OMG. Faux pas of the century here...

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Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Take some baking classes together! You pay. A great baker will really warn about substitutions and get into all that persnickety shizzn like weighing flour and sifting. You both sound like your cool so relax.

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Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Take some baking classes together! You pay. A great baker will really warn about substitutions and get into all that persnickety shizzn like weighing flour and sifting. You both sound like your cool so relax.

That’s going way overboard.

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Op she may have replied that she’s okay; but she is likely incredibly hurt. You accidentally texted that to her; as far as she is probably concerned: what else have my “friends” been laughing at behind my back!?

I agree that you are not a good person; regardless of what you think. Learn something. If so many strangers say that this is immature and mean behavior, why not believe us?

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Anonymous wrote:That’s not a faux pas. That’s you being really, really mean about someone who took the time to bake for you. I would NEVER talk about my friends like that. And I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it either. You are toxic.

With respect, most friend groups have silly side jokes about their friends. You seem judgmental about this. I think it's super common.

No, that's not a silly side joke, that's mean spirited. I would never write you back.

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Anonymous wrote:That’s not a faux pas. That’s you being really, really mean about someone who took the time to bake for you. I would NEVER talk about my friends like that. And I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it either. You are toxic.

With respect, most friend groups have silly side jokes about their friends. You seem judgmental about this. I think it's super common.

No. It’s not common. It’s immature, middle school, mean girl behavior. Adults don’t behave like that.

Yes, they do. I have no fashion sense and it's a common joke. Adults definitely tease each other about their foibles.

Yes, they may tease their friends to their face but not behind their back. Grow up.

I have to say that people shouldn't be distributing rock-hard cupcakes. That's mean too!

Listen to the PP. you and your friends are immature b@tches. Most people Stop being mean behind peoples back’s in middle school.

You were wrong you got caught own up to it

You sound like the most un-fun person on the planet.

How old are you, OP?

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Anonymous wrote:That’s not a faux pas. That’s you being really, really mean about someone who took the time to bake for you. I would NEVER talk about my friends like that. And I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it either. You are toxic.

With respect, most friend groups have silly side jokes about their friends. You seem judgmental about this. I think it's super common.

No. It’s not common. It’s immature, middle school, mean girl behavior. Adults don’t behave like that.

Yes, they do. I have no fashion sense and it's a common joke. Adults definitely tease each other about their foibles.

Yes, they may tease their friends to their face but not behind their back. Grow up.

I have to say that people shouldn't be distributing rock-hard cupcakes. That's mean too!

Listen to the PP. you and your friends are immature b@tches. Most people Stop being mean behind peoples back’s in middle school.

You were wrong you got caught own up to it

You sound like the most un-fun person on the planet.

This exchange explains so much about you, OP. You're the drunk one at all the parties, aren't you? I hope your group drops like you and shuns you, you horrid b1tch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I saw the title Faux pass of the century" I thought I was about to read a post by a 16 year old girl. Not an adult.

I think OP and her friends are probably in their mid-20s, so you're not too far off.

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Anonymous wrote:Op she may have replied that she’s okay; but she is likely incredibly hurt. You accidentally texted that to her; as far as she is probably concerned: what else have my “friends” been laughing at behind my back!?

I agree that you are not a good person; regardless of what you think. Learn something. If so many strangers say that this is immature and mean behavior, why not believe us?

"I agree that you are not at a good person."

Based on an assessment of a stranger on a message board?
You have no idea about the fiber and fabric of a person based on a quick anecdote, and it's suspicious to claim you can summarize the whole of someone's moral character based on such things. Wow.

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Anonymous wrote:That’s not a faux pas. That’s you being really, really mean about someone who took the time to bake for you. I would NEVER talk about my friends like that. And I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it either. You are toxic.

With respect, most friend groups have silly side jokes about their friends. You seem judgmental about this. I think it's super common.

No. It’s not common. It’s immature, middle school, mean girl behavior. Adults don’t behave like that.

Yes, they do. I have no fashion sense and it's a common joke. Adults definitely tease each other about their foibles.

These are not remotely congruent. Your friend makes things for you as a gift. She spends her time and money on you. And in response, you say mean things. Your fashion sense of lack thereof is purely personal.

I’ll be surprised if your friend replies to you.

Yep. You took it many steps too far.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Take some baking classes together! You pay. A great baker will really warn about substitutions and get into all that persnickety shizzn like weighing flour and sifting. You both sound like your cool so relax.

Oh god, that would be even more mortifying for the poor well-intentioned baker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well she replied laughing and saying she knows she's a bad chef but tries and suggested we do chinese takeout on Friday.
I'm actually not a horrible person either ....

Glad she didn't take it personal. I don't think you are a horrible person and if I received that text by mistake, I'd laugh it off too. It isn't that big of deal or offensive.

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Anonymous wrote:Op she may have replied that she’s okay; but she is likely incredibly hurt. You accidentally texted that to her; as far as she is probably concerned: what else have my “friends” been laughing at behind my back!?

I agree that you are not a good person; regardless of what you think. Learn something. If so many strangers say that this is immature and mean behavior, why not believe us?

"I agree that you are not at a good person."

Based on an assessment of a stranger on a message board?
You have no idea about the fiber and fabric of a person based on a quick anecdote, and it's suspicious to claim you can summarize the whole of someone's moral character based on such things. Wow.

DP, I can't imagine EVER sending that nasty and mean-spirited text about a friend to another friend. So OP is either completely immature or a real B.

[Anonymous]

That's super cringe, OP, but no you are not a horrible person. Don't listen to all the harpies.

[Anonymous]

I don't think you're a horrible person, but I hope that you reciprocate these incredibly kind gestures when her birthday/ her partners birthday rolls around. I'd make it up to her by following through with flowers, or a card, or SOMETHING to make her feel special and loved on her special occasions. That's all she was trying to do.

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Anonymous wrote:That’s not a faux pas. That’s you being really, really mean about someone who took the time to bake for you. I would NEVER talk about my friends like that. And I wouldn’t allow anyone else to do it either. You are toxic.

With respect, most friend groups have silly side jokes about their friends. You seem judgmental about this. I think it's super common.

No. It’s not common. It’s immature, middle school, mean girl behavior. Adults don’t behave like that.

Yes, they do. I have no fashion sense and it's a common joke. Adults definitely tease each other about their foibles.

Yes, they may tease their friends to their face but not behind their back. Grow up.

I have to say that people shouldn't be distributing rock-hard cupcakes. That's mean too!

Listen to the PP. you and your friends are immature b@tches. Most people Stop being mean behind peoples back’s in middle school.

You were wrong you got caught own up to it

You sound like the most un-fun person on the planet.

This exchange explains so much about you, OP. You're the drunk one at all the parties, aren't you? I hope your group drops like you and shuns you, you horrid b1tch.

That was not OP - it was me. And you also sound delightful!