I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

It's like some dummies just learned the term side piece today and don't quite know what it means but they think it's just fun to say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's like some dummies just learned the term side piece today and don't quite know what it means but they think it's just fun to say.

LOL, I'm guilty of this. I didn't want to call her a floozy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some side chicks know the deal. They know what's going on they know where they stand they anticipate and expect such "disappearances". Other side chicks like the OP are completely disillusioned. They think just because they're madly in love that the guy using them or running a game on them feels the same way and even though all the signs point to the obvious they just don't want to see it. They can't admit to themselves that they're nothing more than a chick on the side.

According to OP, their Facebook pages sayi'in a relationship with x' and link to the other. She has met two friends and an uncle. Of course some cheaters create multiple FB pages, but she has no reason to think she's an other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here: I cannot sit on this site all damn day and respond to every damn post.

A couple of things- I never said he had a LinkedIn account, he doesn't so idk where some of you are getting that from. I never said i found out his employers info this morning....because I didn't. Yes we have met in person. No, I am not scared to call the police because of his illegal hunting.

I am trying to do the best I can on what limited info I have to go off of. I am not home right now so I can't sit here calling 383737 numbers.

To the PP who gave me an email address, I will email you in a little when I am able to get home and set up another email account.

If anyone wants to legitimately help me, I will gladly accept the help. I am not a troll or making this all up.

Sweetheart, you only need to call ONE NUMBER: the one for the police department in the jurisdiction of which he lives. Can you tell us the city and we can help you find the correct police department to contact?

Op here: no, not east Hampton. It's just Hampton, NY. Close to border of VT
OP here: Hampton, NY

Here you go:

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=east+hampton+police+station

[Anonymous]

Call this number and ask who to speak to regarding a missing person from their community:

2629 State Route 22A
P.O. Box 125
Hampton, NY 12837
Phone: [phone]
Fax: [phone]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here: I cannot sit on this site all damn day and respond to every damn post.

A couple of things- I never said he had a LinkedIn account, he doesn't so idk where some of you are getting that from. I never said i found out his employers info this morning....because I didn't. Yes we have met in person. No, I am not scared to call the police because of his illegal hunting.

I am trying to do the best I can on what limited info I have to go off of. I am not home right now so I can't sit here calling 383737 numbers.

To the PP who gave me an email address, I will email you in a little when I am able to get home and set up another email account.

If anyone wants to legitimately help me, I will gladly accept the help. I am not a troll or making this all up.

Sweetheart, you only need to call ONE NUMBER: the one for the police department in the jurisdiction of which he lives. Can you tell us the city and we can help you find the correct police department to contact?

Op here: no, not east Hampton. It's just Hampton, NY. Close to border of VT
OP here: Hampton, NY

Here you go:

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=east+hampton+police+station

Op here: not east Hampton. It's just Hampton, NY. Close to border of vermont

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here: I cannot sit on this site all damn day and respond to every damn post.

A couple of things- I never said he had a LinkedIn account, he doesn't so idk where some of you are getting that from. I never said i found out his employers info this morning....because I didn't. Yes we have met in person. No, I am not scared to call the police because of his illegal hunting.

I am trying to do the best I can on what limited info I have to go off of. I am not home right now so I can't sit here calling 383737 numbers.

To the PP who gave me an email address, I will email you in a little when I am able to get home and set up another email account.

If anyone wants to legitimately help me, I will gladly accept the help. I am not a troll or making this all up.

Sweetheart, you only need to call ONE NUMBER: the one for the police department in the jurisdiction of which he lives. Can you tell us the city and we can help you find the correct police department to contact?

Op here: no, not east Hampton. It's just Hampton, NY. Close to border of VT
OP here: Hampton, NY

Here you go:

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=east+hampton+police+station

Op here: not east Hampton. It's just Hampton, NY. Close to border of vermont

Please see my response above. I'm sure the nice people at the Hampton City Hall can help you right out with a person to talk to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bobcats are very rare in northern Maine.

It infuriates me if this loser was really out there to shoot bobcats. What pathetic little man he must be, to kill a non-food animal like that. I hope he's in jail.

[Anonymous]

Tell them: "My boyfriend who lives in Hampton is missing and I'd like to have the town police to go over and perform a wellness check."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dollars to donuts this guy has been arrested for poaching.

Good riddance. Too bad he didn't get mauled by a bear.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's like some dummies just learned the term side piece today and don't quite know what it means but they think it's just fun to say.

agreed. so tired of reading "side chick" stop, PP. We know what you think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some side chicks know the deal. They know what's going on they know where they stand they anticipate and expect such "disappearances". Other side chicks like the OP are completely disillusioned. They think just because they're madly in love that the guy using them or running a game on them feels the same way and even though all the signs point to the obvious they just don't want to see it. They can't admit to themselves that they're nothing more than a chick on the side.

According to OP, their Facebook pages sayi'in a relationship with x' and link to the other. She has met two friends and an uncle. Of course some cheaters create multiple FB pages, but she has no reason to think she's an other.

She's a side chick.
She's 4 hours away she doesn't know where he lives she doesn't know where he works and she hasn't MET anyone she just KNOWS OF the two friends and the uncle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some side chicks know the deal. They know what's going on they know where they stand they anticipate and expect such "disappearances". Other side chicks like the OP are completely disillusioned. They think just because they're madly in love that the guy using them or running a game on them feels the same way and even though all the signs point to the obvious they just don't want to see it. They can't admit to themselves that they're nothing more than a chick on the side.

According to OP, their Facebook pages sayi'in a relationship with x' and link to the other. She has met two friends and an uncle. Of course some cheaters create multiple FB pages, but she has no reason to think she's an other.

NP here who read the whole thread (I need to get a life). I'm surprised by the amount of pessimistic responses jumping to the "other woman" scenario and responses insulting OP. The scenario described by OP doesn't sound that strange to me. They met online, have met in person but are long distance, are in a relationship on Facebook, and she has met some of his friends and family members. The fact that they are in a relationship on Facebook and that she has met some of his friends and family members (and remember they are in their mid 20s) to me means she is not likely the other woman. I trust her judgement that this is out of the ordinary for him to not be in touch (she knows him; we do not). Also, she mentioned he had to drive back 9 hours by himself, so it seems possible if something happened on the drive back that his family might not know yet, unless the Police were involved and were able to contact them. Sounds like he works for Farms and is off on his own a lot, so unless he has checked in physically or has another cell phone for work, how else would they reach him if not by his cell phone, which is off? Many people in their 20s don't have home phones.

I don't see why OP would be expected to have his friends and family's phone numbers after 6 months of dating. Many people don't have their phone numbers publicly listed these days, so getting that info would be hard. Her best bet would be friending the relatives etc on facebook and asking them to follow up, and calling the police in the district where he lives and where he was (if known).

There is a chance that he has decided to fall off the face of the earth, but I wouldn't be so pessimistic as to go there first. I would treat it with concern and if OP finds out he just decided to disappear without officially breaking up with her, then he looks like the jerk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some side chicks know the deal. They know what's going on they know where they stand they anticipate and expect such "disappearances". Other side chicks like the OP are completely disillusioned. They think just because they're madly in love that the guy using them or running a game on them feels the same way and even though all the signs point to the obvious they just don't want to see it. They can't admit to themselves that they're nothing more than a chick on the side.

According to OP, their Facebook pages sayi'in a relationship with x' and link to the other. She has met two friends and an uncle. Of course some cheaters create multiple FB pages, but she has no reason to think she's an other.

She's a side chick.
She's 4 hours away she doesn't know where he lives she doesn't know where he works and she hasn't MET anyone she just KNOWS OF the two friends and the uncle.

Well, technically she says:

>>>OP here: I know his two best friends and his uncle which I stated.<<<

That makes it sound like she knows the names of the two best friends. IMO she should have contacted them by now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some side chicks know the deal. They know what's going on they know where they stand they anticipate and expect such "disappearances". Other side chicks like the OP are completely disillusioned. They think just because they're madly in love that the guy using them or running a game on them feels the same way and even though all the signs point to the obvious they just don't want to see it. They can't admit to themselves that they're nothing more than a chick on the side.

According to OP, their Facebook pages sayi'in a relationship with x' and link to the other. She has met two friends and an uncle. Of course some cheaters create multiple FB pages, but she has no reason to think she's an other.

NP here who read the whole thread (I need to get a life). I'm surprised by the amount of pessimistic responses jumping to the "other woman" scenario and responses insulting OP. The scenario described by OP doesn't sound that strange to me. They met online, have met in person but are long distance, are in a relationship on Facebook, and she has met some of his friends and family members. The fact that they are in a relationship on Facebook and that she has met some of his friends and family members (and remember they are in their mid 20s) to me means she is not likely the other woman. I trust her judgement that this is out of the ordinary for him to not be in touch (she knows him; we do not). Also, she mentioned he had to drive back 9 hours by himself, so it seems possible if something happened on the drive back that his family might not know yet, unless the Police were involved and were able to contact them. Sounds like he works for Farms and is off on his own a lot, so unless he has checked in physically or has another cell phone for work, how else would they reach him if not by his cell phone, which is off? Many people in their 20s don't have home phones.

I don't see why OP would be expected to have his friends and family's phone numbers after 6 months of dating. Many people don't have their phone numbers publicly listed these days, so getting that info would be hard. Her best bet would be friending the relatives etc on facebook and asking them to follow up, and calling the police in the district where he lives and where he was (if known).

There is a chance that he has decided to fall off the face of the earth, but I wouldn't be so pessimistic as to go there first. I would treat it with concern and if OP finds out he just decided to disappear without officially breaking up with her, then he looks like the jerk.

+1000 The DCUM conspiracy theorists are out in full force today. Sorry you are getting the brunt of it, OP.