Affair-proof your marriage

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I posted this on the cheaters thread and thought others may find it interesting. It is very simple. Marriage is an enormous financial burden and investment for men. For a man to put everything at stake to have an affair, it just tells me how unhappy he must be in his marriage. The following advice has helped myself and at least two women I know save their marriages:

- Love and respect your husband- Men are not like women. Respect and admiration is like OXYGEN to them. They want to be admired and looked up to by their women. It is in their DNA. Praise him. Tell him how accomplished and successful he is. Men are like children who want to impress you and seek your approval.

- Frequent sex- If you don't sleep with him he will find 5 other younger and hotter girls on Tinder who gladly will.

-Stop criticizing him-What may seem like a simple suggestion to you reads like criticism to him. Over time it builds up and he thinks you do not like or respect him. It makes him feel emasculated.

-Let him has his way sometimes. He always lets you have yours.

- Be feminine- Do your hair. shave your legs. Sometimes he wants to see the girl he fell in love with

I would be willing to bet that there is no man who would willingly step out on a happy and healthy marriage.

Omg, did you marry a child? So sorry.

[Anonymous]

Is that you, Dr. Laura?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is that you, Dr. Laura?

Haha, I thought the same thing. Such an awful woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women cheat in rates that rival men in 2021.

Why don’t you give him a list, Ms. 1950s?

1) affection
2) honesty and openness
3) conversation
4) family commitment
5) financia support

So women don’t need sex ?

God you are pathetic.

Not according to the famous book "His Needs, Her Needs" by Dr. Willard Harley.
Sex for most women is more of a nice to have than a need.
For men, it is a NEED.

[Anonymous]

So apparently women don't want respect or admiration, they don't want or need sex, they don't care if you criticize them, they don't care whether their husband makes an effort to look nice, and apparently they always get their way. LOL.

Also LOL at marriage being an enormous financial investment and sacrifice for men. My husband doubled his HHI when he married me. Maybe if you don't work and your husband has to support you it's a sacrifice, but not always.

[Anonymous]

This is disgusting. Talking about placing blame with the wrong party

[Anonymous]

Oh eff off OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women cheat in rates that rival men in 2021.

Why don’t you give him a list, Ms. 1950s?

1) affection
2) honesty and openness
3) conversation
4) family commitment
5) financia support

So women don’t need sex ?

God you are pathetic.

Not according to the famous book "His Needs, Her Needs" by Dr. Willard Harley.
Sex for most women is more of a nice to have than a need.
For men, it is a NEED.

Dr. Willard Harley can go to hell.

[Anonymous]

OP your husband and I joke about you after we f*ck. Keep playing the good little wife.

[Anonymous]

Skip the BS and have as much sex as possible. If not, dogs will stray.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP your husband and I joke about you after we f*ck. Keep playing the good little wife.

+1

[Anonymous]

You can't affair proof your marriage. Both men and women can fall to temptation simply because they have a character flaw. Temptation is a powerful lure. Marriage is a real marathon and it takes an enormous amount of effort by both parties to keep it intact. But you can't affair proof it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
OP your husband and I joke about you after we f*ck. Keep playing the good little wife.

+1

This is equally disgusting. All your neighbors/coworkers/friends who know of your AP are also describing you as an immoral degenerate behind your back. But keep playing the good little cheater with no character.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
OP your husband and I joke about you after we f*ck. Keep playing the good little wife.

+1

This is equally disgusting. All your neighbors/coworkers/friends who know of your AP are also describing you as an immoral degenerate behind your back. But keep playing the good little cheater with no character.

Karen...who cares.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP your husband and I joke about you after we f*ck. Keep playing the good little wife.

+1

We have our fun at the Office so he can get home on time to eat the delicious home cooked meal you spent the day shopping for and preparing.