Fairfax homicide last night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Worked for FedEx at Dulles airport.

https://wtop.com/fairfax-county/2022/06/police-fairfax-city-man-shot-dead-lying-in-bed-next-to-wife-family-acquaintance-arrested/

Yeah we know. He previously worked at Freddie Mac in Fairfax.

[Anonymous]

I work in the public and have seen the mental health shift in people from the beginning of the pandemic and on. It's for the worse. Flight attendants that come thru have told me how things are worse than what you see on the news. I no longer greet customers because they snap at you when you ask them if they need help so I let them come to me and ask for help. Be careful who you let into your life, and pray to the Creator for protection at all times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Worked for FedEx at Dulles airport.

https://wtop.com/fairfax-county/2022/06/police-fairfax-city-man-shot-dead-lying-in-bed-next-to-wife-family-acquaintance-arrested/

They are down playing his background in my opinion. He is a CFA and has worked for several financial firms in the DC area.

[Anonymous]

This is interesting. I was Googling the suspect. He rated a firearms training place back in February. He's been planning this for a while.

https://www.chamberofcommerce.com/united-states/virginia/arlington/firearms-academy/2013758472-trouble-defense-llc

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I work in the public and have seen the mental health shift in people from the beginning of the pandemic and on. It's for the worse. Flight attendants that come thru have told me how things are worse than what you see on the news. I no longer greet customers because they snap at you when you ask them if they need help so I let them come to me and ask for help. Be careful who you let into your life, and pray to the Creator for protection at all times.

He came to them through their church so what does that say about your creator?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I work in the public and have seen the mental health shift in people from the beginning of the pandemic and on. It's for the worse. Flight attendants that come thru have told me how things are worse than what you see on the news. I no longer greet customers because they snap at you when you ask them if they need help so I let them come to me and ask for help. Be careful who you let into your life, and pray to the Creator for protection at all times.

He came to them through their church so what does that say about your creator?

Who do you mean? God? Oh stop now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I work in the public and have seen the mental health shift in people from the beginning of the pandemic and on. It's for the worse. Flight attendants that come thru have told me how things are worse than what you see on the news. I no longer greet customers because they snap at you when you ask them if they need help so I let them come to me and ask for help. Be careful who you let into your life, and pray to the Creator for protection at all times.

He came to them through their church so what does that say about your creator?

Who do you mean? God? Oh stop now.

The wife said she believes God has a plan for her. I dunno man. Seems like God's plan for the husband didn't work out so well.

[Anonymous]

I'm here to castigate the people who jumped on the wife or some nefarious organization outside the US as fools.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I work in the public and have seen the mental health shift in people from the beginning of the pandemic and on. It's for the worse. Flight attendants that come thru have told me how things are worse than what you see on the news. I no longer greet customers because they snap at you when you ask them if they need help so I let them come to me and ask for help. Be careful who you let into your life, and pray to the Creator for protection at all times.

He came to them through their church so what does that say about your creator?

I'm guessing this is like Fatal Attraction scenario, where the wife was kind to him at some church function, and he latched on this idea that she loved him but her husband was keeping them apart. That would explain the 10 bullets.

I'm still somewhat side eye at the Donorsee not-a-nonprofit "charity", but that seems likely a separate issue, unless the murderer was cooking the books for the organization and realized that he may be facing jail time because of it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I work in the public and have seen the mental health shift in people from the beginning of the pandemic and on. It's for the worse. Flight attendants that come thru have told me how things are worse than what you see on the news. I no longer greet customers because they snap at you when you ask them if they need help so I let them come to me and ask for help. Be careful who you let into your life, and pray to the Creator for protection at all times.

He came to them through their church so what does that say about your creator?

I'm guessing this is like Fatal Attraction scenario, where the wife was kind to him at some church function, and he latched on this idea that she loved him but her husband was keeping them apart. That would explain the 10 bullets.

I'm still somewhat side eye at the Donorsee not-a-nonprofit "charity", but that seems likely a separate issue, unless the murderer was cooking the books for the organization and realized that he may be facing jail time because of it?

Donorsee is similar to GoFundMe. It's a platform. On GoFundme, likely Donorsee too, when a fundraiser is linked to a 501C3 nonprofit organization, its tax deductible. Donorsee seems different though because there's vetting going on.

[Anonymous]

I am super skeptical and wary of things that are overtly evangelical…but…everything about this case has consistently been about how kind and good hearted this family is. There has been zero official speculation about Gret or Heather, which is why it feels unkind and ungenerous to paint the situation as domestic violence or some torrid affair. People and religion may be complex with their politics, but the simplicity of humanity is that we are good. THAT is a big part why the out of nowhere speculations that this was an affair gone wrong reek of misogyny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am super skeptical and wary of things that are overtly evangelical…but…everything about this case has consistently been about how kind and good hearted this family is. There has been zero official speculation about Gret or Heather, which is why it feels unkind and ungenerous to paint the situation as domestic violence or some torrid affair. People and religion may be complex with their politics, but the simplicity of humanity is that we are good. THAT is a big part why the out of nowhere speculations that this was an affair gone wrong reek of misogyny.

You keep exclaiming misogyny. If it was the wife shot dead 10 times in the marital bed next to her living spouse, we'd say the same thing - husband was probably a cheater and his deranged lover shot her. Its not out of the norm.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/texas-woman-sought-fatal-shooting-professional-cyclist-us/story?id=84883366

https://abcnews.go.com/US/man-involved-2018-love-triangle-murder-suicide-case/story?id=65366893

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is interesting. I was Googling the suspect. He rated a firearms training place back in February. He's been planning this for a while.

https://www.chamberofcommerce.com/united-states/virginia/arlington/firearms-academy/2013758472-trouble-defense-llc

This is very interesting and may be worth sharing with police. I would like to assume they would find it too but who knows.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is interesting. I was Googling the suspect. He rated a firearms training place back in February. He's been planning this for a while.

https://www.chamberofcommerce.com/united-states/virginia/arlington/firearms-academy/2013758472-trouble-defense-llc

This is very interesting and may be worth sharing with police. I would like to assume they would find it too but who knows.

Good idea. How does one send this to the right department? It could be one way to prove premeditation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is interesting. I was Googling the suspect. He rated a firearms training place back in February. He's been planning this for a while.

https://www.chamberofcommerce.com/united-states/virginia/arlington/firearms-academy/2013758472-trouble-defense-llc

This is very interesting and may be worth sharing with police. I would like to assume they would find it too but who knows.

Good idea. How does one send this to the right department? It could be one way to prove premeditation.

I just found this on one of the articles:

Anyone with information or video footage of the area possibly related to this case please contact Detective Matthew Green at [e-mail] or 703-385-7959. Media inquiries please contact Lieutenant Matthew Lasowitz at 703-273-3022 or [e-mail].