEOTAPING HER IN A PUBLIC AREA.

She was in a public place. It's not illegal!!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder what he said to her before he started filming. Pretty sure black women in a secluded area of a park don't like being filmed by white men they've never met before.

Pretty sure they wouldn't respond by calling the police and pretending to be physically threatened.

I'm not so sure they wouldn't call the police, but it might depend on what was said before the video started. He may have said things that weren't recorded.

Or, maybe she is a racist. And, maybe you should stop trying to justify her behavior.

Like it or not, some of us will withhold judgment in a situation where we're being served up a woman to condemn based on an incomplete version of an event.

And of course she was the one to apologize because she had already quickly been doxxed and publicly threatened.

But it is good to know that the next time I see a minority committing any similar infraction, as I have many times in the past, I can instruct them how to behave - as Birdwatcher Kevin did here - secure in the knowledge that no one will ever give a white person grief for instructing minorities on expected laws and social norms in parks and other public venues.

DP. You are being obtuse. A normal person doesn't react the way this woman did when asked to leash her dog or even after the man said he'd lure her dog away with treats. No one made her do what she did. No one made her say those things. You can choose to believe there is something else there to "justify" her actions but the reality - as uncomfortable as it may be for you - is that this woman knowingly called authorities to report an AA man doing something she knew he wasn't doing.

[Anonymous]

So tired of these people. Always with the camera ready. I’d love to see what happens before the camera goes on. Always with a chip on their shoulder. Hope it makes you feel nice and big when you upload these stupid videos. I don’t care if you’re black or white or yellow or purple. These people with the cameras feel small and want to prove they’re important. Love provoking to go viral. Get a life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder how many times she has done this? White women privilege.

She is a manipulator who lies and plays the victim. What is shocking is the way she changed her voice and sounded panic stricken when making the report. She is a NPD Psychopath and a Sociopath. I think she is classic NPD. She is abusive to her animal to garner sympathy too. I think people who have been gaslighted by her over years will probably will be finding some relief to know that her behavior was captured. I think her NPD behavior may go beyond being racist. She is a deeply disturbed individual.