Thoughts on cub scouts

Anonymous
What are some scout alternatives?
Anonymous
Lots of oddballs and paedophilia
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:What are some scout alternatives?


https://campfire.org/

I don't see any councils in DC or VA but there are a few in MD
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:If you’d like to join an organization that basically did a sorry/not sorry on decades of sexual abuse then sure. If not, then no.


I know that they've cleaned house and changed their policies, but between this and the years of being anti-LGBTQ, I just couldn't do it
Same. It’s a surface sorry and I’m not convinced there’s been significant enough change or accountability.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:We tried it. Found it overly Christian, conservative, and a little backwards. Felt like something out of the 70's.


This. 100% this


As has been mentioned, the local organization is extremely "franchised". Churches only sponsor a small percentage of scout packs and dens. The majority of packs and dens are unaffiliated with churches or only conduct their meetings at churches with no church representation involved in the pack leadership. We belong to one of the non-affiliated packs and we've had a number of people who have switched from a nearby pack that was more church-managed.

The scouting experience varies greatly from pack to pack. As also mentioned, the pack leadership will make a completely difference experience from pack to pack.

The good thing about the current Scouts USA is that you can visit packs and attend meetings to get a feel for the leadership style, or you can join one pack and if the leadership style does not suit you, you can either ask around or you can visit around to find a pack that does suit your style. It is easy to switch packs without Scouts USA. We started by having our kids ask around kids at school and other activities until they found a pack that their friends and friends' parents liked (and we talked to the parents). Once we found a pack that we liked, we joined it and have been very pleased. Like the one PP said, our pack talked about religion in generic terms and for any religious requirements, they give the Scouts USA guidelines for religion to the parents and ask the parents to vouch for whether the scout has completed the sections on devotions. The devotion requirements are moral based and not religiously affiliated, so the parents get to decide how their scouts complete those sections within the guidelines. We have scouts of various faiths (including Judaic, Muslim, and atheistic) as members of our pack. And frankly, unless the parents say, most of the scouts, the pack does not know what faith, if any, the scouts follow.
Anonymous
The trump jamboree has ruined them for me. I don’t even buy popcorn or mulch anymore. Nothing against individual kids l, obviously, but the organization revolts me.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The trump jamboree has ruined them for me. I don’t even buy popcorn or mulch anymore. Nothing against individual kids l, obviously, but the organization revolts me.


Exactly the same for me. It wasn’t even that Trump was there (which is pretty bad in and of itself) but rather the weak response of the adult leaders when faced with the Trump brand of partisan hate against Obama.
Anonymous
The same old anti-BSA rants are so lame. So is the misrepresentation of the current youth protection practices and wide-open welcome to everyone. No organization is history has voluntarily declared bankruptcy to raise 2.3 billion to provide some sense of justice for those harmed in the 80s and before. Yes, that is indeed saying "sorry" and meaning it. Cub Scouts is an outstanding program, and just like Girl Scouts is always dependent on the quality of parent-leaders to provide a good experience. We have outstanding Cub Scout groups in the DMV that you can safely and confidently participate in.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The trump jamboree has ruined them for me. I don’t even buy popcorn or mulch anymore. Nothing against individual kids l, obviously, but the organization revolts me.


BSA has always invited the POTUS. The POTUS doesn't have to attend. Sometimes the POTUS appears by video, like Obama. Sometimes in person, like Clinton. Sometimes, the FLOTUS attends (like Nancy Reagan). BSA also issued an apology after Trump's comments.

Biden will be invited in 2023. Biden was also in Boy Scouts (as it was then called). Per photographs, he at least achieved the rank of First Class.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The trump jamboree has ruined them for me. I don’t even buy popcorn or mulch anymore. Nothing against individual kids l, obviously, but the organization revolts me.


BSA has always invited the POTUS. The POTUS doesn't have to attend. Sometimes the POTUS appears by video, like Obama. Sometimes in person, like Clinton. Sometimes, the FLOTUS attends (like Nancy Reagan). BSA also issued an apology after Trump's comments.

Biden will be invited in 2023. Biden was also in Boy Scouts (as it was then called). Per photographs, he at least achieved the rank of First Class.


Exactly. What more should they have done? It would be very politicized to NOT invite Trump if they had a standing policy of inviting every president. I cannot stand trump but do not want apolitical groups like Scouts to take political sides.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you’d like to join an organization that basically did a sorry/not sorry on decades of sexual abuse then sure. If not, then no.


I know that they've cleaned house and changed their policies, but between this and the years of being anti-LGBTQ, I just couldn't do it
Same. It’s a surface sorry and I’m not convinced there’s been significant enough change or accountability.


They have one of the strongest youth protection policies around and are now used as a model for other organizations. They have an open policy for LGBTQ members and leaders. If that is not enough change I do not know what is .
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you’d like to join an organization that basically did a sorry/not sorry on decades of sexual abuse then sure. If not, then no.


I know that they've cleaned house and changed their policies, but between this and the years of being anti-LGBTQ, I just couldn't do it
Same. It’s a surface sorry and I’m not convinced there’s been significant enough change or accountability.


They have one of the strongest youth protection policies around and are now used as a model for other organizations. They have an open policy for LGBTQ members and leaders. If that is not enough change I do not know what is .


They only did these things because they got caught. They knew and have always known. The call did not come from inside the house. Now they are moving money and assets around to keep them from the victims and while they ALLOW lgbt scouts and leaders (how kind of them to allow them) they still allow councils to exclude them if they wish. And they continue to withhold files and information. If they were sorry. If they were more concerned about the 82K abused boys they would behave very differently. The people who continue to make excuses for them are as repugnant as they are.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The same old anti-BSA rants are so lame. So is the misrepresentation of the current youth protection practices and wide-open welcome to everyone. No organization is history has voluntarily declared bankruptcy to raise 2.3 billion to provide some sense of justice for those harmed in the 80s and before. Yes, that is indeed saying "sorry" and meaning it. Cub Scouts is an outstanding program, and just like Girl Scouts is always dependent on the quality of parent-leaders to provide a good experience. We have outstanding Cub Scout groups in the DMV that you can safely and confidently participate in.


Every thread on this subject is the same old same old, mostly from people who have no current or former experience with scouts. My kids decided not to go into boy scouts, but they really did enjoy their time in cub scouts. Hiking, camping, pinewood derby, and generally being outdoors and having fun with other kids. What more could you ask for.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The same old anti-BSA rants are so lame. So is the misrepresentation of the current youth protection practices and wide-open welcome to everyone. No organization is history has voluntarily declared bankruptcy to raise 2.3 billion to provide some sense of justice for those harmed in the 80s and before. Yes, that is indeed saying "sorry" and meaning it. Cub Scouts is an outstanding program, and just like Girl Scouts is always dependent on the quality of parent-leaders to provide a good experience. We have outstanding Cub Scout groups in the DMV that you can safely and confidently participate in.


Every thread on this subject is the same old same old, mostly from people who have no current or former experience with scouts. My kids decided not to go into boy scouts, but they really did enjoy their time in cub scouts. Hiking, camping, pinewood derby, and generally being outdoors and having fun with other kids. What more could you ask for.


Not being around pedos
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The same old anti-BSA rants are so lame. So is the misrepresentation of the current youth protection practices and wide-open welcome to everyone. No organization is history has voluntarily declared bankruptcy to raise 2.3 billion to provide some sense of justice for those harmed in the 80s and before. Yes, that is indeed saying "sorry" and meaning it. Cub Scouts is an outstanding program, and just like Girl Scouts is always dependent on the quality of parent-leaders to provide a good experience. We have outstanding Cub Scout groups in the DMV that you can safely and confidently participate in.


Every thread on this subject is the same old same old, mostly from people who have no current or former experience with scouts. My kids decided not to go into boy scouts, but they really did enjoy their time in cub scouts. Hiking, camping, pinewood derby, and generally being outdoors and having fun with other kids. What more could you ask for.


I know. It is crazy. It is almost as if there are things that are, I dunno, unforgivable. 82 thousand boys! What the actual ..... is wrong with you that you would support or defend and organization that did this and continues to push back and obfuscate the truth and reparations. 82 thousand!!!
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