In looking for a partner, I am more concerned about their “aesthetic” than their looks/education
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Anonymous
| That’s not an aesthetic. A series of characteristics perhaps. |
Anonymous
| I check all of those except I have crooked teeth (small mouth problems) and not fashionable. Oh well. |
Anonymous
| Good at decorating really threw me for a loop |
Anonymous
|
sounds like your best bet is a gay man.
good luck! |
Anonymous
I’m a straight woman (I think). |
Anonymous
Hmm. This might be your issue. Youve intentionally created a list that will make it hard to find a straight male partner. Because maybe you don't actually want a male partner but for whatever reason don't want to admit that so instead you tell yourself and everyone else that you're looking but it's just do hard to find a guy who meets your needle in the haystack expectations. You can plausibly remain single and not have to confront your sexuality I think you should take some time to figure that out. I believe every adult before getting into a lifelong partnership should figure out their sexuality |
Anonymous
| Ok. |
Anonymous
| I'm pretty much what OP wants. I'm straight. People like me exist. |
Anonymous
You don’t need a husband you need a gay best friend. |
Anonymous
Pretty much OP. You have just described a perfect gay best friend. If you don't want to have sex, this would be a perfect marriage. |
Anonymous
Me too. I very much fit the bill unless the “environmentally conscious” requirement has to be an overt defining characteristic. Married to a woman and have kids. We do exist. |
Anonymous
| and... what do you bring the the relationship exactly?? |
Anonymous
You’ve lost 80% of heterosexual men with neat and organized. You might want to look into lesbianism or maybe men that have been in the military. |
Anonymous
| You're a control freak. Women with self-esteem don't want you. |
Anonymous
| You're a control freak. People with self-esteem don't want you. |