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Right. I don't think there's any question that it's a "classist" term but calling it racist seems like a bit of a stretch. |
Outdoor furniture=outside indoor furniture=inside inside furniture that is outside=trashy |
exactly. white trash typicaclly has meant something like 'hillbilly' b/c they tended to be seen in the rural, often south: a low class, uneducated person but could an Indian or Black or Asian be 'white trash'? sure. ghetto is often imagined as a black person living in the inner city projects: also low class, uneducated. But could white, Indian, Asian be 'ghetto'? sure. Get over the semantics, people. |
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So I guess no one here belongs to an HOA that controls this kind of thing, right?
Because an HOA that says you can't store junked out cars on your front lawn is just being shallow and, "judging other people?" |
I think many HOA rules are shallow and just plain ridiculous. My opinion. |
The classism as well. The message is that working class rural whites are not as good as middle class educated whites. Some northern liberals love to give themselves permission to say bigoted things about working class whites but it's no different from the racial and ethnic slurs that they are so proud of not using. |
NP here. Yeah, I think calling someone "ghetto" as a slur because of how they dress or talk is also bigoted. |
Um, yeah. This is why I refused to look at homes with an HOA or similar. A good sign of a snotty neighborhood. |
Some are. But many are not. Let's be honest -- there's not a person here who wouldn't be at least somewhat concerned about the impact on property values if a neighbor was using their yard as a storage area for auto parts. |
OP is distressed about window treatments. Are they covered in HOA rules? |
OP used the example of sheets as window treatments to pose her larger question about behaviors that, "tell the world that you really have no pride in your house." She also talked about people who have piles of trash and junk piled up on their property. My neighborhood doesn't have an HOA but yes, I'm quite sure there are HOAs out there that cover these issues as well as most of the others referenced in this thread. |
When I first moved into my house I put up sheets before I could get my curtains and blinds up, in order to have a little privacy (or so I thought), but I was apparently just WT and I should have just paraded in front of my windows. Ditto her vendetta against paper shades. My family has always gone down to Pier I and gotten paper shades -- rice shades from Asia. I always thought they were funky and bohemian, but, sigh, here I am, WT again without knowing it. And when we were sleep training our children, we hung up blankets over the windows just for that week to make sure it was super dark in their rooms. Ohmigod -- inadvertent WT again. Do you think I should send a flier out to the neighbors, or maybe post an apology on the Listserv?
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This. I used to teach at an urban, inner city public high school and all the kids regardless of race would identify themselves or others as being 'ghetto'. |
It's pretty clear that this isn't what the OP meant. What's the point of being deliberately obtuse? |