Women are AWFUL to each other

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The worst are the pink hat-wearing, sisterhood, gem types that have no qualms about banging another woman’s husband, carrying on affairs. If you were truly for women you would not be inserting yourself into some other woman’s family. Period!

You get your badge revoked.

💯 exH’s married AP was like this. Such a fkkkkkkg hypocrite.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women who like to be absolutely horrific and abusive toward other women gravitate toward certain jobs. Head of HR or Chief People Officer or whatever they call it now, for one.

They’re mean people who think they’re career women but really couldn’t hack it in a real job. So they fill their days with bullying people and posting all their joke certificates from Ivy League schools on LinkedIn.

Congratulations 🎉 You have been nominated for Hypocrite in a Cyberstalking Role. 🙄

DP but it is very funny to me that you though the PP's fairly generic description was calling you out personally. Holy telling on yourself batman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What an odd thing to write.

Ha. Close the thread.

[Anonymous]

I believe this is something our misogynistic society has forced everyone to believe. In my life, 50% of my bosses were male and 50% female. My female bosses were excellent, supportive mentors who went to bat for me daily. My male bosses found “playful” was to denigrate me, ignore achievements, be unconcerned with my development. My female friends are all great, my male friends turns out all just wanted to f me.
Enough of this trope. Patriarchy is dying, let’s let the false and hateful narratives die with it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women who like to be absolutely horrific and abusive toward other women gravitate toward certain jobs. Head of HR or Chief People Officer or whatever they call it now, for one.

I've definitely noticed that half the people who are in jobs that are in a people helping role are actually the least kind people. They are in those jobs because they don't have natural balance and empathy themselves but want to be seen as good and kind by others. They tend to be in those types of jobs that require the least amount of work. Small volunteer jobs, HR, therapist, etc.

I have a married male relative who went to a female therapist who openly propositioned him. She was one of those rah-rah Girl Power types.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I believe this is something our misogynistic society has forced everyone to believe. In my life, 50% of my bosses were male and 50% female. My female bosses were excellent, supportive mentors who went to bat for me daily. My male bosses found “playful” was to denigrate me, ignore achievements, be unconcerned with my development. My female friends are all great, my male friends turns out all just wanted to f me.
Enough of this trope. Patriarchy is dying, let’s let the false and hateful narratives die with it.

Counterpoint: I've mostly worked for women and I'd say 80% of them have engaged in cruel, harmful behavior towards other women in the office. I've seen multiple female bosses show clear favoritism towards men on staff over women. The women I've worked for have been much more prone to gossiping in the workplace, and to using relational aggression (what some people call "mean girl" behavior) to control others, instead of direct communication.

I have some good female friends but I've definitely encountered meanness in female friendships, including once being totally ostracized by a group of women because one of them decided she didn't like me and everyone deferred to her.

When I was in my 20s and was raped by an ex-boyfriend, my female friends were not very supportive and were quickest to question whether it had really been rape ("I mean, you've had sex before" or "you knew what he was like, it's kind of on you for agreeing to be alone with him"). They also chose to remain friends with him even though that meant drifting away from me because after that I chose to avoid any situation where I would have to see him. But I had two male friends at the time who were the biggest support I had through that experience, and never second guessed me or blamed me for what happened. They also stopped being friend with my ex. And these friends never tried to sleep with me -- they are still friends of mine and have never been anything but gentlemen towards me. One is married and I' close friends with his wife. My husband is friends with them both. There are plenty of good men out there.

I think patriarchy is alive and well, and that one of the ways it operates is through women, who will sometimes treat each other poorly in order to elevate themselves. I think that's the main reason women mistreat each other -- to serve men. It is a very specific form of betrayal. But women have internalized misogyny just like men have and if you believe power lies with men, not women, then it is very easy for you to justify betraying women in order to be close to what you view as the "real" source of power -- men.

[Anonymous]

I agree OP. Whats crazier is that some of these women are so stupid they can't even imagine what the world would look like if women just banned together. It's really sad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women who like to be absolutely horrific and abusive toward other women gravitate toward certain jobs. Head of HR or Chief People Officer or whatever they call it now, for one.

They’re mean people who think they’re career women but really couldn’t hack it in a real job. So they fill their days with bullying people and posting all their joke certificates from Ivy League schools on LinkedIn.

Congratulations 🎉 You have been nominated for Hypocrite in a Cyberstalking Role. 🙄

DP but you do not need to be a cyberstalker to know exactly the type of woman that the PP is talking about. They're rampant in places like HR departments and nonprofits in DC.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What an odd thing to write.

Ha. Close the thread.

Thanks so much. I'll be here all week.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What an odd thing to write.

Example A.

It...it was a joke!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Leaving a woman dominated work place was the single best thing I have ever done for my mental health. My current office has close to a 50-50 balance and it is much better.

Definitely explains where the hate directed at SAHMs comes from. It is possibly a contributing factor for not wanting to return or even enter a workplace with such toxicity. Also explains a woman wanting to work in male-dominated fields. It’s exhausting to even imagine the stress and power struggle of it all.

[Anonymous]

I’m a man who has worked in the c suite for three commercial companies and leadership of a government agency in which the leadership in each was majority women. In each case, I watched these women tear each other down and backstab each other. The competitiveness and caddie behavior is fascinating to watch, if it wasn’t so counter productive. I’ve made it a rule to keep the drama at arms length while I sit back and observe the nonsense. Fake hugs and laughter until one of the leaves the room. Then I see how my wife’s “friend group” acts the same way. My personal observation supports OP - women are horrible to each other

[Anonymous]

Women will also vote for strict abortion standards until of course they want one.

[Anonymous]

You obviously need therapy. I am sorry that you feel wronged by the females in your family, but that is no reason to distrust the human race.

Really, get therapy to heal your misogynist tendencies. (My experiences with other women, for example, has been 98% positive. And if you look at the gender of those who start wars, commit interpersonal violence, molest children, abandon their families etc…I think the statistics speak for themselves).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women will also vote for strict abortion standards until of course they want one.

See men in power.