I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

have you bothered to do a google search on him? Call police departments? You say He has linked in so Google the farms and call. There is plenty you coul be doing and for the life of me I have no idea why you aren't doing them.

[Anonymous]

I would also like to know how OP found this forum. Are you a DC local? My guess is she was googling relationship issues before this happened and found the Relationship Discussion forum.

[Anonymous]

Dollars to donuts this guy has been arrested for poaching.

Good riddance. Too bad he didn't get mauled by a bear.

[Anonymous]

She is taking a long time to dig up these phone numbers. It's like a 15 min task in this day and age. We have no GEO info, other than Maine. But assume he lives north of DC. Something about a 9 hr drive and northern Maine is a lot further than that from here. Is everyone of his friends that dispersed. Someone doesn't have their wall locked down and she can post her concern/question on someone's wall...there are ways, even if it's not direct or private.

If he has 10 FB friends, I could find info/phone/emails on them in 10 minutes. She could cover all of his FB friends in probably an hour. There's a lack of will there, but a willingness to scroll through these posts, read and respond. I won't get back the 15 minutes it took me to go from page 10-20...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he's been missing for 48 hours you don't fart around trying to get in touch with relatives on Facebook. You CALL THE COPS. ANYONE with a modicum of common sense would tell you to do that. If his local cops don't find anything wrong during the wellness check they can take a statement about the fact that he is MISSING.

If there has been something untoward that has happened don't you want to get the ball rolling?

Wouldn'/shouldn't the bf's family already be doing this? She can't possibly be the only one that knows that they went on the trip. Call the local police department and see if they have been reported missing and if so, get in touch with the family that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is taking a long time to dig up these phone numbers. It's like a 15 min task in this day and age. We have no GEO info, other than Maine. But assume he lives north of DC. Something about a 9 hr drive and northern Maine is a lot further than that from here. Is everyone of his friends that dispersed. Someone doesn't have their wall locked down and she can post her concern/question on someone's wall...there are ways, even if it's not direct or private.

If he has 10 FB friends, I could find info/phone/emails on them in 10 minutes. She could cover all of his FB friends in probably an hour. There's a lack of will there, but a willingness to scroll through these posts, read and respond. I won't get back the 15 minutes it took me to go from page 10-20...

I don't think she's a troll, but there is definitely something off with OP.

[Anonymous]

And if he did get locked up, while it may be a felony. Mainers aren't @ssholes, if you're sitting in a jail and have no contact info, I'm sure the GW would obtain info/#s on your behalf to help you get out of custody. It's not Gitmo.

[Anonymous]

Plug his name into here to get all of the info you need to start calling people:

http://www.intelius.com/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is taking a long time to dig up these phone numbers. It's like a 15 min task in this day and age. We have no GEO info, other than Maine. But assume he lives north of DC. Something about a 9 hr drive and northern Maine is a lot further than that from here. Is everyone of his friends that dispersed. Someone doesn't have their wall locked down and she can post her concern/question on someone's wall...there are ways, even if it's not direct or private.

If he has 10 FB friends, I could find info/phone/emails on them in 10 minutes. She could cover all of his FB friends in probably an hour. There's a lack of will there, but a willingness to scroll through these posts, read and respond. I won't get back the 15 minutes it took me to go from page 10-20...

I don't think she's a troll, but there is definitely something off with OP.

Honestly, and I don't intend for this to sound as mean as it does, but I just don't think she's very bright. And she dates a guy who hauls cow for a living and goes hunting bobcats off season. I'm guessing there isn't a whole lot of "bright" involved in the whole thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And if he did get locked up, while it may be a felony. Mainers aren't @ssholes, if you're sitting in a jail and have no contact info, I'm sure the GW would obtain info/#s on your behalf to help you get out of custody. It's not Gitmo.

Yeah it's not like they say "oh well you don't know anyone's number, too bad". My friend in college was arrested and didn't have her phone on her and only knew her parents number (whom she didn't want to call). Police were Able to easily look up my cell number for hEr to call

[Anonymous]

She knows he was doing something illegal and reprehensible and doesn't really want to get involved with the cops. Also, she's afraid she isn't as important in this relationship as she thought.

[Anonymous]

How come the OP hasn't acknowledged the suggestions in terms of googling him or anything to that effect? All the OP has said that she contacted a cop friend of her's.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is taking a long time to dig up these phone numbers. It's like a 15 min task in this day and age. We have no GEO info, other than Maine. But assume he lives north of DC. Something about a 9 hr drive and northern Maine is a lot further than that from here. Is everyone of his friends that dispersed. Someone doesn't have their wall locked down and she can post her concern/question on someone's wall...there are ways, even if it's not direct or private.

If he has 10 FB friends, I could find info/phone/emails on them in 10 minutes. She could cover all of his FB friends in probably an hour. There's a lack of will there, but a willingness to scroll through these posts, read and respond. I won't get back the 15 minutes it took me to go from page 10-20...

I don't think she's a troll, but there is definitely something off with OP.

Honestly, and I don't intend for this to sound as mean as it does, but I just don't think she's very bright. And she dates a guy who hauls cow for a living and goes hunting bobcats off season. I'm guessing there isn't a whole lot of "bright" involved in the whole thing.

Not exactly your usual DCUM poster.

[Anonymous]

iraq @yahoo, did you get anything???

[Anonymous]

She could always report him as a poacher if he's screwing around on her. http://www.maineogt.org/