Dating Scene in DC

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:40 seems old to be excluding men who have been married before.

Work, the gym, volunteer/sports leagues. These are all places you can find men.

OP here

No, not excluding men who have been married. I hardly expect a guy to make it to 40 without at least one marriage.
I meant I have a preference for guys who are not CURRENTLY married!

Interestingly enough the open marriage scene seems to be alive and well in DC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:“Let’s keep the conversation relevant on topic.”

That is not a rule.

Btw, why on earth would you nice to dc now. Ir wasn’t great to begin with and you need to read and learn more about what is happening to the region now. At least try so you come in eyes open. Ask AI at least or get a digest

this topic will not be a primary concern

OP here-
What’s happening with the economy and current administration isn’t DC specific. It has ripple effects throughout the country. My work is fine. I’m not thrilled about what’s happening, but DC is an incredible city still with a lot of opportunities depending on what sector you’re in. I don’t work for the federal govt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men older than you are likely either married or in a committed relationship. Target younger guys, 32-38, a lot of them are still yet to settle

Younger guys don't want or date women above 40.

Women don't want to date old men, regardless of older or younger themselves.
If a 57 yo mediocre man is hopeful to get women in 40s I don't see any problem with OP going for men under 35

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men older than you are likely either married or in a committed relationship. Target younger guys, 32-38, a lot of them are still yet to settle

Younger guys don't want or date women above 40.

Women don't want to date old men, regardless of older or younger themselves.
If a 57 yo mediocre man is hopeful to get women in 40s I don't see any problem with OP going for men under 35

It is fine if she is hot and got her s**t together but I rarely see a younger guy with an older women unless she is very successful or attractive. There are a few rare cases but not the norm.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 43 and have gained some weight recently (above 190 +lbs) and have two older kids, 25 and 21 from a previous relationship that are out of home. I am good looking but have some medical issues as well. I am nurse and don't make much. Trying to get into the online dating soon and not sure how I see my prospects for a serious relationships. What are my chances?

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Depends what are your medical issues and how attractive you are, otherwise chances are low for you to get into a relationship in this area.

[Anonymous]

Why would a single guy never married date a 40 year old woman. She needs to look at divorced men in their 40s and 50s.

[Anonymous]

I’m turning 39. Im getting serious with my new man. I met him online a few months ago He’s divorced and 59. Wealthy doctor. Spoils me rotten. Some of us do get lucky.

[Anonymous]

Pick up a new sport or join a running club. Men usually outnumber women in sports.
Some options: pickleball or tennis or ( harder) : squash. Nice community at Squash on Fire or the University Club and lots of opportunities to mingle with single, successful men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m excited about moving to DC this summer, but having visited several times I’ve found most people to be bit cliquish.. which feels weird to be saying at the age of 40, but the DC crowd feels much less open than the Manhattan life I’m coming from. Definitely a lot more conservative in terms of style and vibe.


I’m not really one for meeting men at bars and I don’t want to date online if I can avoid it.

Where do the straight, successful, not already married, not crazy men hang out?

Yes DC people are unfriendly, not good looking but make up for that with big egos. It is not a great dating area.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 43 and have gained some weight recently (above 190 +lbs) and have two older kids, 25 and 21 from a previous relationship that are out of home. I am good looking but have some medical issues as well. I am nurse and don't make much. Trying to get into the online dating soon and not sure how I see my prospects for a serious relationships. What are my chances?

Not good reach for age 60+ moderate income

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:40 seems old to be excluding men who have been married before.

Work, the gym, volunteer/sports leagues. These are all places you can find men.

Op sounds delusional or could be dating out of her league. Unless she changes her mindset, she could end up being single for rest of her life.

I think she just means “currently unmarried” not “never married.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 43 and have gained some weight recently (above 190 +lbs) and have two older kids, 25 and 21 from a previous relationship that are out of home. I am good looking but have some medical issues as well. I am nurse and don't make much. Trying to get into the online dating soon and not sure how I see my prospects for a serious relationships. What are my chances?

Not good reach for age 60+ moderate income

Do men really have any sex life left after 60+? most of the women don't like to feel financially insecure and PP needs to understand that since nursing is not a high paying profession.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 43 and have gained some weight recently (above 190 +lbs) and have two older kids, 25 and 21 from a previous relationship that are out of home. I am good looking but have some medical issues as well. I am nurse and don't make much. Trying to get into the online dating soon and not sure how I see my prospects for a serious relationships. What are my chances?

How is your financial situation and can you handle your bills on your own or need help? Some heavier women carry themselves well but if self-image is an issue for you then it would come in the relationships.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men older than you are likely either married or in a committed relationship. Target younger guys, 32-38, a lot of them are still yet to settle

Younger guys don't want or date women above 40.

Women don't want to date old men, regardless of older or younger themselves.
If a 57 yo mediocre man is hopeful to get women in 40s I don't see any problem with OP going for men under 35

Only it is.

[Anonymous]

More so if he eventually wants kids.