What’s the end game plan for a cheating husband?

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Anonymous wrote:My plan was to have sex with someone who wanted to have sex with me. Yes, to have my cake and eat it too. There was no plan, it was short-term pleasure and filling a need that wasn't filled in my marriage.

it's not complicated.

Is it really that hard for men to keep their ding dong in their pants?

Honestly, yes. Monogamy is really, really hard for men. Some are better at it than others.

As usual, all Comme ts are directed at the motivations of men, as if women don't have the same needs. I can assure you, there are just as many cheating women out there as cheating men.

No there really aren't. Not even close.

You base your statement on..what? I've been in affairs for nearly ten years and won't brag to you how many women I've been with. I assure you, there is no shortage. Just as many women want an affair as men. That surprised me at first. I also found plenty of single women who were happy to have a short-term affair which was a bigger surprise. They were the best because I stayed at their house. The very first woman I met within the first week of being on AshleyMadison was single. It was awesome until she went back to her BF. Was kind of a revenge affair for her.

Bottom line, you really don't know what your talking about. I do. I've lived it.

NP. What is your endgame in responding to this? This is a person who can't see the forest for the trees. You know you sound like an a-hole for cheating for so many years that you can make a claim that people cheat with strangers vs. someone they know. Also, your experience may not be statistically representative and so what's the point?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Option 1: Divorce, divide family time, assets, probably have to sell the kids home, have trouble paying for their college, possibly lose social standing, put the kids on a custody schedule.

Option 2: Hopefully avoid all of this, and find someone to satisfy a need that is neglected in the marriage, stay married and sane.

It's this simple. And to the extend you expect men to have a sense of loyalty to not cheat, I promise you they will never feel a sense of sexual fidelity to someone they aren't having sex with.

Most are having sex. Marriages have phases. Not every moment is a Hollywood romance.

This! My husband and I were having sex. He just wanted more

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Option 1: Divorce, divide family time, assets, probably have to sell the kids home, have trouble paying for their college, possibly lose social standing, put the kids on a custody schedule.

Option 2: Hopefully avoid all of this, and find someone to satisfy a need that is neglected in the marriage, stay married and sane.

It's this simple. And to the extend you expect men to have a sense of loyalty to not cheat, I promise you they will never feel a sense of sexual fidelity to someone they aren't having sex with.

Most are having sex. Marriages have phases. Not every moment is a Hollywood romance.

This! My husband and I were having sex. He just wanted more

Sigh. Me too, Sister. Me too. Weekly.

[Anonymous]

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You base your statement on..what? I've been in affairs for nearly ten years and won't brag to you how many women I've been with. I assure you, there is no shortage. Just as many women want an affair as men. That surprised me at first. I also found plenty of single women who were happy to have a short-term affair which was a bigger surprise. They were the best because I stayed at their house. The very first woman I met within the first week of being on AshleyMadison was single. It was awesome until she went back to her BF. Was kind of a revenge affair for her.

Bottom line, you really don't know what your talking about. I do. I've lived it.

This is literally vomit-inducing that you hold yourself out as an expert on affairs. You are as emotionally shallow as a mud puddle.

Not an expert, just a lot more expert than someone making statements that have no basis in their experience.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My plan was to have sex with someone who wanted to have sex with me. Yes, to have my cake and eat it too. There was no plan, it was short-term pleasure and filling a need that wasn't filled in my marriage.

it's not complicated.

Is it really that hard for men to keep their ding dong in their pants?

Honestly, yes. Monogamy is really, really hard for men. Some are better at it than others.

As usual, all Comme ts are directed at the motivations of men, as if women don't have the same needs. I can assure you, there are just as many cheating women out there as cheating men.

No there really aren't. Not even close.

You base your statement on..what? I've been in affairs for nearly ten years and won't brag to you how many women I've been with. I assure you, there is no shortage. Just as many women want an affair as men. That surprised me at first. I also found plenty of single women who were happy to have a short-term affair which was a bigger surprise. They were the best because I stayed at their house. The very first woman I met within the first week of being on AshleyMadison was single. It was awesome until she went back to her BF. Was kind of a revenge affair for her.

Bottom line, you really don't know what your talking about. I do. I've lived it.

NP. What is your endgame in responding to this? This is a person who can't see the forest for the trees. You know you sound like an a-hole for cheating for so many years that you can make a claim that people cheat with strangers vs. someone they know. Also, your experience may not be statistically representative and so what's the point?

OK, let me try again. I was responding to this, I can assure you, there are just as many cheating women out there as cheating men.
. This statement is obviously made by someone with no experience in the subject, where as I have some. That's as "statistically representative" as anything else posted here. I post my own experiences, not a bunch of bullshit statistics someone copy/pasted or just pulled out of their ass. I assure you, there is no shortage of women who are looking for an affair. I'm not: young, hot, in great shape, or rich and I do just fine.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My plan was to have sex with someone who wanted to have sex with me. Yes, to have my cake and eat it too. There was no plan, it was short-term pleasure and filling a need that wasn't filled in my marriage.

it's not complicated.

Is it really that hard for men to keep their ding dong in their pants?

Honestly, yes. Monogamy is really, really hard for men. Some are better at it than others.

As usual, all Comme ts are directed at the motivations of men, as if women don't have the same needs. I can assure you, there are just as many cheating women out there as cheating men.

No there really aren't. Not even close.

You base your statement on..what? I've been in affairs for nearly ten years and won't brag to you how many women I've been with. I assure you, there is no shortage. Just as many women want an affair as men. That surprised me at first. I also found plenty of single women who were happy to have a short-term affair which was a bigger surprise. They were the best because I stayed at their house. The very first woman I met within the first week of being on AshleyMadison was single. It was awesome until she went back to her BF. Was kind of a revenge affair for her.

Bottom line, you really don't know what your talking about. I do. I've lived it.

NP. What is your endgame in responding to this? This is a person who can't see the forest for the trees. You know you sound like an a-hole for cheating for so many years that you can make a claim that people cheat with strangers vs. someone they know. Also, your experience may not be statistically representative and so what's the point?

OK, let me try again. I was responding to this, I can assure you, there are just as many cheating women out there as cheating men.
. This statement is obviously made by someone with no experience in the subject, where as I have some. That's as "statistically representative" as anything else posted here. I post my own experiences, not a bunch of bullshit statistics someone copy/pasted or just pulled out of their ass. I assure you, there is no shortage of women who are looking for an affair. I'm not: young, hot, in great shape, or rich and I do just fine.

Correction, I was responding to the statement, "not even close."