Would guys be interested in a woman with 3 kids

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Anonymous wrote:And when is this cutoff that it would be better not to date until the child is out od the house? One kid, two kids, three kids? So any parent who is single/divorced with kids in the home should stop dating until kids leave the home?

NP here, and I think that is exactly the best situation, at least for the kids. OP chose to have 3 children, without the benefit of being married. That was her decision. And now -- surprise -- she and "daddy" have split, amicably, of course, but still a drastic adjustment for the kids. Her priority should not be wondering whether or not she is damaged goods in the eyes of any would-be boyfriend. It would be nice if she cared more about her kids and their needs.

So they should've gotten married and divorced and then they'd have a real father instead of a "daddy"? What's with the quotation marks?lol

You are speaking out of your ass and wouldnt follow your own advice. Those who are going years without a date are usually that way because nobody found them attractive enough to ask.

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Anonymous wrote:^^ Not everyone puts their vagina before their kids' welfare. My kids will ALWAYS come first. Lots of women on here who think getting laid is more important than their kids. Sad! And we wonder why our culture has decayed so much. People without self respect and dignity abound.

Oh honey. You need to get laid.

Exactly. And then she'll be the same one complaining about her husband's affairs later.

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OP here I got my answer! Yes he would

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^^ For now. He knows you put out, so you'll do for right now. Come back on here when he dumps you, but try to not plop out another kid out of wedlock first.

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HAHA Yea you are right!

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Yeah, a guy would date a gal with three kids. I know a guy who does , and she leads him around by the dick and won't have a baby for him which he wants.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here I got my answer! Yes he would

Awesome. Are you two dating?

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Anonymous wrote:And when is this cutoff that it would be better not to date until the child is out od the house? One kid, two kids, three kids? So any parent who is single/divorced with kids in the home should stop dating until kids leave the home?

Exactly. I find this attitude disturbing on so many levels. When I was 29, I was a single mom of two children (I'm 35 now), and to say that I didn't deserve to date because I needed to focus on my kids is such bullshit. Somehow I feel that people would be more sympathetic to a single dad -- because single dads who have full custody of their kids are adorable and responsible, right? So they deserve to have a nice woman in their lives, right? Why should it be any different for women? I married young and had children young (not my wisest decision but it is what it is.) My ex-husband ended up being abusive and I packed up my two kids and left. I went back to school full-time and scrounged my money up so I could feed, clothe, and provide a few fun things for my children.

Then for people to say that single mother's shouldn't date? What the fuck? Every single ounce of energy was poured into my children. And I didn't deserve to have a nice evening out with a guy -- to have a glass of wine and a nice dinner? To see if maybe he was a decent guy?

I never had a parade of boyfriends come through my house. By the way, I met my current husband when I was 30 -- on a dating website. He's my best friend and soul mate. So to say that single mother's shouldn't date -- you're essentially saying they don't deserve to be happy. Not only that, but if a single woman finds a good guy -- wouldn't that be beneficial for the children who have no father figure in their lives?

I really don't get some people sometimes.

You are awesome! I'm a single mom who is hoping to start dating this fall.