Interesting/Creative ways an affair has come to light

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Anonymous wrote:My H logged into our family apple account on his new phone.

It synced with my ipad and my son's iphone.

All his girlfriends texts went to our devices.

Yikes. I'm sorry.

Why would anyone link their phones to the apple account. Even without an affair, I don't want my kid reading my texts between my husband and I. There is such a thing as too much sharing.

It was unintentional. Settings can be changed when you get a new phone or make an update.

I got my spouse an iPad for birthday. He went to lengths to make sure his iMessages wouldn’t go through to it.

Couple months pass and he never used the iPad in a while but did update it regularly. One morning I was cleaning and saw the iPad and tried to use it bc he hadn’t been. Somehow his messages started to come back through again. I saw a bunch of numbers with no contact info coming up (it’s like it started downloading months worth of messages), to Craigslist ads and hookers for massages and blow jobs.

So wasn’t affair but cheating nonetheless. I was more shocked about how logistically he was able to pull it off.

So, you had his code and was snooping. It's the same as you using his phone, right?

He didn’t have a passcode. I sat with him in our living room as I helped him test that his messages wouldn’t go through when it was first purchased.

I also spoke with him days prior to discovery asking if I could start using iPad because he never did. He thought (as did I) his messages wouldn’t be going through, so he told me to go ahead.

And even if it was snooping I obviously had every right to do it ? Lol but thanks for trying to make me look like the one being in the wrong.

+1. Just say no to victim-blaming.

Exactly. If you can't use each others phone, computers etc. that's a big problem.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did not happen to me, but was an interesting story I heard: A friend's dog ate a pair of her panties from the hamper, and she had to take it to the vet for surgery to have them removed. Afterward the vet asked if she wanted her panties back, and she declined. The vet told her that undergarments were not an uncommon thing for dogs to eat. In one case the dog owner did ask to have the panties returned after the dog was operated on. She discovered her husband's affair when the returned item was not a pair that belonged to her.

Not true. Why would the AP's panties be in the hamper? If there were in the hamper, the AP left them there for her to discover.

Learn how to read.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Every person in PP’s story is an asshole: the APs, the mom, the grandmother, and PP. Trash.

I'm going to guess you're not even intelligent enough to detect the irony in your comment.

[Anonymous]

My husband’s AP told me at a playground our kids are siblings.

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My ex husband had an odd evening alarm set on his phone. It was set for a half hour before I usually got home. I asked and he said since I was working late for a project he wanted a reminder of when I’d be coming home. One night our system went down and I couldn’t get any more work done so I came home early. Turns out the alarm was for when his AP needed to leave so they wouldn’t get caught. He had the audacity to say when he got caught, “why didn’t you call and tell me you were coming home early?”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband’s AP told me at a playground our kids are siblings.

What???!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got a good one. Friend has very jealous girlfriend. We were on a trip together in another city with some other guys and were at a bar watching a major sporting event. He had been posting on Instagram about our meal and so on -- benign stuff. Our team scored an unexpected goal for the win and the whole bar erupted in cheers. Some random guy at another table made a panoramic video of the crowd erupting and posted it on Instagram. It turns out the video inadvertently showed my friend talking quite close and personal with another lady (cupping her ass, etc) for 1-2 seconds his panoramic video.

Since Instagram tagged the location/bar we were in, his girlfriend did a search on that location, found the random guy's video with the same tag, saw my friend in it, and that was that..

He was cupping some random womsn’s A$$ at a bar? Gross.

[Anonymous]

That seems pretty tame frankly.

[Anonymous]

I know a couple who own a bar/restaurant. They installed security cams to keep tabs on their employees and the cash register. He saw his wife being very inappropriate with one of the bartenders on the security camera.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Every person in PP’s story is an asshole: the APs, the mom, the grandmother, and PP. Trash.

I'm going to guess you're not even intelligent enough to detect the irony in your comment.

Sanctimommy, I’m sure you’ve got other threads to haunt.

[Anonymous]

My mom found a receipt in my dad’s jacket pocket. It was for a monogrammed baby blanket.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband’s AP told me at a playground our kids are siblings.

Wow

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex husband had an odd evening alarm set on his phone. It was set for a half hour before I usually got home. I asked and he said since I was working late for a project he wanted a reminder of when I’d be coming home. One night our system went down and I couldn’t get any more work done so I came home early. Turns out the alarm was for when his AP needed to leave so they wouldn’t get caught. He had the audacity to say when he got caught, “why didn’t you call and tell me you were coming home early?”

What a terrible human

[Anonymous]

Dh got elected president and all the stories came out.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did not happen to me, but was an interesting story I heard: A friend's dog ate a pair of her panties from the hamper, and she had to take it to the vet for surgery to have them removed. Afterward the vet asked if she wanted her panties back, and she declined. The vet told her that undergarments were not an uncommon thing for dogs to eat. In one case the dog owner did ask to have the panties returned after the dog was operated on. She discovered her husband's affair when the returned item was not a pair that belonged to her.

Not true. Why would the AP's panties be in the hamper? If there were in the hamper, the AP left them there for her to discover.

How did they know that the dog had eaten a panty if it was APs panty? Too many holes in the story.