+1. If you watch the footage, it does appear to be an accident. |
There, there. You are a Highly Sensitive Person. Check out the book and documentary featuring Elaine Aron. |
My understanding is that the mayor has not accepted her resignation. I’m sure he’s exploring the city’s legal options; however, police unions negotiate contracts that cover cops in the worst of circumstances, and she was the police union president so I’m guessing she has her ass covered. |
Took a look and doubt that’s me. Yes, I’m highly empathetic when it comes to the types of things I described above, but I’m far from the delicate, shy person described in the brief summaries I just saw about Aron’s HSP. Most significantly, I actually do my best and thrive in high pressure, challenging situation, as opposed to feeling overwhelmed in them. Point in chief, I am a biglaw partner and litigator. I love standing up in a courtroom and in front of a room full of people, as opposed to shy away from such situations. And for whatever it is worth, in my younger years, I loved a great, loud concert or rave - never had a problem with sensory overload. So nope, your diagnosis doesn’t seem accurate. |
| Just the fact she resigned immediately showed a lot more remorse than other police officers in similar situations, imo. |
I agree |
Not necessarily, especially since she said nothing indicating remorse for the negligent killing. When it comes to preservation of pension and other benefits resignation (which is essentially retirement for a 26 year veteran of the force) is better than being fired for cause. But it’s nice to live the nice white lady the benefit of the doubt. |
*give, not live But something Freudian there, I suspect |
Did you watch the full video?? Her immediate remorse and mistake was readily apparent...that’s the most impactful example because there was not a second for forethought- it was all pure reaction |
Ok, you know yourself much better than I. The crying is unusual for an adult, though. Perhaps you are under a lot of pressure in your daily life? |
Her words of comfort for the family of the young man she killed are so full of remorse.
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Actions speak louder than words and her attorney would have told her not to say a word. |
It’s a resignation letter not a public statement. 🙄 |
And as I’ve already mentioned, the action of resigning is likely motivated by an intention to preserve her pension and benefits. She and her family have already begun a relocation out of Minnesota. How does that square with her commitment help the healing of the community she’s served for 26 years? She’s made her bank off arresting black and brown folks for 26 years and ready to spend it in Florida, no doubt. Hope she gets a diversion to the Minnesota state prison system for a little while. |
Why would there be words of comfort to the family. This was a resignation letter to her employer, not an apology or sympathy letter to the family. It would have been inappropriate (and likely legally unadvisable) to express any remorse. |