Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner

[Anonymous]

The foreign spouse will leave you once they have their papers. Not necessarily but if the gap of attractiveness is too wide between the two of you ... Probably.

[Anonymous]

OP's writing style sounds like a troll that seems to frequent these boards now.

One of my female friends married a less attractive guy from Europe and they were able to go live in his country, and she and their children now have dual citizenship and socialized medicine. So that was a win win for her.

[Anonymous]

This is a challenging plan if you reside in the US. Long distance dating is going to be a pain, and if you bring her to the US, she will obviously change for the worse.

You should be focusing on the quality of women and not just their looks. In terms of quality, several countries blow American women out of the water. Think Colombia, not Scandinavia. If you move to one of these countries and actually integrate into their society, you can have a field day.

[Anonymous]

I thought “mail order bride” is an offensive sentence. Or is it acceptable to use among liberal DC crowd? Serious question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought “mail order bride” is an offensive sentence. Or is it acceptable to use among liberal DC crowd? Serious question.

Of course it's offensive, but so is the concept of western men using a dating service to find a bride in eastern europe

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought “mail order bride” is an offensive sentence. Or is it acceptable to use among liberal DC crowd? Serious question.

Of course it's offensive, but so is the concept of western men using a dating service to find a bride in eastern europe

What is wrong with both genders trying to find a partner online? Or are you just against men looking for a woman in Eastern European particularly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought “mail order bride” is an offensive sentence. Or is it acceptable to use among liberal DC crowd? Serious question.

Of course it's offensive, but so is the concept of western men using a dating service to find a bride in eastern europe

Oh no! How dare men looking for an Eastern European bride! Should be illegal to bring a hot woman into US. LOL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a challenging plan if you reside in the US. Long distance dating is going to be a pain, and if you bring her to the US, she will obviously change for the worse.

You should be focusing on the quality of women and not just their looks. In terms of quality, several countries blow American women out of the water. Think Colombia, not Scandinavia. If you move to one of these countries and actually integrate into their society, you can have a field day.

By quality, do you mean happy to be tradwives?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought “mail order bride” is an offensive sentence. Or is it acceptable to use among liberal DC crowd? Serious question.

Of course it's offensive, but so is the concept of western men using a dating service to find a bride in eastern europe

Oh no! How dare men looking for an Eastern European bride! Should be illegal to bring a hot woman into US. LOL.

It’s kinda gross to marry someone that you think will be 100% dependent on you and only willing to be with you because the economic or political system back home is so unbearable. But I’m rooting for the foreign women to get their papers and leave their unattractive American husbands as soon as legally possible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a challenging plan if you reside in the US. Long distance dating is going to be a pain, and if you bring her to the US, she will obviously change for the worse.

You should be focusing on the quality of women and not just their looks. In terms of quality, several countries blow American women out of the water. Think Colombia, not Scandinavia. If you move to one of these countries and actually integrate into their society, you can have a field day.

I find this comment outrageously problematic. American women are just fine, you incel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a challenging plan if you reside in the US. Long distance dating is going to be a pain, and if you bring her to the US, she will obviously change for the worse.

You should be focusing on the quality of women and not just their looks. In terms of quality, several countries blow American women out of the water. Think Colombia, not Scandinavia. If you move to one of these countries and actually integrate into their society, you can have a field day.

By quality, do you mean happy to be tradwives?

No anti-psychotic drugs
No farting in public
No fat rolls
No woke crazies
No sweat pants

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought “mail order bride” is an offensive sentence. Or is it acceptable to use among liberal DC crowd? Serious question.

I’m the one who said it and don’t worry, I’m a conservative. Didn’t vote Trump but you’ll reliably find Commentary and National Review in my mailbox.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought “mail order bride” is an offensive sentence. Or is it acceptable to use among liberal DC crowd? Serious question.

Of course it's offensive, but so is the concept of western men using a dating service to find a bride in eastern europe

Oh no! How dare men looking for an Eastern European bride! Should be illegal to bring a hot woman into US. LOL.

It’s kinda gross to marry someone that you think will be 100% dependent on you and only willing to be with you because the economic or political system back home is so unbearable. But I’m rooting for the foreign women to get their papers and leave their unattractive American husbands as soon as legally possible.

Then they bring their actual romantic interests over from their home country. It’s a common tale

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let's say someone is not attractive enough to get an American partner who they find attractive but can get a less desirable American partner. Should that person settle for the American or find a foreign spouse who is better looking? I used to think international dating was always a bad idea but I recently discovered that statistically these marriages are just as successful as marriages between two Americans. It's also common knowledge that being a citizen of the US or other first world country gives you an advantage in dating internationally. Why not leverage this to get the most desirable spouse? I'm not saying looks should be the only factor, but physical attraction is important.[/quote

No, not internationally. Only in poorer, less developed countries. You won't get more points for being American with, say, French or Italian women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a challenging plan if you reside in the US. Long distance dating is going to be a pain, and if you bring her to the US, she will obviously change for the worse.

You should be focusing on the quality of women and not just their looks. In terms of quality, several countries blow American women out of the water. Think Colombia, not Scandinavia. If you move to one of these countries and actually integrate into their society, you can have a field day.

By quality, do you mean happy to be tradwives?

No anti-psychotic drugs
No farting in public
No fat rolls
No woke crazies
No sweat pants

I commend you for honestly acknowledging you are unable to attract an American woman that doesn't have any of the above. If people correctly identified their place in the marriage market, there would be a lot less heartache in the world.