I'm telling you that people would rather NOT lose their jobs. Sigh. You guys are never ever going to listen to the fact that this about keeping children fed and with a roof over their heads. People have limited sick leave. They can't quarantine constantly, and the current "rules" require this to happen. So no, the rules ARE too onerous in this case. |
I'm very worried. |
I don't think that's what the PP was talking about. An earlier poster was talking about the societal cost of COVID caution and individual assessment of risk. I think that the PP was saying that when you have dealt with chronic health issues, your risk assessment looks different, as does your willingness to accept safety measures. It's easy to roll the dice when you are healthy. It's also easy to give up riskier activities when you are an adult in an acute phase of illness. What's incredibly difficult, especially for those of us who are parents and either have chronic health issues ourselves or have children with chronic health issues, is balancing acceptable risk with normal human need to socialize and live life. Trust me, if you've run yourself ragged scheduling and taking a child to multiple appointments every week for years on end, always staying positive to the point where you neglect your own health, testing when sick or exposed to COVID, and wearing a mask indoors feels like nothing compared to possibility of adding another health problem to the mix, even if the risk of that isn't great. |
Maybe our new normal is people don’t live as long as they used to. I’m ok with this, myself included. |
People will come around. No one actually thinks we can keep living with masks, social distancing, quarantines, and other COVID-related policies. Things will keep getting more and more back to normal. |
+1 I'm healthy and used to walking six miles a day. I'm on day 10 and still testing positive, and more importantly, feeling sick. I keep thinking it has to stop. |
how do you know which one you got? |
Does it really matter? Do you want to be sick for weeks? |
That posters follow up posts indicate otherwise. Also I would be very careful to not presume what others are going through. I do have kids and my dad lives with us. This is his second round of cancer and we are dealing with brain damages and major mobility issues (cannot stand or walk). And just like his first round of cancer, pre-COVID, certain illnesses are dangerous at certain points of treatment. For those of us dealing with major illnesses pre-COVID, this is nothing new. It is not the responsibility of my neighbors, or the person next to me at the grocery store to keep my father safe. That is my responsibility, just like it was pre-COVID. And just like pre-COVID, it’s exhausting. But again, that is not everyone else’s problem at this point in the pandemic. |
I feel sorry for you-maybe if they rest of society cooperated you wouldnt be so exhausted all the time! You shouldn’t have to just accept this. |
I'm sorry for what you and your father are going through. Do you let your kids have "normal" lives? |
I am assuming based on symptoms and timing. Only assuming. |
Look, if society really cared about people like me or my dad, it’s not COVID restrictions that would make a difference. For people like me and my dad - for those who are truly sick, and their caregivers, we need more options for care. We need more than 30 ambulatory cab credits a year, because after that they are $100/trip. We need more than 10 approved PT sessions at a time. We need to not be rejected by every caregiving service because someone is easily deemed a fall risk. We need to not wait months for appointments (and COVID restrictions make this much worse). For those of us out there dealing with truly immunocompromised patients, or are truly immunocompromised themselves, COVID restrictions made getting care horrendous. I would love if society cooperated with people like us but if you think donning a masks and imposing restrictions is the help we need, you are wrong. We can easily manage that part on our own. |
Yes. They mask and test when/where appropriate, but they go out with friends, travel, etc. At certain points in treatment we are much more careful, just as we were pre-COVID (and this includes masking in my dad’s room). |
I just flew. No one had a mask including flight attendants. No one is going back to masks either. Enough is enough. I used to wear a mask and shield but I got vaccinated and still got Covid and finally decided that I would keep getting vaccinated as suggested and live life. I assume I will get it again but hook with vaccines will get another Covid case. Wearing a mask is not living life. |