What do you think about letting 17 yr old hang out alone in his room with his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

With the door shut?
I'm ok with some fooling around and we've had lots of talks about going slow but I'm not sure if it's ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:With the door shut?
I'm ok with some fooling around and we've had lots of talks about going slow but I'm not sure if it's ok.

No matter what you tell him he is not going to go "slow". He is going to get as much as she is willing to give up.

[Anonymous]

This is a no.

I dated my husband in high school. He never saw my room until after we were married. It was a big family joke but my parents had rules and they were to be followed.

[Anonymous]

Hell no.

No one is getting pregnant or catching an std in my house with my blessing.

Parent the old fashioned way. Make the kids get creative and work for sex. Don't make it so easy they can do it in their room with their parents home.

It is not college OP.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure she is swallowing his babies behind those closed doors.

[Anonymous]

I would provide a variety of condoms in a bowl. Not joking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure she is swallowing his babies behind those closed doors.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would provide a variety of condoms in a bowl. Not joking.

And you are ok with hearing her orgasm in your house?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would provide a variety of condoms in a bowl. Not joking.

And you are ok with hearing her orgasm in your house?

Tend to think that is not highly correlated with condom use for a 17 yr old.

[Anonymous]

You are not his friend. You are the parent, he is your child and she is the child of someone who trusts you and your family's judgement. Your house, your rules.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would provide a variety of condoms in a bowl. Not joking.

And you are ok with hearing her orgasm in your house?

Tend to think that is not highly correlated with condom use for a 17 yr old.

You are promoting and encouraging sex. You allow a closed door between a 17 year old girl and boy, and you provide condoms. Wtf do you think they will do, make balloon animals? You will hear the headboard banging and hear moaning, don't kid yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are not his friend. You are the parent, he is your child and she is the child of someone who trusts you and your family's judgement. Your house, your rules.

Seriously, thank you for sharing commonsense!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would provide a variety of condoms in a bowl. Not joking.

And you are ok with hearing her orgasm in your house?

Tend to think that is not highly correlated with condom use for a 17 yr old.

You are promoting and encouraging sex. You allow a closed door between a 17 year old girl and boy, and you provide condoms. Wtf do you think they will do, make balloon animals? You will hear the headboard banging and hear moaning, don't kid yourself.

If they are going to have sex, they are going to have sex. So I prefer they have sex using birth control rather than in a car using nothing.

[Anonymous]

So you think not allowing them alone in his room will prevent them from having sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would provide a variety of condoms in a bowl. Not joking.

And you are ok with hearing her orgasm in your house?

Tend to think that is not highly correlated with condom use for a 17 yr old.

You are promoting and encouraging sex. You allow a closed door between a 17 year old girl and boy, and you provide condoms. Wtf do you think they will do, make balloon animals? You will hear the headboard banging and hear moaning, don't kid yourself.

If they are going to have sex, they are going to have sex. So I prefer they have sex using birth control rather than in a car using nothing.

Just stop.