How do I find a partner to have kids with? (Male 48)

[Anonymous]

I’m a 46 yo woman independently wealthy with one grown up child. Don’t want to remarry but want a permanent bf and one more child.

OP, if you are athletic over 5’10 tall and in dmv area drop your email here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 46 yo woman independently wealthy with one grown up child. Don’t want to remarry but want a permanent bf and one more child.

OP, if you are athletic over 5’10 tall and in dmv area drop your email here

Where is OP?? OP, here's your shot. ^

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced. I have two kids. I’m wealthy, good health (physical, mental), post grad education, have a good to great drama free coparenting relationship with the mom. I’d say I would be a decent catch for most 40+ women who are done with or not interested in more kids. Except that I do want more kids.

I do not want to get married again but I am not closed to the idea.

Yep. I do want to have a couple more kids. I’m very involved with my current kids (50/50 coparent 100% involved) and feel a lot of pride and joy in being a father.

What is the best way to go about finding a partner to have kids with? Ideally we live together as a loving couple and raise the kids as a family (preferably not married, but I’m open to the idea ) but I am also completely open to an arrangement of sorts where we split custody and raise them 50/50.

Obviously barriers are my own age and the fact that I already have kids. How do I overcome the rejections and find potential women who may be interested in someone like me and something like this.

No, the biggest barrier is that you're asking a woman to bring kids into a situation that is not optimal for them. You sound very selfish, OP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced. I have two kids. I’m wealthy, good health (physical, mental), post grad education, have a good to great drama free coparenting relationship with the mom. I’d say I would be a decent catch for most 40+ women who are done with or not interested in more kids. Except that I do want more kids.

I do not want to get married again but I am not closed to the idea.

Yep. I do want to have a couple more kids. I’m very involved with my current kids (50/50 coparent 100% involved) and feel a lot of pride and joy in being a father.

What is the best way to go about finding a partner to have kids with? Ideally we live together as a loving couple and raise the kids as a family (preferably not married, but I’m open to the idea ) but I am also completely open to an arrangement of sorts where we split custody and raise them 50/50.

Obviously barriers are my own age and the fact that I already have kids. How do I overcome the rejections and find potential women who may be interested in someone like me and something like this.

No, the biggest barrier is that you're asking a woman to bring kids into a situation that is not optimal for them. You sound very selfish, OP.

As opposed to the 80% of children who are raised in either divorced, single parent or dysfunctional but married family situations?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a 46 yo woman independently wealthy with one grown up child. Don’t want to remarry but want a permanent bf and one more child.

OP, if you are athletic over 5’10 tall and in dmv area drop your email here

Where is OP?? OP, here's your shot. ^

I miss the cut off by half an inch. Also 15lbs over ideal bmi. That makes me not athletic 😂 I don’t think my high income or net worth or generally good social emotional and mental health compensates for grown ass women looking for superficial attributes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 46 yo woman independently wealthy with one grown up child. Don’t want to remarry but want a permanent bf and one more child.

OP, if you are athletic over 5’10 tall and in dmv area drop your email here

Where is OP?? OP, here's your shot. ^

46? Your ship has sailed. Hopefully, you are wealthy enough for donor egg and IVF.

If you are wealthy, why do you need him anyways, just get a sperm donor. Troll!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 46 yo woman independently wealthy with one grown up child. Don’t want to remarry but want a permanent bf and one more child.

OP, if you are athletic over 5’10 tall and in dmv area drop your email here

Where is OP?? OP, here's your shot. ^

I miss the cut off by half an inch. Also 15lbs over ideal bmi. That makes me not athletic 😂 I don’t think my high income or net worth or generally good social emotional and mental health compensates for grown ass women looking for superficial attributes.

You want to have a baby with someone? It’s not superficial. You’re health and genetics matter. .

[Anonymous]

I think you should focus on adoption or fostering. Don’t try to shove parenting off onto a partner you are just interested in as baby factory. No partner wants that.
There are so many deserving babies and kids who need homes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced. I have two kids. I’m wealthy, good health (physical, mental), post grad education, have a good to great drama free coparenting relationship with the mom. I’d say I would be a decent catch for most 40+ women who are done with or not interested in more kids. Except that I do want more kids.

I do not want to get married again but I am not closed to the idea.

Yep. I do want to have a couple more kids. I’m very involved with my current kids (50/50 coparent 100% involved) and feel a lot of pride and joy in being a father.

What is the best way to go about finding a partner to have kids with? Ideally we live together as a loving couple and raise the kids as a family (preferably not married, but I’m open to the idea ) but I am also completely open to an arrangement of sorts where we split custody and raise them 50/50.

Obviously barriers are my own age and the fact that I already have kids. How do I overcome the rejections and find potential women who may be interested in someone like me and something like this.

There was a lady on this site a few days ago who said she was attractive mid thirties and dying to have kids!!! Have you reached out to her?

[Anonymous]

Is this you, Elon? Stop lying about your age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced. I have two kids. I’m wealthy, good health (physical, mental), post grad education, have a good to great drama free coparenting relationship with the mom. I’d say I would be a decent catch for most 40+ women who are done with or not interested in more kids. Except that I do want more kids.

I do not want to get married again but I am not closed to the idea.

Yep. I do want to have a couple more kids. I’m very involved with my current kids (50/50 coparent 100% involved) and feel a lot of pride and joy in being a father.

What is the best way to go about finding a partner to have kids with? Ideally we live together as a loving couple and raise the kids as a family (preferably not married, but I’m open to the idea ) but I am also completely open to an arrangement of sorts where we split custody and raise them 50/50.

Obviously barriers are my own age and the fact that I already have kids. How do I overcome the rejections and find potential women who may be interested in someone like me and something like this.

Let’s say you are 50 when your next kid is born. You would be 68 when s/he graduates from high school. Is that really what you want for your kid? My DH is 52 and we have a 16 year old son and 19 year old daughter. Last weekend, we had family over and they had a game of “dads v kids” in soccer. The kids smoked the dads. But DH and my BILs were able to get out there and hang out with their kids. I do think it’s important for you to be in decent physical shape and energy while you have minor kids in the house if you can. Obviously younger people can have health challenges and some 68 year olds could run rings around their teens. But probability is not on your side.

[Anonymous]

Women who want to have kids usually want to get married as well OP.

If you want to take care of more than the two kids you already have, you could try foster care. Or advertise yourself as a sperm donor for lesbians.

[Anonymous]

Where is the 38 year old woman who posted a few days ago?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 46 yo woman independently wealthy with one grown up child. Don’t want to remarry but want a permanent bf and one more child.

OP, if you are athletic over 5’10 tall and in dmv area drop your email here

He won’t. You’re too old for him. The “I want more kids” is just an excuse to partner with a younger woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a 46 yo woman independently wealthy with one grown up child. Don’t want to remarry but want a permanent bf and one more child.

OP, if you are athletic over 5’10 tall and in dmv area drop your email here

Where is OP?? OP, here's your shot. ^

I miss the cut off by half an inch. Also 15lbs over ideal bmi. That makes me not athletic 😂 I don’t think my high income or net worth or generally good social emotional and mental health compensates for grown ass women looking for superficial attributes.

You want to have a baby with someone? It’s not superficial. You’re health and genetics matter. .

I'm that 46 yo woman who posted my minimum requirements. I'm very fit, 5'8 BMI 20. The genetics (not overweight, good looking, grad degree) is very important to me as I can find a donor with these specs. Looks matter to me because I also need a great chemistry for him to be my boyfriend. Co-parenting is preferred vs donor sperm, as I want a responsible father in the long term picture and also someone who can take on 50% of all responsibilities.

I do sleep with gorgeous men, and had LTR with a man my age. However few men in their late 40s want more kids like I do.