Fairfax Murder

[Anonymous]

Poster said he’s known JR since he was 8 years old, and although he had an unusual “social” life, he was very gentle, no record, never would hurt anyone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any more details on post on Websleuths post for those of us who were too late? It’s been deleted.

They said JR met them online and agreed into a cuck encounter. When he went back that morning (poster said he’d already been there before) apparently the AP called the DH on his way to work to tell him JR was in the house (maybe she didn’t know who he was/why he was there). the poster thinks DH shot JR and that’s when the AP called 911 the first time. The poster thinks DH hurt his wife, not JR.

This makes no sense and it seems like Websleuths deleted it for good reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any more details on post on Websleuths post for those of us who were too late? It’s been deleted.

They said JR met them online and agreed into a cuck encounter. When he went back that morning (poster said he’d already been there before) apparently the AP called the DH on his way to work to tell him JR was in the house (maybe she didn’t know who he was/why he was there). the poster thinks DH shot JR and that’s when the AP called 911 the first time. The poster thinks DH hurt his wife, not JR.

This makes no sense and it seems like Websleuths deleted it for good reason.

Websleuths requires, to my understanding, a link to a major media source as the basis for a post or "Verified Insider" status. Anything else is deleted, often fairly quickly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any more details on post on Websleuths post for those of us who were too late? It’s been deleted.

They said JR met them online and agreed into a cuck encounter. When he went back that morning (poster said he’d already been there before) apparently the AP called the DH on his way to work to tell him JR was in the house (maybe she didn’t know who he was/why he was there). the poster thinks DH shot JR and that’s when the AP called 911 the first time. The poster thinks DH hurt his wife, not JR.

Fake news.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any more details on post on Websleuths post for those of us who were too late? It’s been deleted.

They said JR met them online and agreed into a cuck encounter. When he went back that morning (poster said he’d already been there before) apparently the AP called the DH on his way to work to tell him JR was in the house (maybe she didn’t know who he was/why he was there). the poster thinks DH shot JR and that’s when the AP called 911 the first time. The poster thinks DH hurt his wife, not JR.

This makes no sense and it seems like Websleuths deleted it for good reason.

Websleuths requires, to my understanding, a link to a major media source as the basis for a post or "Verified Insider" status. Anything else is deleted, often fairly quickly.

Seems like a good policy.

[Anonymous]

I’m mostly puzzled by the stabbing part. None of these scenarios explain why JR would have stabbed her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m mostly puzzled by the stabbing part. None of these scenarios explain why JR would have stabbed her.

Could be a cover for the DH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m mostly puzzled by the stabbing part. None of these scenarios explain why JR would have stabbed her.

because he didn’t! My $ is on DH doing it.

[Anonymous]

LE said JR was known to all parties and people who claim to know him confirmed that by saying he had been at the house before. Perhaps prior encounters involved DH being present, this time he had left for work. Maybe that different did cause the AP to call DH and maybe he went into a jealous rage and snapped. The emotional dynamics underlying the cuck scenario, esp from the husband's perspective, seem risky and volatile to me.

This talks about the difference in people's minds between a cuck scenario and cheating. In this case it may have moved from one to the other in the mind of DH who responded with rage.

DH could also have been into hotwifing where there is not the humiliation aspect between the men. Any interaction between the other 2 w/o his "permission" could have triggered humiliation, loss of control > rage, typically associated with stabbing crimes. Could have been more a crime of passion in the moment rather than something planned.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202201/why-cuckolding-has-become-more-mainstream

In these scenarios it is almost always a male kink introduced to the wife by the husband per link above. But what may have started as something controlled by DH may have become something else and triggered a strong response by him.

[Anonymous]

^ difference

[Anonymous]

The hotwife lifestyle sub on Reddit has well over a million members and supposedly it is one of the most popular porn categories.

Wonder how much the use of porn is driving the greater mainstream interest in these practices? Remember Hoover? Kinks and fetishes have always been around in DC.

These seem like really risky games to play on an emotional level.

Curious if they were under financial stress, big house for a govt worker (IRS or FBI depending on story) and a nurse.

[Anonymous]

Not just CNN and Psychology Today, Huff Po has promoted the idea too.

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/wife-adultress_b_12182082

Not sure if the media and porn make it seem more popular than it is but if lots of people are doing this, surprised it does not go wrong more often. Seems to me that a lot of really powerful feelings could be triggered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The hotwife lifestyle sub on Reddit has well over a million members and supposedly it is one of the most popular porn categories.

Wonder how much the use of porn is driving the greater mainstream interest in these practices? Remember Hoover? Kinks and fetishes have always been around in DC.

These seem like really risky games to play on an emotional level.

Curious if they were under financial stress, big house for a govt worker (IRS or FBI depending on story) and a nurse.

Don’t underestimate family money… They also had a full-time live in Au Pair.

[Anonymous]

The house and au pair are completely normal dual income things here. Neither seems excessive for their jobs.

[Anonymous]

Don't underestimate the equity they may have had in the house they sold on Long Island.