Wife had Affair with Coworker

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife cheated on me and it is horrible. Everyday is so hard. So much harder being the man.

Divorce her an leave her with nothing if you can prove the adultery

after an anger F@#k...make plans , just get up & walk out

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
You do realize that affairs can go undetected? And that many people stay together after affairs? Kids have nothing to do with it.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/quote/255/15500105.page
I beg to differ with your "kids have nothing to do with it" comment. You can't say you aren't RISKING your kids finding out. Nothing is assured in an affair. You can't say for certain that your AP won't develop feelings and spill the beans, just as you can't say for certain that no one else will find out and spill the beans or a myriad of other ways the beans can be spilled and the kids end up being hurt. If you want to have an affair I can't stop you. But if you are going to say you aren't risking pain for your kids I'm going to call bullshit.

Right?! It amazes me that people don't realize this. ESPECIALLY affairs with co-workers. Cheaters: You often aren't as clever or sly as you think you are.

Here’s the thing: AP partners figure they are away on business and in the clear. They go to a nice restaurant. Or they walk along a cute street and stop for coffee. Somewhere there is a kiss because hey, no one knows us here. Except the neighbor has business there too and he sees and now you have problems.

Only an idiot would see their AP in public.

[Anonymous]

The OP has never returned to this thread has he?

[Anonymous]

No I think it was a troll.

[Anonymous]

Tell her. Would you want to know? I would.

[Anonymous]

she will cheat again. get rid of her

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:she will cheat again. get rid of her

Get rid of her...why? It must be nice to have a spouse who still likes sex.

[Anonymous]

This happened to me. The only way you will be able to reconcile is if your spouse is truly remorseful, provides full disclosure, and fully commits to reengaging in the relationship. There can be absolutely no contact with the AP. Mine did not so we had to divorce. Best of luck!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife cheated on me and it is horrible. Everyday is so hard. So much harder being the man.

Divorce her an leave her with nothing if you can prove the adultery

Most judges just don’t care about adultery. They work for what is best for the kids.

[Anonymous]

must be talking about David Poage at Krogers , runs with everything he can, and get away with it