Catholic mom wants us to essentially say grace as part of our Jewish kid’s education ...

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

You're obviously one of the Jews on this thread reading every response with your guard up. What I got from PP was a suggestion that the OP simply ask the rabbi for advice on dealing with her mother about this. And I have to say it sounds like a very reasonable idea.

And no rabbi would be ok with saying Christian grace unless it was to appease the mother when she visits.

Are you a moron? No one disagrees with you! But maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to deal with her mother about this!!! Jesus Holy Christ I feel like I've taken crazy pills!

A rabbi is meant to provide RELIGIOUS advice. He will NOT say it’s ok to do this.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

I bet 69% of them would be. Take a poll, OP.

You’re a fundamentalist douche bag.

And you’re either not a Jew or a poorly educated one.

Ok, live in your narrow little world. Have fun being a bitch.

[Anonymous]

A rabbi isn’t going to provide general advice. He isn’t a therapist. He’s a religious leader.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

You're obviously one of the Jews on this thread reading every response with your guard up. What I got from PP was a suggestion that the OP simply ask the rabbi for advice on dealing with her mother about this. And I have to say it sounds like a very reasonable idea.

And no rabbi would be ok with saying Christian grace unless it was to appease the mother when she visits.

Are you a moron? No one disagrees with you! But maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to deal with her mother about this!!! Jesus Holy Christ I feel like I've taken crazy pills!

A rabbi is meant to provide RELIGIOUS advice. He will NOT say it’s ok to do this.

I KNOW!!!!! But maybe he will have better advice for HOW TO DEAL with mom than you idiots! Super Jew OP may actually listen to her rabbi, since she's not listening to anyone here. I swear this is the most obtuse group of posters I've ever seen on DCUM.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

You're obviously one of the Jews on this thread reading every response with your guard up. What I got from PP was a suggestion that the OP simply ask the rabbi for advice on dealing with her mother about this. And I have to say it sounds like a very reasonable idea.

And no rabbi would be ok with saying Christian grace unless it was to appease the mother when she visits.

Are you a moron? No one disagrees with you! But maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to deal with her mother about this!!! Jesus Holy Christ I feel like I've taken crazy pills!

A rabbi is meant to provide RELIGIOUS advice. He will NOT say it’s ok to do this.

I KNOW!!!!! But maybe he will have better advice for HOW TO DEAL with mom than you idiots! Super Jew OP may actually listen to her rabbi, since she's not listening to anyone here. I swear this is the most obtuse group of posters I've ever seen on DCUM.

What do you think a rabbi would say??? They’re not therapists.

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OP has said multiple times what she’s going to do.

You can’t read.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

You're obviously one of the Jews on this thread reading every response with your guard up. What I got from PP was a suggestion that the OP simply ask the rabbi for advice on dealing with her mother about this. And I have to say it sounds like a very reasonable idea.

And no rabbi would be ok with saying Christian grace unless it was to appease the mother when she visits.

Are you a moron? No one disagrees with you! But maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to deal with her mother about this!!! Jesus Holy Christ I feel like I've taken crazy pills!

A rabbi is meant to provide RELIGIOUS advice. He will NOT say it’s ok to do this.

I KNOW!!!!! But maybe he will have better advice for HOW TO DEAL with mom than you idiots! Super Jew OP may actually listen to her rabbi, since she's not listening to anyone here. I swear this is the most obtuse group of posters I've ever seen on DCUM.

What do you think a rabbi would say??? They’re not therapists.

Now you're being deliberately obtuse. Rabbis give advice on all kinds of things and you know it. And, besides, this IS a religious issue. A rabbi can help explain better than anyone why prayers over meals and Judaism don't mix.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

You're obviously one of the Jews on this thread reading every response with your guard up. What I got from PP was a suggestion that the OP simply ask the rabbi for advice on dealing with her mother about this. And I have to say it sounds like a very reasonable idea.

And no rabbi would be ok with saying Christian grace unless it was to appease the mother when she visits.

Are you a moron? No one disagrees with you! But maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to deal with her mother about this!!! Jesus Holy Christ I feel like I've taken crazy pills!

A rabbi is meant to provide RELIGIOUS advice. He will NOT say it’s ok to do this.

I KNOW!!!!! But maybe he will have better advice for HOW TO DEAL with mom than you idiots! Super Jew OP may actually listen to her rabbi, since she's not listening to anyone here. I swear this is the most obtuse group of posters I've ever seen on DCUM.

What do you think a rabbi would say??? They’re not therapists.

Now you're being deliberately obtuse. Rabbis give advice on all kinds of things and you know it. And, besides, this IS a religious issue. A rabbi can help explain better than anyone why prayers over meals and Judaism don't mix.

Umm, I don’t think that issue is under contention. Maybe OP’s mom needs to meet with the rabbi. She’s the confused one.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

You're obviously one of the Jews on this thread reading every response with your guard up. What I got from PP was a suggestion that the OP simply ask the rabbi for advice on dealing with her mother about this. And I have to say it sounds like a very reasonable idea.

And no rabbi would be ok with saying Christian grace unless it was to appease the mother when she visits.

Are you a moron? No one disagrees with you! But maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to deal with her mother about this!!! Jesus Holy Christ I feel like I've taken crazy pills!

A rabbi is meant to provide RELIGIOUS advice. He will NOT say it’s ok to do this.

I KNOW!!!!! But maybe he will have better advice for HOW TO DEAL with mom than you idiots! Super Jew OP may actually listen to her rabbi, since she's not listening to anyone here. I swear this is the most obtuse group of posters I've ever seen on DCUM.

What do you think a rabbi would say??? They’re not therapists.

Now you're being deliberately obtuse. Rabbis give advice on all kinds of things and you know it. And, besides, this IS a religious issue. A rabbi can help explain better than anyone why prayers over meals and Judaism don't mix.

Umm, I don’t think that issue is under contention. Maybe OP’s mom needs to meet with the rabbi. She’s the confused one.

Is the whole Tribe this obtuse? I realize it's the mother who is confused, but maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to explain it and how to get through to her.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

You're obviously one of the Jews on this thread reading every response with your guard up. What I got from PP was a suggestion that the OP simply ask the rabbi for advice on dealing with her mother about this. And I have to say it sounds like a very reasonable idea.

And no rabbi would be ok with saying Christian grace unless it was to appease the mother when she visits.

Are you a moron? No one disagrees with you! But maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to deal with her mother about this!!! Jesus Holy Christ I feel like I've taken crazy pills!

A rabbi is meant to provide RELIGIOUS advice. He will NOT say it’s ok to do this.

I KNOW!!!!! But maybe he will have better advice for HOW TO DEAL with mom than you idiots! Super Jew OP may actually listen to her rabbi, since she's not listening to anyone here. I swear this is the most obtuse group of posters I've ever seen on DCUM.

What do you think a rabbi would say??? They’re not therapists.

Now you're being deliberately obtuse. Rabbis give advice on all kinds of things and you know it. And, besides, this IS a religious issue. A rabbi can help explain better than anyone why prayers over meals and Judaism don't mix.

Umm, I don’t think that issue is under contention. Maybe OP’s mom needs to meet with the rabbi. She’s the confused one.

Is the whole Tribe this obtuse? I realize it's the mother who is confused, but maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to explain it and how to get through to her.

I sort of doubt it, but ok.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you ask your rabbi about it, OP, since you are imploding at the responses here?

Imploding? I haven’t posted any of those recent things.

I’ve already asked my rabbi. He said I’m Jewish, but I’ll tell him DCUM disagrees.

I meant about your mom and how to respond...

I kinda doubt he’d be ok with us saying Christian grace as part of our daily routine, but I guess I could be wrong.

DP — wut?!!! Wow. Just wow. That’s not what was being suggested. This is hopeless. You’ll forever be stuck in this loop. Sad. People were genuinely trying to help you, even the ones you dismissed as mean.

Going to pop more popcorn now.

PP asked what a rabbi would say about the situation, which is the mom suggesting Christian grace as part of the daily routine. What rabbi would be ok with that?

You're obviously one of the Jews on this thread reading every response with your guard up. What I got from PP was a suggestion that the OP simply ask the rabbi for advice on dealing with her mother about this. And I have to say it sounds like a very reasonable idea.

And no rabbi would be ok with saying Christian grace unless it was to appease the mother when she visits.

Are you a moron? No one disagrees with you! But maybe the rabbi can advise the OP on how to deal with her mother about this!!! Jesus Holy Christ I feel like I've taken crazy pills!

+100 The advice is to tell mom they aren’t saying grace, and to rinse and repeat. (Are you OP?)

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Is OP going to come back in the new year to tell us what her plan is?

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Anonymous wrote:Is OP going to come back in the new year to tell us what her plan is?

I’ve already told you many, many times. I am continuing to tell her we’re not saying grace when she’s not here. My plan is to continue to do that until she stops bringing it up.

I think I’ve said this at least a dozen times.

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Your mom’s grace isn’t very catholic. She is imposing her own “spirituality” on you.

If she is searching and mixed up, but not seeking resources outside her own head, I feel bad for her. But I can see why she is frikkin’ annoying. Plus, she is showing disrespect for the OPs childhood.

Nothing we can say to OP will matter, since all OP wants is for her to stop talking.

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Anonymous wrote:Your mom’s grace isn’t very catholic. She is imposing her own “spirituality” on you.

If she is searching and mixed up, but not seeking resources outside her own head, I feel bad for her. But I can see why she is frikkin’ annoying. Plus, she is showing disrespect for the OPs childhood.

Nothing we can say to OP will matter, since all OP wants is for her to stop talking.

Has the advice been anything but getting her to shut up?