Women are AWFUL to each other

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What an odd thing to write.

+1

What's up with the women-hating?

With all the pedophiles mostly being men and the Epstein Files in the news, it's really weird to have this thread right now.

As a woman, I recognise that most predators nowadays are women. It’s actually sickening the amount of women that are attracted to prepubescent kids compared to men. I don’t let women around my kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women who like to be absolutely horrific and abusive toward other women gravitate toward certain jobs. Head of HR or Chief People Officer or whatever they call it now, for one.

I've definitely noticed that half the people who are in jobs that are in a people helping role are actually the least kind people. They are in those jobs because they don't have natural balance and empathy themselves but want to be seen as good and kind by others. They tend to be in those types of jobs that require the least amount of work. Small volunteer jobs, HR, therapist, etc.

I have a married male relative who went to a female therapist who openly propositioned him. She was one of those rah-rah Girl Power types.

My ex-husband’s therapist did that. And she encouraged an affair.

I’m the pp and wow, I wonder how widespread this is. In the case of my relative, it was super obvious as the therapist moved the session to her home and then openly asked him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women can also be nice to each other but the viciousness is always there and as a result you always have to be careful around women. I have a handful of women I can really trust at this point and I'm grateful for that but I've learned you have to be wary for a long time and some women you can never trust. My mom and sister, for instance, will do my dirty even now and that's how it's going to be for the rest of my life so I have to keep them at arms length.

Obviously the same is true for men, only some men are trustworthy and you really have to be careful. But I feel like people understand that intrinsically, that women have to be careful with men. There's a cultural narrative though that women are safe for each other and while that is definitely more true physically, it isn't true emotionally or psychologically at all and I actually think women are emotionally much more damaging to one another than men are to us. Men generally lack the emotional intelligence or will to twist the dagger.

Do you have a question?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The lack of solidarity amongst white women has always baffled me. I read that most white women voted for Trump because they resent other white women who don't support traditional gender norms. Having a career or degree is offensive.

Given that white women are the largest voting bloc in America, we are all at the mercy of this crazy civil war.

Where did you read this nonsense? Provide a link.

[Anonymous]

I work in a women dominated field and it's very true. Women can be terrible to each other. In my field there is very little room for advancement and it doesn't matter, the women are trying to take others down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I work in a women dominated field and it's very true. Women can be terrible to each other. In my field there is very little room for advancement and it doesn't matter, the women are trying to take others down.

Absolutely ridiculous. I have never seen this in the 7 jobs I’ve had. And the one job where 60% of the staff were female was infinitely better than the others. You all keep perpetuating this myth that women are the reason women are held back and it’s disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women can also be nice to each other but the viciousness is always there and as a result you always have to be careful around women. I have a handful of women I can really trust at this point and I'm grateful for that but I've learned you have to be wary for a long time and some women you can never trust. My mom and sister, for instance, will do my dirty even now and that's how it's going to be for the rest of my life so I have to keep them at arms length.

Obviously the same is true for men, only some men are trustworthy and you really have to be careful. But I feel like people understand that intrinsically, that women have to be careful with men. There's a cultural narrative though that women are safe for each other and while that is definitely more true physically, it isn't true emotionally or psychologically at all and I actually think women are emotionally much more damaging to one another than men are to us. Men generally lack the emotional intelligence or will to twist the dagger.

100% disagree. Are you just attempting to rile up the masses?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I work in a women dominated field and it's very true. Women can be terrible to each other. In my field there is very little room for advancement and it doesn't matter, the women are trying to take others down.

Absolutely ridiculous. I have never seen this in the 7 jobs I’ve had. And the one job where 60% of the staff were female was infinitely better than the others. You all keep perpetuating this myth that women are the reason women are held back and it’s disgusting.

Is your argument that women are all great to each other and exclusively help and support each other? And that women never tear each other down or judge each other unfairly or gossip about each other or put one another down? If so, I would like to present as evidence in opposition:

www.dcurbanmom.com

Good luck with the jury, dude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are awful to everyone.
Women tend to be awful to each other.

You're with the wrong kind of men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women who like to be absolutely horrific and abusive toward other women gravitate toward certain jobs. Head of HR or Chief People Officer or whatever they call it now, for one.

I've definitely noticed that half the people who are in jobs that are in a people helping role are actually the least kind people. They are in those jobs because they don't have natural balance and empathy themselves but want to be seen as good and kind by others. They tend to be in those types of jobs that require the least amount of work. Small volunteer jobs, HR, therapist, etc.

I have a married male relative who went to a female therapist who openly propositioned him. She was one of those rah-rah Girl Power types.

My ex-husband’s therapist did that. And she encouraged an affair.

I’m the pp and wow, I wonder how widespread this is. In the case of my relative, it was super obvious as the therapist moved the session to her home and then openly asked him.

A lot of therapists are totally fkkkkkd up themselves. The best are the 3 time divorced marriage counselors.

[Anonymous]

I'm a girl's girl. Most of my friends are the same. We follow girl code and value our girlfriends. But there are women we know who are not like this, and who bring drama. The guys in our circle invite them out, and occasionally it gets annoying. But in my experience it's maybe 10% of women who are like this.

[Anonymous]

[b]Too many petite women teasing younger women for having larger breasts than them. I had it happen at School and with my in laws.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are awful to everyone.
Women tend to be awful to each other.

That means that Women are bigots while men are fair minded.

[Anonymous]

The Coldplay other woman, the other woman in Belle Burden’s marriage—I don’t know, I expect more from women. If you are married and have kids, how could you possibly die that to another wife/mother ?!?!????

You get the sisterhood card revoked. You are not a girl’s girl or a feminist. You are not empowering or empathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The Coldplay other woman, the other woman in Belle Burden’s marriage—I don’t know, I expect more from women. If you are married and have kids, how could you possibly die that to another wife/mother ?!?!????

You get the sisterhood card revoked. You are not a girl’s girl or a feminist. You are not empowering or empathetic.

Yep. Total frauds. The OW in my marriage presented herself online (and in life) as a saint. She had her various mommy blogs, her family cook blog, everything about what a wonderful wife and mother she was….while lying and ditching the family any chance she could get for some D….even in her family home when she could shoo the rest of the family away.