| I am 29 year old single mother of 3 kids. Just wondering if guys (especially late 20a early 30s) are immediately turned off by that or would they be willing to give dating a chance. |
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If it were me, yes, I would run the other way. 29 is way too young to have 3 kids as a single mom.
But then, I'm not a guy. |
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It definitely counts against you. You'd have to have that much extra going for you to have a guy devote himself to that situation in any serious way.
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| No. You'd have to be very hot. |
| Try dating much older men. 45+ may also have kids and understand. |
| I think someone with multiple children wouldn't be scared off. Don't give up - with the high divorce rate, lots of people are single now in all age ranges and a variety of life circumstances. There's someone out there for you! |
Then STFU! Are you white? |
And keep those kids at arms' length from the guys, please.
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| A friend of mine just moved in with his gf and her 3 kids. He's divorced, but other than that a good guy. Both are early 30's. |
Yikes. |
| My cousin married a woman with three kids and then they had another. He's a great guy. |
Exactly. Are you a MILF? |
| My cousin is 31 with 3 kids and doesnt have a problem at all. Seems like good guys who like to help are attracted to her. I agree to look older. |
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I would date but it would be for sex.
No chance I'd enter into any long term relationship. Who needs the grief? |
| If the bio father is out of the picture, such as a young widow, it might be a more attractive situation for some guys who would want to help. But if he's always around it could be uncomfortable. |