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AAP is not the top 10%. The in-pool kids for consideration for AAP are the top 10% of each school. AAP ends up being closer to 20% of the grade level across FCPS.
And yes, some schools are crazy invested into AAP and Navy is one of those schools. |
We get it alright, and don’t want to sacrifice our children’s self confidence and mental health for a narrow definition of success. For every one kid who is super successful from being pushed, there are a bunch filled with anxiety and self-doubt. This ends up holding them back. Nobody likes having an employee or colleague who needs constant reassurance that they are doing things right because their hypercritical parents screwed up their ability to just use their best judgement and do the best job they can without needing hand holding. You might still stigmatize mental health challenges in your household, but outside the house it’s no longer taboo to talk about it. Trust that these young adults are realizing what this kind of parenting has done to them and they resent you for it. |
It's a very small subset of people. My kid is a Carson non AAP kid and everyone we know is normal. |
Someone is having a good time trolling, I think. |
Far from the only one. The worst parents are those with 2E. I always thought the purpose of AAP was to have the kids who could move faster and learn more independently. Not so, apparently. |
Someone is just having fun trolling, I think. |
One of my kids was 2E. 2E is about having a very high IQ while still have some element of a learning disability, often ADHD. When the learning disability is treated, they can achieve their potential. And my kid never took extra time, by the way, his accommodations were more like sitting in the front row of the class and having 5 minutes at the end of class to get organized and having graphic organizers and more frequent check in with teachers. With this, he went to a TOP 5 college for his (very competitive) major and is going to graduate with honors. So maybe you don't know what you are talking about when it comes to 2E kids. I will agree all kids deserve a better education and are capable of more than they get, by large but don't blame the parents who push for the best for their kids and if 2E, take advantage of the support offered. |
Yep. People don't understand 2e, including many teachers. My 2e kid didn't get into AAP and when I requested the packet and saw the teacher comments I was horrified - you would have thought my kid was unteachable. Luckily, I was able to argue for principal placement and the principal placement and we parent -referred two years later with nothing but two years of excellent grades and SOL scores. The only accomodations my kid ever needed was preferential seating and extra time because they don't have the same processing speed. They are thriving now in a BS/MD program. So put it in your pipe and smoke it. |
| Stop talking about your Bratty Kids in a AAP- A Program That Needs To Be Abolished! |
And, you think they would not have done just as well in GenEd? |
They would not have been challenged and that's never a good thing. |
| I will say I know one family whose kids went gen ed and went to W&M and UVA. Smart kids - took all honors/AP in HS. That said, I know one family. If you are serious about academics I suggest you have your kid ready in second grade if they are on that path. If they can't, no shade. But if its your wanting to live organically and be lazy, you will have the troubled kids in the class with your gen ed kids taking 80% of the oxygen. Its not right, its not fair, its reality. Part of the pledge of meeting the educational needs of every student. Students in AAP are not that much smarter but they are smart enough to get in the right lane, or their parents are. |
Lol! Clueless post if you think troubled k8ds are not suck8ng oxyg3n in AAP. |
It's PP. I have four AAP kids. The oldest is working with with a 7 figure total comp annual package in tech, the middle is a TOP university and the 3-4 is still in FPCS. I feel like I have a few years of experience at this. Not to be a jerk but you are totally out of touch. My 24 year old FPCS AAP kid makes 340k in salary and Multi-M in RSUs and my next once will do well, not as well but better than 99% of us If you have these outcomes, by all means, enlighten us. If you don't, maybe listen. FCPS has major issues, but if you think AAP is the problem, its not. ALL the kids should be taught to AAP standards. Beyond that, its on the parents to tell the kids to reach for the sky and set that expectation. My kids are all very happy, btw, not a single anxiety drug or problem kid among them. They have their relative strengths and weaknesses, but they respect education, authority and parents. |
I don’t agree with this take at all. Some kids aren’t going to do really well on the NNAT and CogAT (or whatever they use now) even if they can do well on SOLs and handle Honors and AP classes in MS and HS. Not everyone is good at those pattern recognition/spatial type questions. You can’t blame parents for not wanting to push their 7 year olds into being good at something they’re not just because of an unfounded fear that Gen Ed is some kind of wasteland. Stop playing on people’s fears and making them feel guilty. Kids with involved parents will be good either way. |