Husband refuses to allow our child to see unvaccinated family

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Choose your selfish sister who won’t wear a mask or be vaccinated even though she’s around someone who is immunocompromised. Or choose your husband who can’t help he has a chronic disease.

Someone who is immunocompromised should not be hanging out at a playground around dozens of unvaxxed strangers.

Even when he’s outdoors and socially distant? Again, not the same thing!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Choose your selfish sister who won’t wear a mask or be vaccinated even though she’s around someone who is immunocompromised. Or choose your husband who can’t help he has a chronic disease.

Someone who is immunocompromised should not be hanging out at a playground around dozens of unvaxxed strangers.

Even when he’s outdoors and socially distant? Again, not the same thing!

Apparently so, when it comes to the sister and sister's family!

[Anonymous]

I think your sister is being selfish not to vax, but your husband is being vindictive and irrational. If it was truly about the covid risk he wouldn’t take your kid to the park where there are plenty of unvaxed kids. While cases are low, there is very little risk meeting up outside.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell your sister to grow the f*ck up and get vaccinated.

And wear a mask around your family. It doesn’t matter if she agrees or not but that seems like a small price to see her nephew, especially until he can get vaccinated.

[Anonymous]

Team DH

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You tell your sister that your husband is high risk for infection so you have made a decision as a family to limit his and your son’s exposure to people who are not vaccinated as much as possible until the pandemic is over. Why do it have to be any more complicated than that?

This. He's under no obligation to risk his, or your child's, health for these ignoramuses.

+1 Don't throw your DH under the bus and blame him for your DC not seeing your sister. It's a family decision to prioritize his and your DC's health. Your sister's choices have consequences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You tell your sister that your husband is high risk for infection so you have made a decision as a family to limit his and your son’s exposure to people who are not vaccinated as much as possible until the pandemic is over. Why do it have to be any more complicated than that?

This. He's under no obligation to risk his, or your child's, health for these ignoramuses.

+1 Don't throw your DH under the bus and blame him for your DC not seeing your sister. It's a family decision to prioritize his and your DC's health. Your sister's choices have consequences.

Why is it ok for the dh to risk his, or his child's, health for the people on the playground?

[Anonymous]

If your child can wear a mask on the airplane, he can wear the mask around your sister. Work on this. Offer better rewards. Start with short duration of mask wearing and work your way up to longer periods. Many children had to mask for school - your child can do this (and has!).

OP, your husband may have strong feelings about this, but it’s not solely his decision to make, and there is some middle ground here. You and your son can wear KN95 masks and meet outdoors at a time of low transmission. He may not like your family, but you still get a say here, and he is already exposing your son to unvaxxed people on airplanes and playgrounds.

[Anonymous]

He’d have a point if it prevented transmission. But it doesn’t. So it’s a moot point on his end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’d have a point if it prevented transmission. But it doesn’t. So it’s a moot point on his end.

Exactly. This is about OP's husband wanting control. How else does he try to control you, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You tell your sister that your husband is high risk for infection so you have made a decision as a family to limit his and your son’s exposure to people who are not vaccinated as much as possible until the pandemic is over. Why do it have to be any more complicated than that?

This. He's under no obligation to risk his, or your child's, health for these ignoramuses.

+1 Don't throw your DH under the bus and blame him for your DC not seeing your sister. It's a family decision to prioritize his and your DC's health. Your sister's choices have consequences.

Why is it ok for the dh to risk his, or his child's, health for the people on the playground?

NP. Are you really this stupid?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You tell your sister that your husband is high risk for infection so you have made a decision as a family to limit his and your son’s exposure to people who are not vaccinated as much as possible until the pandemic is over. Why do it have to be any more complicated than that?

This. He's under no obligation to risk his, or your child's, health for these ignoramuses.

+1 Don't throw your DH under the bus and blame him for your DC not seeing your sister. It's a family decision to prioritize his and your DC's health. Your sister's choices have consequences.

Why is it ok for the dh to risk his, or his child's, health for the people on the playground?

NP. Are you really this stupid?

Clearly yes. I hope this is one person sockpuppeting vs multiple people demonstrating their low IQs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell your sister to grow the f*ck up and get vaccinated.

That part. Your husband has an autoimmune issue and you are worried about your sister’s feelings. She can pound sand.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell your sister to grow the f*ck up and get vaccinated.

She and her husband won’t. It’s in their character.

So does this mean that we will just never see them as a family, ever?!

So you want to bend your values because your sister is obstinate?
Actions have consequences.
There’s the stealth omicron wave coming so buckle up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell your sister to grow the f*ck up and get vaccinated.

You are an idiot. Have you gotten the 4th shot yet ?!?!