Is your world all white or whatever your race is? I’m sad for you if it is. There’s nothing wrong with the make up of the cast. It’s more watchable for me. |
Wow. Great ideas. I would continuing watching if you were a writer! |
Yeah, Anthony is so obnoxious, I haven’t enjoyed his storyline getting more attention at all. I guess they saw it as a way to bring back Samantha’s excessive and crass sex talk without her. Some of it is just over the top - just like her character. |
| The story line is so boring…”he loves me, he loves me not!” Why not get a juicy emotional affair for charlotte; have mr. Big’s child he had during a break with carrie return and try to take her money…since they’ve blown the original characters up, might as well take creative license! They are shells of their former selves! |
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I cheered when Charlotte told Harry he's doing the bare minimum after he screamed "I can't do it all!"
He's not monitoring the kids' friend groups to discourage bad influences. He's not remembering to stay on top of a kid's eczema or minor GI issues to updated the ped at the next appt. He's not checking in to make sure adding AP Chem wasn't too much this year. He won't remember to pack a heartier after school snack on the days a kid has early lunch. He won't make sure a needed jersey is clean for the game. He scoffed and dropping everything to bring the right notebook. (Which maybe Kid should live and learn-- but if someone did do something about it, it would be Mom.) The list is infinite, it goes on and on. And on. We talk about the invisible load of motherhood but nothing can make (MOST) men truly get it. It pisses me off to no end. |
Hmm…I’m a very busy working mom of 4 and my reaction to Charlotte’s approach to parenting is that she isn’t doing her kids any favors by hyper-managing their lives. They are spoiled and unequipped for adulting. |
| I hate that they had Anthony giving in and doing a sexual act he was pressured into. There is nothing wrong with wanting to say no to anal sex. It can lead to fissures and other issues, as Anthony said. Thre are many ways to be physically intimate and romanticizing him doing something he didn’t want to do didn’t sit well with me. |
| Anyone else find Carrie's new place rather charmless? |
I was trying to figure out from his facial expressions if he hated it or hated giving up control (his word from dinner). |
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I hate what they did with Anthony’s husband. I know he died in real life and it left Anthony with a loose end, but I hated the whole monk story.
I agree with what someone above said: the professor was boring and Lisa was boring near the end. I’m all for a diverse cast, but give them good story lines. I dislike Che jumping from person to person. Aidan repeatedly refused to go back to the apt and then he…just did. No. Aidan says he needs to be there for his 17 and 20 year old? Uh… and why is the 14 year old screwing up the mom’s issue and he’s been the stable one in the kids’ lives. It isn’t both ways. Either she’s not been around and he raised the kid with issues or she did. If it was a simple running away back to dad’s? Maybe. Not the drugs and crash at 14. |
I think he didn't like it. I don't know. It made me pretty uncomfortable because I feel lile I have been in his pressured into doing something I don't want to do because of "love" |
Right. Either way he didn’t seem happy about it. Why is it ok to pressure men into sex? It’s not |
Agree with this, and I particularly dislike how it was framed as Anthony being withholding generally and "putting up walls", as though doing a specific sexual act (that MANY people find uncomfortable, unnecessarily risky, and not that pleasurable) reflects a general resistance to be intimate. I've encountered that argument before and it's BS. You can be an open, loving person fully capable of true intimacy and still have boundaries regarding sex simply because some things don't feel good or comfortable to you. Conflating certain sex acts with intimacy is childish and the domain of manipulative, sometimes abusive, people. You know what is truly intimate? Respecting your partners boundaries and accepting them for who they are, instead of threatening to leave the country if they won't let you do anal. |
I don't know why you are confused. He's saying that he was the consistent presence in his boys' lives from the beginning because Kathy's job required so much travel, and now that his youngest is having serious issues, he worries that him traveling and being absent is contributing to that. Makes sense to me. I don't think he's blaming Kathy for Wyatt's issues nor is he blaming himself. He's just accepting that his kid is struggling and he's figuring out how he can give that child what he needs to do better. That's what parents do. It's not about fault. Wyatt needs his dad's consistent presence right now, that means Aiden's focus and physical presence needs to be with Wyatt, not with Carrie. Sometimes as a parent, you have to make sacrifices. It feels reasonable to me and also somewhat predictable -- every episode since Aiden rejoined the show has included some indication that there is some conflict between his commitment to his kids and his interest in Carrie and in being in NY. |
Agree with this. I think his argument that it wouldn’t work for a while was solid. What I didn’t get was thinking they could stop and wait five years to be together and then having happy enthusiastic sex afterwards. That’s what didn’t make sense to me at all. |