Physical attraction at 60yo

[Anonymous]

Just please don't be my mom. She landed the BEST guy when she was 58, he was 64. He is smart, funny, kind, generous, very high EQ, warm, capable, so many things. They're still together but she has never stop making comments about his pot belly. He takes it in stride and loves her so deeply but I tell her to stop every chance I get

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would kindly but firmly suggest a GLP-1. They work wonders and are perfect for this kind of situation.

Or eat less. Is it really so hard not to be a fat-ass? This is a cultural problem. Plenty of other highly developed countries don't have the rampant obesity we have, and it's not because they're all taking drugs. For some reason, Americans don't want to accept the basic, indisputable, extremely well established scientific fact that if you eat more calories than you burn, you will gain weight and that the only way to lose way in a stable, lasting way is to reduce your caloric intake below the amount you burn.

Wow, you sound super-fun. Can we be friends? I promise I won't mention the fact that you may be the most judgmental, obtuse, mean person I've ever met. Although I'm sure you look way hotter than women half your age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It all depends on whether certain things work as they should.

Does it tho? I’m almost 50 and can’t bring myself to do it with anyone who’s overweight.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It all depends on whether certain things work as they should.

Does it tho? I’m almost 50 and can’t bring myself to do it with anyone who’s overweight.

Then don't. Who is forcing you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have a guy on the hook, reel him in. The sea is pretty empty the older you get.

This! Not many men in Late 50s, kind with nice personality AND a great bod is going to be interested in a 55 yo whose upside is she looks younger than she is. He has the whole sea and a few nearby ponds at his disposal.

Who THINKS she looks younger than she is....

Speak for yourself haha

Dcum would be shocked...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We are both late 50’s and recently divorced. I am fit and told I look younger. He looks his age with a dad bod. He’s funny and kind. Seems like a genuine good person. I wish he was in better shape but I’m otherwise very attracted to his eyes and smile and personality. I need some encouragement not to get hung up on this potbelly. I know I’m not perfect either. My cellulite and aging skin is not gonna get any better.

Start exercising together. Get some bikes or something. Cook for him.

Abs are made in the kitchen.

DO NOT NAG him as that's almost as bad as a man saying "you are getting fat!".

I'm sure you mean well, but your advice is insane. Exercising is not a means to losing weight, period. Abs are made 95% in the kitchen because belly fat is only the whole reason abs aren't visible. It doesn't take much to develop the ab muscles enough. What stands in the way is being fat. And the only solution to that is calorie reduction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have a guy on the hook, reel him in. The sea is pretty empty the older you get.

This! Not many men in Late 50s, kind with nice personality AND a great bod is going to be interested in a 55 yo whose upside is she looks younger than she is. He has the whole sea and a few nearby ponds at his disposal.

Who THINKS she looks younger than she is....

Speak for yourself haha

Dcum would be shocked...

At age 60, you are embarrassing OP.

[Anonymous]

What is your question?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you really like him otherwise, you might consider trying the “10 f***s rule.” Give it 10 tries to see if the attraction grows. I’m a little younger than you, OP, in my 50s, but at our age butterflies are pretty hard to come by. So are good men. It sounds like this one might be worth some effort.

Wow, I really wish DCUM was around when I was dating. Had no idea women thought like this.

Women actually fall in love after 2 months of active f..ng. Men fall in love almost instantly

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you really like him otherwise, you might consider trying the “10 f***s rule.” Give it 10 tries to see if the attraction grows. I’m a little younger than you, OP, in my 50s, but at our age butterflies are pretty hard to come by. So are good men. It sounds like this one might be worth some effort.

Wow, I really wish DCUM was around when I was dating. Had no idea women thought like this.

Women actually fall in love after 2 months of active f..ng. Men fall in love almost instantly

I can’t comment on women part but what you said about men is not true

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you really like him otherwise, you might consider trying the “10 f***s rule.” Give it 10 tries to see if the attraction grows. I’m a little younger than you, OP, in my 50s, but at our age butterflies are pretty hard to come by. So are good men. It sounds like this one might be worth some effort.

Wow, I really wish DCUM was around when I was dating. Had no idea women thought like this.

Women actually fall in love after 2 months of active f..ng. Men fall in love almost instantly

I can’t comment on women part but what you said about men is not true

When do men fall in love ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are both late 50’s and recently divorced. I am fit and told I look younger. He looks his age with a dad bod. He’s funny and kind. Seems like a genuine good person. I wish he was in better shape but I’m otherwise very attracted to his eyes and smile and personality. I need some encouragement not to get hung up on this potbelly. I know I’m not perfect either. My cellulite and aging skin is not gonna get any better.

Maybe this will help: People are lying when they tell you that you look younger than your age. Women constantly get smoke blown up their asses about their looks.

[Anonymous]

You are both moving in thd same direction, lady. Same direction. We are all not plastic Barbie doll versions of people. It's the energy we provide, not how we look. And you'll appreciate the same consideration later if at some time you actually have an illness or condition that doesn't allow you to be the best physical version of yourself. We all think that won't happ, but it happens.

Are you really going to let this great guy go because he isn't a model? A dad bod should be a turn on, not turn off. What if a man thought that about women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have a guy on the hook, reel him in. The sea is pretty empty the older you get.

Why? For what?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are both moving in thd same direction, lady. Same direction. We are all not plastic Barbie doll versions of people. It's the energy we provide, not how we look. And you'll appreciate the same consideration later if at some time you actually have an illness or condition that doesn't allow you to be the best physical version of yourself. We all think that won't happ, but it happens.

Are you really going to let this great guy go because he isn't a model? A dad bod should be a turn on, not turn off. What if a man thought that about women?

Well they would have sex with her anyway probably (spontaneous desire.) Women have a harder time when the physical attraction is off (responsive desire.)

Also, no, dad bods are not a turn on.